Bumblebee24
Mummy July 2014 Rainbow
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Hi ladies,
My DD is 1 a week on Saturday & we didn't have the easiest start. Basic background; Emergency csection followed my 3-6months of sheer hell. I didn't take too well to motherhood at first. my daughter suffered badly with colic & reflux, which made feeding very difficult & she screamed constantly.
Any way that aside am loving motherhood, she's a very active little girl. She's on the go all the time & into everything. My husband does try but ....... He never really did any night feeds & I still pretty much do everything from working 2 & 1/2 days, looking after the house, our finances, cooking, cleaning, pretty much everything.
My heart is saying defo try for another baby in 3 or so years but am worried that it may put a strain on our relationship. Am questioning myself if I might cope better this time, but if baby no2 suffers like my DD did I just don't know how I'll get through.
We argue quite a bit at the moment regards house work, caring for our daughter etc but we do always make up. Ooo & there isn't much bedroom action which I dont think helps, but am just too tired. My hubby has always been so understanding & never pushes
I don't really no what question am asking or answers am looking for maybe is having a second baby the right thing to do.
My DD is 1 a week on Saturday & we didn't have the easiest start. Basic background; Emergency csection followed my 3-6months of sheer hell. I didn't take too well to motherhood at first. my daughter suffered badly with colic & reflux, which made feeding very difficult & she screamed constantly.
Any way that aside am loving motherhood, she's a very active little girl. She's on the go all the time & into everything. My husband does try but ....... He never really did any night feeds & I still pretty much do everything from working 2 & 1/2 days, looking after the house, our finances, cooking, cleaning, pretty much everything.
My heart is saying defo try for another baby in 3 or so years but am worried that it may put a strain on our relationship. Am questioning myself if I might cope better this time, but if baby no2 suffers like my DD did I just don't know how I'll get through.
We argue quite a bit at the moment regards house work, caring for our daughter etc but we do always make up. Ooo & there isn't much bedroom action which I dont think helps, but am just too tired. My hubby has always been so understanding & never pushes
I don't really no what question am asking or answers am looking for maybe is having a second baby the right thing to do.