Hi, I just thought I'd chime in.
I don't know about the Salvation Army Church, but I was born and raised Christian as well. I never went to Church until a few months ago. My dad always said that a relationship between you and God is personal, and you don't have to go to Church for that. Plus, there were NO good Churches around where I lived. But when I grew up, I realized how Important Church is, and I wanted to go.
ANYWAYS, Before I started going to Church, I met a boy (Of course) And he was the most amazing Guy I'd ever met. We soon fell in love, and before we got married, slept with each other. When I was 17, I fell pregnant with our son. His Church HATED me!! They thought I was taking their fantastic Church boy and turning him into a terrible person. He was skipping Church to spend time with me, and then when word got around that I was pregnant, it all broke loose! It was not a good scene.
But in the end, it was God's plan for us! We did end up getting married, and because we had only ever slept with each other, when we came together in marriage, we were forgiven for sleeping together before hand.
I don't regret for one second, getting pregnant at 17! My son is sitting right in front of me RIGHT now making me laugh! He and my Husband are the BIGGEST blessings to me!
God has set you on this path for a reason, and its incredibly unfair for your Chruch to treat you this way! In my opinion, I would find another Church. One that is forgiving, and displays God's grace on you and your boyfriend.
I'm sorry that you're going through this, it is incredibly emotional, especially with all those extra hormones! But just because the Church is turning you away, try not to Turn from God. I did that, and my life was pretty empty with out Him.
I pray that everything works out for you!! May God bless you!