Gabrielle
Mum of 2! Pg with # 3!
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Ok so last month we werent ttc and had an accident and we decided we were going to try. Well i didnt end up preggo and i went to my ob/gyn and had a checkup and i told her we wanted to ttc. She said that we should wait because my pregnancies are so bad and i need to give my body a rest!
So..i went home and told hubby bout it and now he also decided we should wait for that reason as well is he would like our 7 month old to be a year before we start ttc. He says he would feel bad for our 3 year old when there would be two little ones.!
I said we dont have to try just not prevent, and i thought he was ok with that. We bd last night and we didnt prevent..and so i asked him afterwards if that is what we were going to do and he said he isnt going to try and get me preggo until the baby is one! and he was serious!!!!
I broke down and started crying and got so mad at him! I told him no more sex untill than and get use to fighting cause thats what were going to do untill than! I was mean to him all night and he said your only mean cause i wont get you pregnant. He was trying to be nice and i just wont give in!
AM i wrong?? i know i shouldnt be that way but you girls know whats you know your going to ttc and than someone tells you to wait! its impossible! Specially since i just joined this group and now want to get preggo with all you girls....and im so obsessive with this!
What do i do, i cant stop crying...what would you girls do?!?! Help me please...
I dont even want to eat anything.....and i couldnt sleep at all
So..i went home and told hubby bout it and now he also decided we should wait for that reason as well is he would like our 7 month old to be a year before we start ttc. He says he would feel bad for our 3 year old when there would be two little ones.!
I said we dont have to try just not prevent, and i thought he was ok with that. We bd last night and we didnt prevent..and so i asked him afterwards if that is what we were going to do and he said he isnt going to try and get me preggo until the baby is one! and he was serious!!!!
I broke down and started crying and got so mad at him! I told him no more sex untill than and get use to fighting cause thats what were going to do untill than! I was mean to him all night and he said your only mean cause i wont get you pregnant. He was trying to be nice and i just wont give in!
AM i wrong?? i know i shouldnt be that way but you girls know whats you know your going to ttc and than someone tells you to wait! its impossible! Specially since i just joined this group and now want to get preggo with all you girls....and im so obsessive with this!
What do i do, i cant stop crying...what would you girls do?!?! Help me please...
I dont even want to eat anything.....and i couldnt sleep at all