I just have to scream somewhere and I don't know where. I hope I don't offend anyone when I start to go off a little here!! I want to punch my sister sometimes....ok most of the time!!! I usually hide out from her because she is INSANE by all accounts of the word!!! She brought up my MC again and she is just so thoughtless and rude and UGH!!!!! When it happend did she tell me sorry?? NO! Hug me? Console me?? NO!! She told me that this was my sign that I shouldn't be having more children. That I was better off to lose it before it became a real baby. WTF? A real baby??? It was, it was 13 weeks along. It had a heartbeat, fingers and toes.....it was my baby. That isn't even the worst of it!!! She is saying that I will be fine because she knows how I feel since she terminated her pregnancy. Hello???!!!! You got rid of your baby. Something I have never judged her on because that is a personal decision and that is not my place but you cannot compare the two. You didn't want to be pregnant, I did!!!! You didn't pick out names and nursery decorations, I did!!!! It's all surfacing again because she thinks I am pressing my luck by TTC again. I have had a child since my MC that I had a hell of a pregnancy with (which she stated was my fault for wanting him). She thinks I am stupid for wanting another baby. I should just be happy with what I have!! Who are you??? She had a baby which was no problem.....her worry is I will have a girl and her daughter won't be the only one anymore. UGH!!! CHILDISH!!! Sorry for going off ladies....I just had to get it out......I am just so angry that she keeps bringing up what she did and comparing it to my MC. She thinks it is the same and it's not!! NOT NOT NOT!!