I just wanted to tell you all a few things and I hope it helps some of you.
I never got a positive on a OPK it was lighter than the control line but the only one that had come out darker than usual.
Also on the days around ov I didnt get any pain, my cervix was med/high firm but open and wet.
I only got a little bit of EWCM and knew then that I was ovulating, its like I knew deep down, I went with my gut instinct.
The only time I got a soft cervix was when I was half way through my last pregnancy, I have never had it any other time.
Noone is the same and I certainly wouldnt say that every women cervix goes soft, or even open very much when oving, though this is from my experience of course.
The signs after ov were thick cm, still open lower position for about 2 days, then spotting on day 4/5 which I think was implantation.
My cervix then went med/high and shut after implantation and stayed there but has got high sinse about 15 dpo.
I really do wish you all lovely ladies the very best! I pray that you all get your bfp very soon, you all really deserve it
