Any ladies need ntnp buddies? I do

[noodles13]

I agree with you every single time I google symptoms it says im pregnant!!!!!!!! so confusing!

 

[EMC00P]

Ugh....so I just took a test and got a BFN. A little disappointed, but O will be here shortly. That just means the Hubby and I have a lot of BDing to do.

 

[noodles13]

hhahaha I doubt he will complain

 

[Bumblebee2408]

Hey ladies!

Evil finally got me only took over 2 weeks! Aarrggghhh glad I finally know though now & we can move on xxxx

 

[EMC00P]

hhahaha I doubt he will complain

I know right. He actually is really excited about TTC. Very supportive.

 

[noodles13]

well my oh really wants it too I have been doubting in the last few days...because I am terrified of telling my family I am pregnant again they were bad enough with no2........ ive never had anyone excited about me being pregnant either time its always been disappointment with me and it makes me so scared

 

[EMC00P]

well my oh really wants it too I have been doubting in the last few days...because I am terrified of telling my family I am pregnant again they were bad enough with no2........ ive never had anyone excited about me being pregnant either time its always been disappointment with me and it makes me so scared

I'm sorry to hear that. My family hasn't always supported me in all my choices either. I'll be excited for you I'm not pregnant now, but when I am, I know I want to wait until after 12 weeks to tell family or friends. After our MC, I don't want to get their hopes up again.

 

[daddiesgift]

well my oh really wants it too I have been doubting in the last few days...because I am terrified of telling my family I am pregnant again they were bad enough with no2........ ive never had anyone excited about me being pregnant either time its always been disappointment with me and it makes me so scared

Ill be excited for you! But I do know the feeling. Everyone was super excited about #1 then #2 no one seemed to care much. Maybe because they were so close together. So we dont plan on telling anyone Im pregnant or even trying for that matter till we know the sex. Then we will do some cute things to tell everyone. I dont feel like hearing the negativity or how hard it will be with three littles blah blah. Dont let anyone rain on your parade

 

[noodles13]

i think its because both times ive been pregnant the man has disappeared and left........ but that's not my fault, I get caked stupid an idiot and god knows what but I am a fully grown adult hahaha its easier to say than do when you have a family like mine really close but also quite controlling when it comes to what they think my life should be ........... say things like you cant even look after yourself let alone a dog..... this was after being a single mother from the age of 21 with a 4 month old baby..... hahaha I have to just laugh about it now but at the time it does make me doubt myself and my decisions maybe I should just do whatever the hell I want............. whos going to stop me I am 28 in less than a month! that's heading towards 30.... im not a naughty teenager anymore am i

 

[EMC00P]

They should be excited about the new additions to the family and also realize you are capable of making your own decisions. A younger cousin of mine has 2 kids from different guys who both ran off. Instead of taking it out on the female who can't run from the responsibility, the male counterpart should be the one to blame. Some, not all men, are not cut out for fatherhood and should not be able to reproduce. I'm sorry your family and the father aren't giving you the support you need. At least there are guys out there that don't mind stepping up and taking care of what another guy couldn't handle.

 

[noodles13]

yeah I know, my boyfriend loves my children my eldest has always seen her dad but the little one he ran off the day I told him I was pregnant so she has never had her actual father in her life not once. but like you said the woman gets lumbered with the stigma. I think maybe this time next year once weve been together that little bit longer I will just say oh well don't like it then whatever......... I would guess everyone is expecting him to run off and leave me like the others did I can honestly say I know wholeheartedly he wont.
I was young with my 1st and in a horrid relationship I am so glad he left me even tho at the time it was heartbreaking. as for no2 it was long distance and I was gullible I suppose. ive been on my own for 3 years as a single mother to 2 daughters and until I met my boyfriend I physically hated every single man on the planet lol with the exception of my dad brother and granddad ............. so it took a lot of time to even trust him anyway

we shall see what happens but we are happy so are the kids why cant everyone else be happy for us

 

[Punk_Mum86]

Hi ladies!
Hope you're all doing well, I've been offline for a bit, how is everyone?
Well, I'm 6dpo...I think! and tonight I went to the bathroom for a pee and *TMI WARNING* my pants were full off white cm. like the most I've ever seen...
we only dtd once and it was 2/3 days before O I think, so chances must be slim...maybe I have thrush? Sorry for anyone being grossed out!

