I was the same. My daughter is so perfect why would I want anything different? When I found out I was having a boy I was so upset, boys like mud, and trucks, and once they turn 18 they leave home find a girlfriend and forget to ever call home again right? Well as it turns out yes he does like mud, and trucks, and luckily is still a good 17 or so years from moving out, but he's also a sweetie, with a big sense of humour, what's between his legs doesn't define his personality. I worried I wouldn't bond with him like I did with my daughter, and it did take longer to feel that same intensity, but I don't think that's because he's a boy, but because we were told our daughter would die before her first birthday, so there is an intensity to our feelings there due to what we went through in such a short period of time. If I pursude hubby to have a third, I do still have a preference for another girl, but I'd not cry if I was told boy again (I don't think, the idea of being outnumbered by rugby lovers in 10 years is a bit scary!) because what I now know is I love my children, be they boy or girl, they're still perfect.