Any SMEPers!!!! 43 Testers! 22 BFP!!!!

[BeverleyLN]

Hey girls...

Gemma I think personally you should start trying when YOU feel ready, maybe it would be a good idea to just relax and not temp or use OPKs around your wedding then see what happens have fun and enjoy your big day and honeymoon the jump back into TTC after that

Amy feel better soon!

Jaime what a feeling you all must of had! Wow so amazing

Jess any updates?

Krystina glad that witch is outta here!!

 

[krystinab]

Gemma, when is your follow up appointment? I feel like if you dont give your body time to heal then it could potentially cause issues if you get pregnant too soon. I know you want to get back to it, but please check with your DR first! I know with my D&C my DR made me wait 4 weeks and when we finally had sex it was horrible....it didnt make it better that DH wasnt ready to try again so we used condoms for 6 months...ugh...WTT sucks but its best to get your body back to 100%. When is your honeymoon? Where are you guys going?

 

[Bride2b]

I dont have a follow up, they just send you packing from the hospital and basically said they'll see me again when I'm 6 weeks pregnant if I dont have any complications in between.

I totally plan just to relax as I know that works for me, I am not doing opks, temping etc this time round as it just gets me stressed! I have been putting the feelers out and the general consensus from others (who I trust) is that once I feel ready go for it as my body will only allow me to fall pregnant when its ready. So I think I will just take it easy and not prevent or anything for certainly these first few months like I thought about doing at first. I think I will send myself insane if I wait to try, I just know I cant do that. After losing Bertie all I wanted was to be pregnant and thats never gone away, I will only start to heal emotionally when I get my rainbow in my arms - until then I think I will always have this hanging over me.

Krystina, what CD are you on?

How you feeling Bev?

Yeah Jaime I forgot to say its so awesome that your friend got a BFP - did you all cry? Details please!!!!

 

[Bride2b]

Oh yeah, no honeymoon booked, we are just going to go away to a spa for a few days after. We plan to honeymoon at a later date, as OH has the surf school which is high season now. The only time we can really go away is Christmas due to our jobs, but I am not going to book anything yet as my priority is to get pregnant & would not even consider leaving the country when I am pregnant with my track record of unsuccessful pregnancies!

 

[krystinab]

Gemma, I think its a great idea for you to get yourself emotionally together!!! I know you will have your rainbow soon! Speaking of rainbows there was a double rainbow after the storm yesterday...soooo beautiful!! You should look at cheapcarribean.com they have awesome packages

I am only on CD7, only using OPK's...and going to try SMEP this cycle...

 

[jrowenj]

Gemma - Everything is going to work out I know the wait from now until being physically and emotionally ready is going to seem like an eternity... Less than 2 weeks until your big day!!!!!!!!!!

Krystina - the boring wait before sex fest... ughhhhhhhh

Bethany... any updates?!

Amy - yeaaa for a scan this week!!!!!!!! I hope to have my scan in the next 10-14 days and find the gender of this little piece of ham!

 

[Jessica28]

I have an appointment on Friday @ 1 p.m. Had to cancel my appointment for the 19th because of where I live it is impossible to make it. Really hoping to get something straightened out at that appointment.

 

[krystinab]

OMG Jamie I cant believe your pregnanacy is moving so quickly!! What do you think your having? Had you had any dreams about the baby's sex?

Amy Horray for your upcoming scan! So exciting!

Jess glad you got somethin scheuduled!! Keep us posted!

Bethany, yooohoooo where are you???

 

[jrowenj]

i had a dream that it's a boy! That was the only dream I had. I don't know why I feel like it's going to be a boy... i can't freakin wait to find out... it's driving me even crazier than the TWW used to!

 

[krystinab]

Jamie then I'd say youre having a boy....you got that mothers intitution! Can't wait til your scan!

 

[Jessica28]

My bets are boy for Jaime too! I have a feeling I am having a boy too but OH thinks it's a girl. A friend of mine just brought me a load of maternity clothes which I need already...lol. It was an unexpected but plesant suprise!

 

[Sunny skies]

Hey ladies, sorry I haven't been around. We just finished our outdoor patio and garden so it's been super busy with BBQ's and people coming over. Hope everyone's been enjoying their summer.

Gemma, I heard of some people trying right away and getting pregnant, but personally I needed some time as I was too scared. I think they say at least 2 cycles so that your body heals and you can date your pregnancy more accurately. Whatever you decide will be right for you. I asked for a follow up appointment even though it wasn't mandatory. I had so many questions and the OBGYN who did the surgery was able to meet with my OH and I. I think my husband needed to hear that it was ok to start trying.

Krystina, so happy your witch is gone and you can get back to Smep, good luck.

AF is due next Tuesday, I will test on Wed if AF doesn't show up. I have to say I'm upset with myself as we didn't bed as much this cycle. No symptoms to report either.

 

[Bride2b]

Thanks Sunny - the info out there is just so vague. I think I should get an appointment with my doctor to have a chat about it all, but as he is just my doctor I dont know how much he will know.The hospital have sent him a letter and its all on my file about what happened.

Keeping the fingers crossed for you - remember it only takes one little guy to get through!!

Jaime & Jess - I think mothers intuition is usually right too! I think you kind of get a good feeling what you are having!

 

[krystinab]

ooooh a new patio? I love having people over for cookouts!! Really hope this is your month Sunny.

Has anyone heard from Storked? She just fell off the map!

AFM, so one of Seans dearest friends lost his little brother. He was only 22, aparently he had a heart attack and then they gave hime medicine that casued a seizure and he passed. He had a 1 year old and a wife who is devestated. Please keep them in your prayers!!

 

[Bride2b]

Oh my goodness Krystina that is so sad. Its so much more tragic when they are so youg and have a young family too.xx

 

[Sunny skies]

Krystina, sorry to hear the sad news. I can't imagine how difficult it must be for the family.

Who's testing next?, we need to catch up to all the pregnant ladies.

 

[Bride2b]

I'm totally lost where everyone is. Sunny your testing next Weds if no AF, Krystina you are CD8/9. Where the hell is everyone? May? Lisa? Stalked? MrsJ has probably packed herself away in a box ready for her move!

 

[snowflakes120]

I'm here. Lurking. Staying behind the scenes. Been really down and out. Don't want to infect anyone with my negativity. I am 6dpo and symptom less. I have my progesterone bloods tomorrow - I will know my level on Thursday. Not much else to report.

I go to the RE/FS on Monday. I just called and confirmed the appt and sent off 2 pds of my medical records to them.

So sorry for your friend Krystina.

 

[mammaspath]

hi girls!! im still here!!!!

im a plum today!

snow - i had sad days myself.......sending prayers for you!

krystina - omg that is terrible......i just am devastated for that family!!!

ya id like an update on where everyone is??!!!!

I need to take a bump pic......and my next scan is thursday!

 

[krystinab]

Amy....a lil plum too cute...have you had any sex dreams about your lil bun?

Lisa sometimes no symptoms is best. I really hope you caught that eggy...you so deserve it!

Sunny I think its going to be Lisa testing next....I have no idea when I am going to O so I prob wont be testing until mid-August....booooooo