am i doing the right thing advice plz???

[hani85]

i have been wanting to have another baby for the whole 2013....and hubby wasn't sure yet wanting to wait (our daughter is 19 months old). he finally gave me a date of jan 2014...but have just started a new job September and have a 6 month probation period....ending feb.
so am thinking to wait to try to conceive for march....so that means i wouldn't have to tell my job till june....i dnt wanna announce pregnancy when still in probation period....
so the qtn is should i stick to jan or move to march (btw am extremly brooooooody)

 

[comotion89]

I'd wait till your probation was over , what's two months? you've waitied this long already good luck with the job also

 

[Angelbaby_01]

I would also wait rather. 2 months would go very quickly. I am so broody right now, but it would also be better to wait a bit and be sure that we don't have unnecessary extra stress around our ttc time.

 

[aidensxmomma]

I have to agree with the other ladies and say wait. Two months isnt too long and then you wont have to stress over telling your employer.

 

[Button#]

I would wait so you don't have added stress around TTC

 

[itsnowmyturn]

I wud go for it, chances of falling in first month aren't great and even if u do ul be passed probation by the time ur ready to tell them anyway. Can I ask if ur UK or US, if UK then they cant not give u a contract just because ur pregnant u cud sue them, they wud have to prove that u did ur job badly for them to say they weren't giving u a contract, and besides as long as u plan to go back they have gained an employee.

Personally I wud go for it, I start TTC 11th Oct and I start a new job in Nov hopefully so I cud already be pregnant (altho highly unlikely) by the time I start. They aren't allowed to discriminate

 

[itsnowmyturn]

Ps I only ask UK or US because I don't no US laws not because its any different I honestly cudnt comment on their stuff

 

[hani85]

thank ladies, for the advise am in the UK....decided to wait it makes more sense. plus dnt want to find out am pregnant and start to worry n not be 100% happy