Hi, I think I need help but am scared to get it. I have bad anxiety and ocd problems, I think I got the ocd from my mum, she would have problems turning off taps and checking doors so shed ask me and my sis to do it for her and as I've got older it always stayed with me. When I had my daughter 4yrs ago it got alot worse, I had my son 2yrs ago and now it's getting even worse, I have to lock up the house in a routine, it takes about 30 mins to check the windows and doors are closed in the kitchen, I've broken door handles cause I just can't stop checking them and pulling on them, I have to take pics of cooker and plugs so when I go bed I can check I did it, the windows are locked in the kitchen and I never open them but I still have to check them about 5 times before I convince myself they are shut. It's the same with our frontroom and bedrooms. Once my daughters asleep I go in and check her windows even though they are always locked. That normally takes 40 mins to check and it takes 10 mins to pull the curtains cause I convince myself that as I pull them I'm knocking the handles and they are opening. Also have to check switches and plugs. I have to go through this every night. I constantly wash hands. If I see numbers on TV I have to live rewind close my eyes and fast forward so it's like I've never seen it cause I'll convince myself something will happen to do with that number, I can't see any charity or illness on TV cause I'll worry that will happen to one of us.
If when I'm driving I pass a child who's on the pavement even if it's other side of the road I'll convince myself I've hit them and I have to keep driving and driving around till I know everything's ok.
Im fearclily protective of my children and I have to know they are OK at all times.
I must say I never do my obsessive checking while they are with me, I wait till they are in bed and can't see me checking things over and over again to the point that I burst into tears cause I just can't stop checking.
I do blame my mum for the obsessive checking cause I grew up watching her do it so I never want my kids watch me do it.
If when I'm driving I pass a child who's on the pavement even if it's other side of the road I'll convince myself I've hit them and I have to keep driving and driving around till I know everything's ok.
Im fearclily protective of my children and I have to know they are OK at all times.
I must say I never do my obsessive checking while they are with me, I wait till they are in bed and can't see me checking things over and over again to the point that I burst into tears cause I just can't stop checking.
I do blame my mum for the obsessive checking cause I grew up watching her do it so I never want my kids watch me do it.