Any SMEPers!!!! 43 Testers! 22 BFP!!!!

Bdunn that angry jealous feeling does get better...I was to a good place before I got my bfp where I wasn't so mad..I think it helped me to thi nk that whenever I did end up with a baby I know that baby wouldn't be there if I hadn't had the loss (especially bc baby number three would be my.last)

Jaime...instead of thinking how u should have a baby think abt how had u already had that baby you wouldn't have miss piggy :) that should help.some
 
hey girls!

nice pic parker!!!!! love it!!!

jess - that actually isn't a bad thing - it's better to just be pregant and not worry like i have been for the last week.

so im still just nauseas as hell!!!!
 
Well girls I have yet another story for you: a coworker I work with had a child 4 years ago and it was a difficult pregnancy. She swears she will never have another child again. I came to find out from my office manager that my coworker was out sick the past week because she went for an abortion. The part that pisses me off is that the manager said the same coworker also had another one 3 months ago! Wtf??! Now I am pro-choice and have no problem saying I am ok with an abortion if the circumstances called for it. My beef with this is that if you know you don't want another child and you are in a committed relationship, what's so hard about using protection, or getting on the pill, or using and IUD, or hundreds of other contraceptive methods there are out there??? There are people in this world, like us, who would die for a baby and there she is terminating two precious lives because she's careless?!?!? Urggg!!!!
 
That just makes me so mad. Like you, I can understand it in some circumstances but not being responsible enough to use protection or anything is another thing.
Because of the m/c, I am now terrified of something bad happening again...my sister can't even have children and both of us would love the opportunity. I know two people who have had abortions and I cannot really look at them the same anymore...
 
Omg, May... first of all... who the hell tells their boss that they're out getting abortions?? That's kinda personal! You would think that one mistake 3 months ago would have lead her to protect herself better this time
 
Gosh I think I have caught up!

Shelli so pleased Parker is looking great & what a naughty little girl not getting in the right position so you need to see her again in a few weeks! :happydance:

May, that is unbelievable!!!! I agree, I agree people have choices, but seriously two abortions in 3 months WTF? People like her do not realise how hard it is for some of us to have babies! Makes me really angry!!

Jaime dont stress if you cant find miss piggys HB, they dont even check for HB until 16 weeks and even then they say dont worry of you cant find it!

So Jess, that bit was for you too. We only get HB at 16 weeks at the midwife.
Also why are you not getting a 12 week scan? I thought this was standard worldwide for the nuchal fold? But frigging 18 weeks are they having a laugh???????? I dont think I am getting an early scan, so first I will see of this apple seed is at 12 weeks!

Katy ---eeeeeeekkkkkkk test!

MrsJ - I'm jelous of the wine, thai food & steamy sex!!!!

Lisa FX you dont need that appointment in 6 weeks!
 
Gemma - That makes me feel a little better. I am not overly thrilled about the 18 week scan though....that won't be until the 1st of September. I didn't even make it to a scan the first time so I would really like some reassurance. I think I am going to wait until the school year is over and go see my old family Doctor. That should make me 7 or 8 weeks so that way I would be closer to a early scan if he's willing to send me for one at 12 weeks. All my family goes to see him and he is the kind of doctor you can call at his house at 3 in the morning. Right now it is just inconveinient for me because I am working. And Gemma, have you poas since?? I haven't seen I did an opk yesterday. Trying really hard not to obsess about symptoms and such but I am trying to relaX as much as possible and have faith that this is going to be a sticky bean.

Haley - Do you have any other names in mind?? I like Reid, Grayson and Blake but OH likes none of them. lol

Jaime - Have you tried to find Miss Piggy's hb since?! We all know girls are stubborn! Do you think the doppler is worth the money???

Shelli - Parker looks beautiful - I can only imagine the beauty she is going to be!

I can't wait to be an apple seed tomorrow :)
 
Jessica i did try again and only found baby for a split second
 
Hey ladies. I hope everyone is having a good week. Reading this thread is like reading 10 f'in books at once!! LOL I have like 40 pages to catch up on...FML

Anyway after I am all caught up on everything I will comment :)

But one thing I did notice was Parker!! So beautiful Shelli!
 
Omg, May... first of all... who the hell tells their boss that they're out getting abortions?? That's kinda personal! You would think that one mistake 3 months ago would have lead her to protect herself better this time

The girl actually told a friend of hers (another coworker of ours)... then that girl told my office manager. LoL. I know, bitches!!! My office manager's got the biggest mouth and that's how I found out.
 
Morning ladies.....its FRIDAY!!!! phew!!

Katy how are you doing???xxx
 
I am so happy it is Friday. Any of you ladies got any big plans??
Our local church is having a silent auction tomorrow so I am looking forward to that!

Gemma - Any symptoms to report just just?
 
Last pregnancy, I was prescribed materna and folic acid, but yesterday the Doc said that there is enough folic acid in the materna alone? Anyone else taking both?
 
Hi ladies. Well, bfn today, not even a squinter. Evil evap yesterday. DF is just getting over some embarressment to produce his sample for analasis. Bless him.
Off to Broadstairs today. We're finally getting out dog! I can't wait.
 
Katy - don't lose hope. Jaime thought she had evaps and it turned out to be a BFP. Test again in a few days.
 
3 DPO today and my temp for the last 3 days are identical to the ones from last cycle. Does it mean I am dealing with another BFN this cycle???
 

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