Ghost
Mother of one :)
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I was just curious as I have my first of two classes this evening. To be honest I'm a little nervous as i dont know what to expect and I'm quite a shy person and am not too great at group things. My other question is how many people are able to come to the classes usually?. My classes are nhs led if that makes any difference. The reason I ask is that I am still living at home so should I go into labour and the early stages I will probably be at my parents house. It would be helpful if my mum knew what to expect or what she can do to help. She's been at births before but not been to the classes. My partner also works so If I go when he's in work then it'll take a good fourty mins before he's at my side. My partner obviously is the other person I'd want. If I had to pick between which one to come to the classes it would be him as he doesn't really have a clue about the whole process, he thinks its just like it is in films and won't watch birthing program's with me. He's had a nose at my books about birth but I'm scared ill throttle him if he's not supportive . The problem is with both of them is they are coming from two different veiwpoints; ie if I'm in agony my mum will help me get whatever birth drugs I need , whereas my partner has already told me he disagrees with me having gas or epidural for the baby's sake. Which I appreciate but I'm terrified as I'm really not the best when it comes to pain and I need for both of them to support me. Ideally I'd love for both of them to come to the class but I don't nhs will allow it?. Advice please , this pregnancy is really frying my brain.