It's been 8 weeks since I had my little man, and I still can't bring myself to DTD. In my defence, I did NOT have a nice labour, had epistomy and ventouse, split open and had to be stiched up for nearly 3 hours, also bled alot after birth had a haemorage (can't spell ) which was 4 and a half pints of blood. But i'm pretty much healed now. I had a big ugly fold/scar down there (sorry TMI) But it doesnt seem to hurt anymore, used to hurt to do anything, walk, sit down, pee, stand... etc I'm scared of it hurting. I'm scared of all of my healed up cuts splitting. I'm scared of how different I must be down there........... Am I the only one who hasn't DTD yet?I want to. i want that intimacy back with my OH But whenever we've got anywhere close to eachother i just back off Im also TERRIFIED of becoming pregnant again, i'm on DEPO at the mo, and if i was to DTD id still make him wear a condom, i love my son and so happy we had him but the thought of falling pregnant again so soon scares the hell out of me... heeeelp me, i want to be ready, i dont know whats wrong with me!!