Am Not A Fukin Baby !!

[Jayden'sMummy]

Hi Rachel,

When I was in HS, a good friend of mine got pregnant at 15 and had her son at 16. She had to leave school but now has a beautiful 12 year old son and she is a great mother to him. Age means nothing. As long as you love your child, that is all that matters. I wish you all the luck in the world and I am sure things will be okay for you.

Please try your best not to let stupid people get to you, ok?

Sarah

Thank you, am tryin hard not to listen just, things not so easy at the minute and i no there not gonna get easier so i best deal with it. xx

 

[Tilly]

lol my mum always says to Bethanie "your mummy is my baby" and get's all Hovis about it.

 

[Ellianna]

lol my mum always says to Bethanie "your mummy is my baby" and get's all Hovis about it.

'get's all Hovis about it'
Thats brilliant lol love it
All these people are right Racheal, you know we are! Just hang in there ok huni?
xx

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

lol my mum always says to Bethanie "your mummy is my baby" and get's all Hovis about it.

Lol my mum only just gettin used to the fact shes goin to be a nanny agen lol

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

'get's all Hovis about it'
Thats brilliant lol love it
All these people are right Racheal, you know we are! Just hang in there ok huni?
xx

deep down i no yous are right its just gettin it to stick in me ed is the problem lol, you shud no wa am like by now

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

My mum keeps saying her baby is having a baby. I've never really taken it as a negative thing though. When I'm 30 I'll still be a baby to my mum. Have things calmed down abit now?

Am calmer than what i was before anyway, am sorry that i keep coming o nhere and rantin like this you lot must think am a propa stress case haha

 

[Serene123]

At the end of the day when that babies in your arms and they can see how much you're going to love them, none of this stuff is going to matter anymore

 

[Serene123]

Nah, I know how you feel, my sister called me stupid and I wanted to deck her! She was pregnant at 16 herself so she's one to talk.

 

[Ellianna]

Ha when I told Cal I was pregnant he was like 'No you're not' I was just like 'Ummm ok but actually I am' and he was like 'How can you be, you're only 17!' like he thought it was impossible for 17 year olds to even get pregnant.
My other brothers were VERY not impressed! But one by one they have got used to the idea and none of them have said anything to bad to me... yet!
At the end of the day it's us who's gona have the baby, us who's gona be there to feed them, look after them, love them. Nobody else can have a problem with that because its none of their buisness and nothing to do with them!
Ranting is what we're here for. Besides, it gives us a chance to rant as well which is always good! I'd feel bad if I was the only one! lol
xx

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

Nah, I know how you feel, my sister called me stupid and I wanted to deck her! She was pregnant at 16 herself so she's one to talk.

Lol i always thought my sister would be first to get pregnant. my sister told me a few truths about how she really feels about me bein pregnant n it really hurt but i suppose shes in shock too, or am just stickin up for er like always lol

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

Ha when I told Cal I was pregnant he was like 'No you're not' I was just like 'Ummm ok but actually I am' and he was like 'How can you be, you're only 17!' like he thought it was impossible for 17 year olds to even get pregnant.
My other brothers were VERY not impressed! But one by one they have got used to the idea and none of them have said anything to bad to me... yet!
At the end of the day it's us who's gona have the baby, us who's gona be there to feed them, look after them, love them. Nobody else can have a problem with that because its none of their buisness and nothing to do with them!
Ranting is what we're here for. Besides, it gives us a chance to rant as well which is always good! I'd feel bad if I was the only one! lol
xx

Lol i was lucky, my brother was made up for me which was a shock i was expectin a least a slap or 5 haha!!

thanks for tlkin to me bout evryfink xx

 

[Serene123]

my older sister ran away when she was younger and got pregnant.. she had a miscarriage though.. when i told her i was pregnant i was really happy and she sed "you're an idiot, having a miscarriage was the best thing that ever happened to me." i had to hang up i couldn't believe how heartless she was being. it was a lie. she was heartbroken when she lost her baby.

i thought my younger sister would get pregnant before me lol! my older brother is 35, he has two kids and a perfect life! his gf had their first at 18 and they have the perfect little family now. things can work out for anyone.

My brothers reaction to me being pregnant was "oh bloody hell." LOL

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

my older sister ran away when she was younger and got pregnant.. she had a miscarriage though.. when i told her i was pregnant i was really happy and she sed "you're an idiot, having a miscarriage was the best thing that ever happened to me." i had to hang up i couldn't believe how heartless she was being. it was a lie. she was heartbroken when she lost her baby.

i thought my younger sister would get pregnant before me lol! my older brother is 35, he has two kids and a perfect life! his gf had their first at 18 and they have the perfect little family now. things can work out for anyone.

