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Any single mummies expecting baby 2?

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Well as the title says are there any of u ladies out there who are expecting baby 2?
I'm so worried I won't be able to cope :wacko:
 
i wasnt single but i felt like it! ex did nowt with our son and moved into the block and spent most of the time there till i came back to scotland for the birth.

you will cope hunny! sounds awful but you dont have a choice but to cope so you find a way. well thats how i felt anyway.

do not be afraid to ask for help from friends and family - do no try to be super mum. you dont need to be nor does anyone expect you to be.

take each day as it comes and just set yourself one or 2 tasks a day like getting the lounge hoovered or getting a load of ironing done but if it doesnt happen then so what? still gonna be there tomorrow!

:hugs:
 
I'm not at my house so I dot have to worry really about housework as I'm at my sisters till I get a place sorted ( me and oh were living in Germany)
My mums having Zane overnight tonight as I could feel myself needing the space, but I'm worried that my family get very bored very fast of helping me so I don't think it will last long.
I just never thought I'd be here so didn't really think about going thru pregnancy alone, altho oh was in the army so I did most of it without Zane by myself
 
u just have to be confident, I live on my own with my 5 yr old son, no support regular, i'm just positive thinkin xx
 
I'm not at my house so I dot have to worry really about housework as I'm at my sisters till I get a place sorted ( me and oh were living in Germany)
My mums having Zane overnight tonight as I could feel myself needing the space, but I'm worried that my family get very bored very fast of helping me so I don't think it will last long.
I just never thought I'd be here so didn't really think about going thru pregnancy alone, altho oh was in the army so I did most of it without Zane by myself

its a tragedy that has happened to you hunny and your family will not grudge helping you out. you have so much to deal with no on should ever have to go through what you have. you are emotional enough when pregnant but to try to grieve and look after a young child at the same time its so so hard.

you WILL cope. only fellow army wives know how much we have to deal with its a whole dofferent sets of stresses and strains but you coped amazingly with it all. the real strength isnt in the solider its in the woman behind the soldier.
 
My mum has never really helped me and the cracks are starting to show now. She's having Zane tonight but i've got to get his bed round hers aswel as Zane and I don't drive n yet she and her bf does. I can't wait to get my own place again so I have space and time to myself
 
I'm expecting number three. I'll have three kids under the age of 4 and doing it all on my own. There's a part of me that is scared, but I'm so ready to take this on. Can't wait for her arrival!
 
My mum was a single mum of 3 with very little or no help from her family so I've lived it and no it obviously can be done.
I called myself a single mum to my mum the other day to which she replyed no ur a widow! I said I think I like single mum better lol

I'm desperate for a scan tho I'm so impatient.
 
I'm a single mum of 4 and do have hard days but then the love from my kids changes all that you will manage hun, just try get yourself in a routine from early on. x
 
im a single mummy and expecting number 2, im lucky to have great family support.
 
i'm single and pregnant with number 2!

the FOB is still around but not sure if he'll bother when baby is born :shrug:

i'm a bit worried, as i'll be on my own and my son will be 2 1/2 then, but i have a very supportive family.
 
daisygirl said:
i'm single and pregnant with number 2!

the FOB is still around but not sure if he'll bother when baby is born :shrug:

i'm a bit worried, as i'll be on my own and my son will be 2 1/2 then, but i have a very supportive family.

Zane will be 3 the month after baby is due, he loves babies so I'm hoping he will be helpful lol
 
Hi im due to be a mummy for a second time any time now and im single, always here if you need a chat about anything :hugs:
 

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