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[flowers123]

Hey, Im 17 and over christmas I started sleeping with this guy I knew. We had unprotected sex and now I think I may be pregnant. Ive had quite a lot of early pregnancy symptoms like going to the loo more often, tiredness, laziness, stomach cramps, constipation (!), feeling sick and heaving (but not actually being sick) and emotional.

I have to wait another week before I can find out whether Im pregnant or not and Im so scared. I dont even know which will scare me more, finding out that Im pregnant, or finding out that Im not pregnant?! I just feel so attached to something that might not even be there, and if I find out that it isnt, I dont know what Ill be like. My friend said to me today that she doesnt think Im preganant, so I shouldnt worry so much, and that hurt so much!

Does anyone think I might be pregant, or does this sound normal to you? Has anyone else ever felt this way?

 

[Ellianna]

They are pregnancy symptoms but there's only one way to tell if you're pregnant or not. I know it's horrible waiting but its the only thing you can do really.
It's a really difficult time but you will get through it, promise.

Hope it turns out ok, whatever happens.
If you want to chat then feel free to message me
xx

 

[Lauren-x]

Your friend can't say she doesn't think your not pregnant. Because you might be, but you might not be. Even if you had no symptoms at all you could still be pregnant just a symptomless lucky pregnancy . I feel sick, but like I want to be sick but I never go past their lol. There probably is a possibility your pregnant, have you missed a period? Or is it just symptoms making you think you are?

I hope you get the result you want, and having unprotected sex makes it an even higher chance of you being pregnant . If you find out you are or you aren't you will probably be upset. I was upset thinking why am I testing, I thought if I was wrong I'd feel stupid I don't even know why I thought that. I just have wierd thoughts lol.

 

[flowers123]

I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes I just stop and think to myself that I might just be being really stupid and over reacting. I havent misse a period yet. Its due sometime next week but Im not exactly sure when, and my periods are never regular anyway. So yeah, its mainly symptoms making me think Im pregnant. x

 

[YummyMummy2be]

Hi hun, how r u?
Like ellianna said u could be or couldn't be but u need to wait untill u can test.
Your friend can't say either way so don't keep thinking about what shes said to u.
If u wanna chat then feel free to msg me
Hope everythin goes well
x

 

[GAURDIANANGEL]

yepp they are right
my friend told me the same thing
& here i am 19 weeks pregnant
at 16.
so only you know whats going
on with YOUR body. =]

sorry got a little upset there lol.
im here if you wanna talk
just send me a message =]

Keep us posted =]

 

[Always&4ever]

There is a chance hun, but there is a chance in most things now, the best thing to do is to take a test and see what happens from there

 

[in_love_17]

wow we are in the same boat. sept ive been with my man for a while lol i know how you are feeling. if you ever wanna talk you can message me and good luck i hope you get what you want

 

[jenny873]

i was the same 2 apart ive been with my OH for a while now, i was waiting to see if i was pregnant and even though i didnt know if it was what i wanted i was gutted everytime i got a negative test. wierd but when i found out i was pregnant i was over the moon x

 

[flowers123]

Thanks for all the support Ive been feeling really down today, and it sucks not having anyone around who understands how you feel! Youve helped a lot!
I feel "normal" again today. I havent felt sick once or anything. Can this happen sometimes too? Are the symptoms constant?

 

[Tam]

The symptoms are not constant for everyone, although at the beginning they seem to be more so......but the only way to know for sure is to test as pregnancy signs are so similar to AF signs! I hope you get the result you are after! x

 

[flowers123]

Sorry Im new to the forum! Whats "AF signs"? :$ One more week 'til I can find out!!! x

 

[Lauren-x]

Sorry Im new to the forum! Whats "AF signs"? :$ One more week 'til I can find out!!! x

AF = Aunt Flo [Periods] I think .

 

[flowers123]

Thanks sorry I havent been around much to reply. Im now a week and a half late for my period. I took a test on thursday but it was negative... What now????

 

[xarlenex]

What kind of test did you use? And did you use first morning urine?

 

[flowers123]

It was a home test, and first urine of the day yes. This was over a week ago now and I still havent come on my period. Im 2 weeks late! Whats happening? x

 

[xclairex]

hi hum if ur 2 weeks late i wuld do a hpt get a clear blue there always beta doesnt sound gd being 2 weeks late let me no how u get on x

 

[xarlenex]

Yeah, if you want a sure answer get a clear blue digi..they're a little bit pricier than the normal tests but at least you will know for sure if your pregnant or not x

 

[Xbryoni&bumpX]

Oh hun i know exactly how u feel i went through that before a few times and when it came back negative i thought to myself that it obviously wasnt ment to be just wait and see what the test says then go from there, and for your friend to say that was very unthoughtful of her and you should let her know that iof it was her how would she feel. xxx

 

[flowers123]

Thanks youre all great. Ill go get one today. Let you know how it goes. xxx