In some ways I want the answer to this to be yes.... I'm 16 weeks and baby is definitely alive and kicking, I listen to the heartbeat every 2-3 days with the Doppler. I'm desperate to buy stuff for him/her (pretty sure it's a boy due to 12 week scam and everything pointing that way!) However I'm refusing to allow myself to buy anything because I'm still worried I might miscarry or something will go dreadfully wrong. I wish I could snap out of this!