Another Pregnancy Annoucement, and I'm Gutted!!!!!!!!!

[ces2008]

Well, today, DH best friend's wife just annouced that they are 12 week pregnant. After just getting married in December. I cant help but feel like my heart was just ripped out of my chest again! With every new annoucement, I hurt more and more.

DH keeps saying that we will have a baby eventually. IDK how much I truely belive that anymore. I try so hard to have faith, but I'm losing it all. We have been TTC 22 months, and I'm so used to being let down.

I find myself not being happy anymore for my friends and family. I'm having a hard time fighting back tears! IDK how much more I can take! I know that some of you have been TTC alot longer then me. Idk how you all do it!

Sorry for the rant. I needed to vent!

 

[PinkPeony]

Well, today, DH best friend's wife just annouced that they are 12 week pregnant. After just getting married in December. I cant help but feel like my heart was just ripped out of my chest again! With every new annoucement, I hurt more and more.

DH keeps saying that we will have a baby eventually. IDK how much I truely belive that anymore. I try so hard to have faith, but I'm losing it all. We have been TTC 22 months, and I'm so used to being let down.

I find myself not being happy anymore for my friends and family. I'm having a hard time fighting back tears! IDK how much more I can take! I know that some of you have been TTC alot longer then me. Idk how you all do it!

Sorry for the rant. I needed to vent!

God I had the exact same thing happen a couple weeks ago. Close friends & neighbors... They were TTC "uh I dunno ... A week? Tee hee!" Been watching us go thru this 2 years and don't even try to tell us in a sensitive way. I almost burst into tears right in front of them. It was awful! Saw them again last night at a party and I avoided them like the plague. I'm at the same point as you. I just can't imagine how it's ever going to happen. It's normal I think... I mean how many times can you do the same thing over and over and expect anything different? You'd have to be crazy. But in reality you do keep trying and eventually something will most likely work soI just hold onto that right now. But damn is it ever brutal watching ppl get what you've worked so hard for like it's the easiest thing in the world to do.

 

[ces2008]

Thanks! Glad to know Im not alone. Literally, in th past 2 months I have had 9 people announce pregnancy. I am excited for 3.
One, has been TTC 5 years. One, who I grew up with, has been TTC same length of time as me, and had 2 miscarriages. The other is my cousin, who has Chrons Disease, and wasnt even sure she could have kids.
Of the others, One, who already has 4 kids, keeps bitching that they "had sex once in 6 months and she got knocked up, Hubby must have done it one purpose." Another cant take care of herself, let alone a baby AND is 2 months along with someone she has been with for 2 months.
There is one friend (dh best friends sister, yes the same best friend whose wifes announcement prompted this thread), whose more like a sister, who has been TTC #2 for a few months, but doesnt ovulate on her own and Clomid is her last chance with what they can afford to do. Would be thrilled for her!
But when its someone who wasnt trying, I cant take it. The thing that makes me mad, is they know we have been trying and how long and how hard, and announced it on Facebook! Facebook! They couldnt text or call us?
Im so frustrated! DH, my mom and my sister keep urging me to keep going. They keep reminding me that I cant give up. That it WILL happen at some point. And that we will be that much happier when it does. Its easier said then done tho!

 

[tamithomas]

I'm so sorry to hear this. We have all been there with the frustration. Didn't want to RR. GL

 

[Molae06]

Its crazy how the world works. (Not to mention absolutely FRUSTRATING!) I dread pregnancy announcements, my heart drops every time, then I get extremely bitchy. When we were first TTC people weren't really getting pregnant ALL THE TIME the way it seems now. Just today I had a friends wife (who I just recently within the last couple days was discussing our IVF options with) told me she was going to shoot herself if this pregnancy lasted any longer (she is due in May). I wanted to punch her in her stupid pregnant face and tell her if this infertility and empty womb lasts much longer I am going to shoot myself! (kidding obviously) Best of luck to you in the coming months, hope we all get our BFP soon!

 

[donnarobinson]

Its so hard hun, people always seem to get pregnant around u when ur ttc and its heartbreaking , I do I have a baby but he was very much tried for 4 3 years and I do no how it feels to be heartbroken every month, and I'm not ttc again, 1 year far, I hope u all gt ur positvies soon x

 

[ces2008]

Thanks everyone! Yesterday was just a bad day for me! You all made me feel better, and smile!