am i being unreasonable?! OH rant

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Hes so insensitive and moronish sometimes :mad: we wernt together long before we got pregnant, so obviously it was a shock and he didnt want me to have the baby at first. Which i understand completly, but its the way he acted. We broke up for almost 2 months (got back together officially last night) but UGH it pisses me of just thinking about it, and i cant NOT think about it. He seems to think me getting pregnant was all my fault, but hello both our faults? we obviously wernt carefull enough BUT i wouldnt change anything. So lets just start with yesterday because if i went into all of it i'd be awake all night. 1) We had a takeaway, i didnt order much and he ordered the most expensive stuff, and who ended up paying for it? not even the point, he didnt eat anything he ordered "huff". 2) He starts going on about his family (i havnt met them yet, nor do i want to, as his mother managed to get it into his head that the baby wasnt his for 2 months, and convinced him i was trapping him) saying how they told him "make sure she breast feeds" my decision is it not? 3) he brought a £300 tv and some sort of game that cost alot. HELOO more important things? 4) He was telling me how his boss said he was ruining his life bla bla bla, do i need to know that? and how his boss said "should have just done her up the ass" yeah thats real funny. 5) around the time im due hes on a cruise WHEYYYYYYYYY. because obviously being on some boat in the middle of nowhere doing nothing is more important then seeing your child for the first time. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. and OMG GRRR!! he said if its a boy its going to be HIS boy and he will make sure it wont turn out like me, and hes going to be pushed to his limits and whatever. Hes always going on about how i dont want anything out of life, OBVIOUSLY he doesnt know me and coming from the person that wants to live in the exact same place his whole life, guess hes not going to be too amused when i tell him i want to move to london after ive finished college in 2 years heyyy? and GRR lol! he said his dad wont like that im a fussy eater? wtf im not a fussy eater, im PREGNANT and i dont want to eat something thats going to make me throw up. Okay im done now sorry lool!!x
 
cor he does sound like hard work! Are you happy with him?

xxx
 
Without sounding rude lovely, why are you back with him!?!

You clearly deserve so much better than that! :hugs:
 
He sounds like a right tw*t to be honest sweetie! I'd think very carefully about whether you want to be with him. Sorry he's stressing you out this much xxxx
 
cor he does sound like hard work! Are you happy with him?

xxx

ohh he is, i am sometimes. When im with him i am but when he leaves i think about all the lil things he does and says and it sets me off lol x
 
lovie, please don't take this the wrong way but do you really want to be with him? From what you've written he sounds like a right arse biscuit, and also sounds like you think this too? I know you're pregnant with his child but life is WAY too short to be with someone that you're not 100% about.

Hope I haven't offended you :flower:
 
Without sounding rude lovely, why are you back with him!?!

You clearly deserve so much better than that! :hugs:

lool because he did the guilt trip thing, when he went home i felt like smacking my head against the wall and screaming "WHYYY" lool "/ x
 
He sounds like a right tw*t to be honest sweetie! I'd think very carefully about whether you want to be with him. Sorry he's stressing you out this much xxxx

well atleast now i know im not just being overly hormonal and bitchy! lol "/x
 
cor he does sound like hard work! Are you happy with him?

xxx

ohh he is, i am sometimes. When im with him i am but when he leaves i think about all the lil things he does and says and it sets me off lol x

I think the main thing is for you and bubs to be happy and healthy. If you think he can make you happy then I guess we do all tolerate the annoying habits of our OH's. But if it's only sometimes is it worth it? I think what I am trying to say is dont sell yourself short!

Hugs xxxx :hugs:
 
lovie, please don't take this the wrong way but do you really want to be with him? From what you've written he sounds like a right arse biscuit, and also sounds like you think this too? I know you're pregnant with his child but life is WAY too short to be with someone that you're not 100% about.

Hope I haven't offended you :flower:

noo i dont"/ haha "arse biscuit", i like that! i guess i just needed people to tell me i shouldnt be with him :/ and no you havnt offended me :hugs:xx
 
I think you're right to be fuming! I'd have punched him - no joke! If you don't want to be with him, the earlier you sort it all the better for you and baby hun. I know it's not as easy as all that though xxx
 
lovie, please don't take this the wrong way but do you really want to be with him? From what you've written he sounds like a right arse biscuit, and also sounds like you think this too? I know you're pregnant with his child but life is WAY too short to be with someone that you're not 100% about.

