waterlilly
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Hi ladies, I am sure people have done it billions of times... A little bit of a story. 1st and 2nd of ours are planned, and I really wanted #3 when the youngest was 1yo. My husband was not sure, but I felt incomplete with just 2! I didn't push him, trying to be wise. In January he said - why not? Let's do it! I was kind of a bit cooler to the idea, as the youngest is 2,5 now and becoming easier with every day... Anyway, then it happened! I am now 8 weeks. I was fine first 5 weeks with the thought of #3, but then my morning (read all day and night) sickness came with vomiting, headaches etc. I have got a demanding job, wcich requires travelling, speaking to massive audiences etc., and I feel like i can't do it now as well as I usually can! Tiredness and sickness really makes me feel like - do I really want it???????? It's awful, I know, and I am in hope that this will pass, and I will feel better soon. I can't say this to my husband as he would probably say - what did you think about earlier?! Anyway... Is anyone else felt the same way? Or I am in danger being really unpopular... How did you guys deal with this? I also worry about the family dynamics now - our 2 adore each other, how will the baby fit into this picture? Will they all get on well? How is it with 3 kids and both of us working full time? Is it a big move from 2 to 3? Or 1 to 2 is "bigger" change?
And of course, am I normal to have these doubts? Why don't I feel so excited and happy as I thought I would be?
And of course, am I normal to have these doubts? Why don't I feel so excited and happy as I thought I would be?