Oh I never thought of looking for Facebook groups! Glad to hear your son's has resolved. My youngest is 5 months old today and we've had 3 hospital admissions, 2 lumbar punctures (due to high fevers) countless bloods and another 2 treatment courses of antibiotics. She was on trimethoprin for a period of time but after 2 infections she was moved to Nitrofurantoin, what preventative was your son on? We've only had the VCUG, so we know it's grade 4 on both sides. She is having the DMSA early, anytime in the next few weeks we were told to expect it, to establish how well her kidneys are functioning etc then they will decide whether or not it'll be surgery. I can't help but feel it will be because she's had so many reoccurring infections, she was born on the 75th percentile and is currently hovering above the 9th.
I'll have a nosey for some groups now thanks x