Hope I haven't offended you :flower:


sorry know this prob i not the right place but hahaha arse biscuit?? I like that :thumbup: that sounds like an accurate description!!
 
I think you're right to be fuming! I'd have punched him - no joke! If you don't want to be with him, the earlier you sort it all the better for you and baby hun. I know it's not as easy as all that though xxx

lool i would like to! i know hopefully everything will be sorted soon"/x
 
cor he does sound like hard work! Are you happy with him?

xxx

ohh he is, i am sometimes. When im with him i am but when he leaves i think about all the lil things he does and says and it sets me off lol x

I think the main thing is for you and bubs to be happy and healthy. If you think he can make you happy then I guess we do all tolerate the annoying habits of our OH's. But if it's only sometimes is it worth it? I think what I am trying to say is dont sell yourself short!

Hugs xxxx :hugs:

lol i dont think i can put up with him much longer without snapping badly, i can safely say hes the most irritating person ive ever met!x
 
sounds like u and bump can do alot better i wouldnt get back with him!
 
I think you're right to be fuming! I'd have punched him - no joke! If you don't want to be with him, the earlier you sort it all the better for you and baby hun. I know it's not as easy as all that though xxx

lool i would like to! i know hopefully everything will be sorted soon"/x

Well good luck and keep us updated :thumbup: x
 
cor he does sound like hard work! Are you happy with him?

xxx

ohh he is, i am sometimes. When im with him i am but when he leaves i think about all the lil things he does and says and it sets me off lol x

I think the main thing is for you and bubs to be happy and healthy. If you think he can make you happy then I guess we do all tolerate the annoying habits of our OH's. But if it's only sometimes is it worth it? I think what I am trying to say is dont sell yourself short!

Hugs xxxx :hugs:

lol i dont think i can put up with him much longer without snapping badly, i can safely say hes the most irritating person ive ever met!x


I think this statement sums everything up! Of course we all get irritated with our other halves (PUT THE MILK BACK IN THE FRIDGE AFTER YOU'VE USED IT!!) but sounds like it's way more than just bug bears (sp?).

Hope you can sort things out amicably and quickly! (his family sound like Butt Nuggets too btw :) )
 
Aw, hon. The other ladies are right on, I think...

:hugs:
 
cor he does sound like hard work! Are you happy with him?

xxx

ohh he is, i am sometimes. When im with him i am but when he leaves i think about all the lil things he does and says and it sets me off lol x

I think the main thing is for you and bubs to be happy and healthy. If you think he can make you happy then I guess we do all tolerate the annoying habits of our OH's. But if it's only sometimes is it worth it? I think what I am trying to say is dont sell yourself short!

Hugs xxxx :hugs:

lol i dont think i can put up with him much longer without snapping badly, i can safely say hes the most irritating person ive ever met!x


I think this statement sums everything up! Of course we all get irritated with our other halves (PUT THE MILK BACK IN THE FRIDGE AFTER YOU'VE USED IT!!) but sounds like it's way more than just bug bears (sp?).

Hope you can sort things out amicably and quickly! (his family sound like Butt Nuggets too btw :) )

haha, i know ive even put up with him when he stays round mine! i need space when i sleep cos i get hot, but he insists on ramming up againsts me and... breathing in my ear :growlmad: how annoying lol!

haha "butt nuggets" thats a good one lol, and yeah i know im dreading meeting them -_- x
 
cor he does sound like hard work! Are you happy with him?

xxx

ohh he is, i am sometimes. When im with him i am but when he leaves i think about all the lil things he does and says and it sets me off lol x

I think the main thing is for you and bubs to be happy and healthy. If you think he can make you happy then I guess we do all tolerate the annoying habits of our OH's. But if it's only sometimes is it worth it? I think what I am trying to say is dont sell yourself short!

Hugs xxxx :hugs:

lol i dont think i can put up with him much longer without snapping badly, i can safely say hes the most irritating person ive ever met!x


I think this statement sums everything up! Of course we all get irritated with our other halves (PUT THE MILK BACK IN THE FRIDGE AFTER YOU'VE USED IT!!) but sounds like it's way more than just bug bears (sp?).

Hope you can sort things out amicably and quickly! (his family sound like Butt Nuggets too btw :) )

Butt nuggets, hahaha another good one! You and shrimpy have really made me laugh thank you :thumbup:
 

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