It just feels like I'm Never gonna want it again . I have no interest and can't get in the mood . I don't even liked being cuddled or kissed . If i had my way I'd sleep in a different bed to my OH as I love my space at night . saying this I know that I love him and want to be with him so it's not that . We had a great sex life before LO and even At the start of my pregnancy but a bleed put our sex life on hold . I ended up with a third degree tear after LO and I was very reluctant to have sex after the idea of it was horrible . I did get over that and we have done it numerous times . But I can't get in the mood at all I do enjoy it while we r doing it though . We have had to use lube which we never had to before also . It's very frustrating as it is a strain on the relationship . I can't blame LO because she is so good and sttn. Does this get better or is it gone for good