My brothers reaction to me being pregnant was "oh bloody hell." LOL

Lmao mine was " haa your gonna b a fat cow " < only cos e noz am all wierd about me weight an stuff doe lol, es 19 n e still acts like es bar 10 n es gt a kid lmao, suppose its better to b tha way like, still a laugh wit im.

 

[Serene123]

hahaha u wont be fat ul b pregnant

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

Lmaoo people keep tellin me that, i dont feel that way at the min, jus feel like a white umpa lumpa lmaoo

 

[coccyx]

Rachel16, ignore the idiots , but listen to those who have some worthwhile experience which you might find useful in the future. People always think they have a right to comment. I am over 40 and pregnant with number 4, and have heard ' what do you want another for, you will never cope you are too old, didn't know people your age had sex etc etc. Sod off its my life !

 

[Sarah_16x]

Arwwww! my dad and mum dont say nought about me being pregnant they have split up tho and living in different houses and areas so realy with them i think its a thing of if i dont like it then she aint going to like me. so if my mum wasent cool with it then she would think i like me dad better then her if you get me. But i think my dads more cool with it then me mum

As for my grandad i went round my mums a couple of days after xmas and we was all at the table and my nan and grandad kept having a go at me saying im always siding with my dad. Which i admit i do he lives in a 1 bedroom bed sit with a toilet he has to share and a kitchen because of her. And my dads alot nicer (she kicked me out). My mum and sister always used to gang up on me. And i do side with my dad if i dont who can! (hes lost his mum and dad). And that night alot of things come out from my grandad which im glad it did it hurt inside but at least i know what he thinks of me......

These are some of the things he said its nothing to be proud of being preg at 16 i wasent going to talk to you but i thought i would give you another chance, Calling my baby a brat, saying i wont be a good mum well as good as, loads more but id rather keep it out my mind because it hurt that night i was crying and shakeing like you my dad had to come pick me up.

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

Rachel16, ignore the idiots , but listen to those who have some worthwhile experience which you might find useful in the future. People always think they have a right to comment. I am over 40 and pregnant with number 4, and have heard ' what do you want another for, you will never cope you are too old, didn't know people your age had sex etc etc. Sod off its my life !

Everyone on here will be great mums, no matter wa age its just different days i feel different towards me being pregnant, i guess am just scared in case am not a good mum. thanks for the advice and tha. wish it was as easy as saying sod off to people lol x

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

Arwwww! my dad and mum dont say nought about me being pregnant they have split up tho and living in different houses and areas so realy with them i think its a thing of if i dont like it then she aint going to like me. so if my mum wasent cool with it then she would think i like me dad better then her if you get me. But i think my dads more cool with it then me mum

As for my grandad i went round my mums a couple of days after xmas and we was all at the table and my nan and grandad kept having a go at me saying im always siding with my dad. Which i admit i do he lives in a 1 bedroom bed sit with a toilet he has to share and a kitchen because of her. And my dads alot nicer (she kicked me out). My mum and sister always used to gang up on me. And i do side with my dad if i dont who can! (hes lost his mum and dad). And that night alot of things come out from my grandad which im glad it did it hurt inside but at least i know what he thinks of me......

These are some of the things he said its nothing to be proud of being preg at 16 i wasent going to talk to you but i thought i would give you another chance, Calling my baby a brat, saying i wont be a good mum well as good as, loads more but id rather keep it out my mind because it hurt that night i was crying and shakeing like you my dad had to come pick me up.

Am avin a lot of trouble with my family but really the lot of them either need to deal with or just leave me alone. i need people to support me not to be against me right now its hard enough dealing with it all with out bumps dad never mind my family going against me too. you will be a great mum Sarah you know you will = ] and as far as your fellas mum is concerned tell her were to go you need your space too, its your life and its your baby xx

 

[mBLACK]

I was 14 when I got pregnant and one month away from 15.
and OH MY GOD it just gets worse as your bump grows bigger and bigger.. I'm getting advice from everybody left right and centre! People I don't even know telling me that I shouldn't keep the baby,
And every one of my friends telling me I'm stupid for keeping the baby
I'll keep this fcukin baby if i want to, haha
I guess you just have to get used to getting scolded by especially by the older people.
Doesn't anybody know it's rude nowadays ?