Good morning, girls! So I woke up to spotting so AF is on her way later today or tomorrow. Am I disappointed? Yup! Am I upset? Nope! Today is the first day of month 2 with Insanity. I am happy I get to continue because I am slowly getting the results I want, especially for bikini season. We'll try again next cycle!
So my DH and his sis had a huge blowout yesterday. I am so stressed over it. I don't like seeing DH upset over stupid things. Long story short, DH's father passed away last August. He left behind a mess for his 3 kids to clean up (e.g. his second wife who's 20 yrs younger robbed my DH and his older brother of their insurance money while their sister signed off in it because she was still getting her share). Not to mention the small sum of money he left behind with DH's older brother... Who has never brought it up since the death and now I am thinking he's going to pocket it all. It's wrong for me to say but DH's dad was a coward. He ignored the fact he was dying and decided he didn't need to take care of his business before he goes. DH's mother passed away 20 years ago and was buried in this cemetery a bit out of the way. DH's dad was cremated and his ashes are in this gorgeous new cemetery very close to home. DH's sister and brother (DH is the youngest) decided to exhume their mother, cremate her remains and then put her together with their dad. Sounds romantic and all but I think it's a stupid idea. The niche they bought holds 4 urns. Before DH's dad passed away, he was told his second wife was to be put inside the same niche as him. Now his first wife is also going to be in there. How awkward? I would be pissed if I was either wife. DH's siblings have always left him out of the family business all his life and out of nowhere they want him to get involved. DH is not used to it. The worst part is DH's sister is dangling the inheritance money over DH's head and holding it hostage until DH does what she wants. Wtf? She even went as low as to bring up things that happened when DH was only 16 and said their mother had to watch him go to school while she was suffering from cancer (DH was a rebellious child). Seriously? Something he did when he was 16? How low is she? As if DH isn't feeling guilty enough already??
Anyway, DH's sister has been writing demanding and sarcastic texts to DH about the exhumation. She is demanding that DH take a day off from work to be there. Now the funeral home said it's not necessary, she wants him there. DH cannot take off from work, plus he works 6 days a week so his only day off is Sunday. She doesn't understad nor does she care. She wants it done now and she wants it done her way. DH had it with her, called her yesterday after all the bottled up anger over the last 2 months and called her a fucking bitch. It exploded after that. The best part was when DH's sister brought up my family and said how if it was somethig for my family, DH wouldn't have a problem taking off work for me. That witch had to drag me and my family into this. DH got even more pissed. I have never seen him so upset.
Now we have paid for a vacation in July and is going with DH's sister and her family. What should I do? Should I do an intervention for them and bitch them both out for being stupid and acting like jerks (DH has a problem expressing himself with words so he was a bit harsh at times when telling her no)? Or should I leave it alone and let my vacation be ruined?
Sorry for the long post. I needed to vent.