 

[fairyy]

yeah I know, my boyfriend loves my children my eldest has always seen her dad but the little one he ran off the day I told him I was pregnant so she has never had her actual father in her life not once. but like you said the woman gets lumbered with the stigma. I think maybe this time next year once weve been together that little bit longer I will just say oh well don't like it then whatever......... I would guess everyone is expecting him to run off and leave me like the others did I can honestly say I know wholeheartedly he wont.
I was young with my 1st and in a horrid relationship I am so glad he left me even tho at the time it was heartbreaking. as for no2 it was long distance and I was gullible I suppose. ive been on my own for 3 years as a single mother to 2 daughters and until I met my boyfriend I physically hated every single man on the planet lol with the exception of my dad brother and granddad ............. so it took a lot of time to even trust him anyway

we shall see what happens but we are happy so are the kids why cant everyone else be happy for us

Hi Noodles. Just read your post. Don't give any importance to what people think. They are being too judgmental on the basis of what happened earlier with u. But things are different now. U are now a grown woman. U know what is right and what is wrong for u. Who can better know about the relationship u are in other than u. Life teaches us lesson at different times in life only to make us smarter and wiser. U are much more mature now to deal with circumstances now. When time comes they will get to know that u are right. Focus on your relationship now that u find your match. It is true the older we get the wiser we become. cheer up lady.

 

[fairyy]

Hi ladies!
Hope you're all doing well, I've been offline for a bit, how is everyone?
Well, I'm 6dpo...I think! and tonight I went to the bathroom for a pee and *TMI WARNING* my pants were full off white cm. like the most I've ever seen...
we only dtd once and it was 2/3 days before O I think, so chances must be slim...maybe I have thrush? Sorry for anyone being grossed out!

Hello. I was also having this creamy white cm for four/five days. Not that much like u, but definitely it was there. For last two days there is nothing. Started those cramps. PMS-ing may be.

 

[noodles13]

thanks buddy I don't feel sad I just sometimes wish I had the balls to just say fuck everyone I am going to do what I want hahaha I don't tho

 

[EMC00P]

yeah I know, my boyfriend loves my children my eldest has always seen her dad but the little one he ran off the day I told him I was pregnant so she has never had her actual father in her life not once. but like you said the woman gets lumbered with the stigma. I think maybe this time next year once weve been together that little bit longer I will just say oh well don't like it then whatever......... I would guess everyone is expecting him to run off and leave me like the others did I can honestly say I know wholeheartedly he wont.
I was young with my 1st and in a horrid relationship I am so glad he left me even tho at the time it was heartbreaking. as for no2 it was long distance and I was gullible I suppose. ive been on my own for 3 years as a single mother to 2 daughters and until I met my boyfriend I physically hated every single man on the planet lol with the exception of my dad brother and granddad ............. so it took a lot of time to even trust him anyway

we shall see what happens but we are happy so are the kids why cant everyone else be happy for us

No one can tell you how to live your life....just do what makes you and your babies happy. I hope, like you said, that your boyfriend sticks around. He has this far.

 

[noodles13]

yeah he will..... its different this time to any other relationship ive ever had. he has a son from his ex wife, so we have 3 kids between us but none together we would really love a child together to sort of complete our family but I think waiting a while would maybe take pressure off.....

on a totally diff note ive just set up a fb page for my floristry I hope its the start of a business for me woohoooo

 

[floridamomma]

noodles13 I think you should do what makes you happy. He sounds like a good man in it for the long haul

 

[EMC00P]

yeah he will..... its different this time to any other relationship ive ever had. he has a son from his ex wife, so we have 3 kids between us but none together we would really love a child together to sort of complete our family but I think waiting a while would maybe take pressure off.....

on a totally diff note ive just set up a fb page for my floristry I hope its the start of a business for me woohoooo

I am keeping my fingers crossed for you guys. Also for your business

 

[floridamomma]

i am about 10dpo and still exhausted all the time, but new symptom sore and huge boobs! they are sensitive to touch! i am trying to hold out testing until sunday