I had a bit of a serious convo about it all last night with DH and OMG I really dunno what he wants. He's wonderful but so confusing!!
When we got married, as you know, I wasn't well enough for a wedding reception. We went to a bar for half an hour then went to a hotel, just me and DH. We didn't have the Church stuff or photos or anything like that. We said that if I got better we'd renew our vows or have our marriage blessed. I'm not going to get better, I have a degenerative condition (we didn't understand that at the time).
DH says that he really wants me to have photos done, cause it's something that we didn't get done and it's something that's really important to me, so he wants that. then we sort of briefly discussed renewing our vows or getting our marriage blessed, pretty much secretly, with our closest friends and family there (just parents, or just parents and brothers and sisters, no kids etc). Told him to let me know soon so I can sort it out if we do, do that though, but it was a bit "oh..." out of the blue and I don't wanna get my hopes up.
He's wonderful, he really is, but in 7 years I don't think he's ever confussed me like this, lol.