any yOung pregnant wOmen??? ((15,16,?)) Or yOunger.

[trueloveooh7]

i think i may be pregnant. but im nOt sure #1. but i wOuld like tO have a baby. but the only thing is that im in 8th grade. i dOnt knOw hOw im gOnna gO tO schOOl. but if it was highschOol it woUld be different because i cOuld take night classes. i think if i tOld my mOm& brOther theyd disOwn me and be VERRY upset. but we bOth have LOTS of suppOrt frOm his dad & dads gf. but his mom is SOOOO immature abOut everything.? HELP PLZ.

 

[Jo]

Well the first thing you need to do is test to make sure, no point worrying about telling people until you know for sure

Secondly i personally think it would be crazy to try for a baby when still in 8th grade, you have a whole life to live before even thinking about about having a baby.

How would you support it?, where would you live?
You need to think about all these things seriously

To be brutally honest you are still a child yourself and shouldn't really be having sex let alone thinking about haveing a baby

 

[nikky0907]

You just posted a thread!

People have replied to it.

 

[Suz]

Really, you need to take a pregnancy test. No one can help you unless you confirm you are pregnant or not. We cant give you the magic answers......

 

[mBLACK]

Well the first thing you need to do is test to make sure, no point worrying about telling people until you know for sure

Secondly i personally think it would be crazy to try for a baby when still in 8th grade, you have a whole life to live before even thinking about about having a baby.

How would you support it?, where would you live?
You need to think about all these things seriously

To be brutally honest you are still a child yourself and shouldn't really be having sex let alone thinking about haveing a baby

Um sorry if I sound rude but she didn't ask for anybody's opinion on whether or not she should be having sex nor did she state anywhere that she was trying for a baby, accidents happen we just learn to live with them everyday. There are alot of support groups that help young mothers so they can continue to get their education all the while caring for their children. I'm 15 and am due to be a mother in 2 weeks time and personally it bothers me when people make comments to me about my age.

 

[mBLACK]

i think i may be pregnant. but im nOt sure #1. but i wOuld like tO have a baby. but the only thing is that im in 8th grade. i dOnt knOw hOw im gOnna gO tO schOOl. but if it was highschOol it woUld be different because i cOuld take night classes. i think if i tOld my mOm& brOther theyd disOwn me and be VERRY upset. but we bOth have LOTS of suppOrt frOm his dad & dads gf. but his mom is SOOOO immature abOut everything.? HELP PLZ.

To be honest love, you need to take a test ASAP. I was 14 when I found out I was pregnant and deciding to become a parent at this age was the most difficult yet loving decision I have ever made.
If you are pregnant, will you be keeping the baby?
Things to keep in mind are that once you have a baby you are an adult for the rest of your life, and your life no longer belongs to yourself but to your child/ren.
Good luck and let us know asap, if there's anything you need don't hesitate to pm me I'm always around somewhere.

 

[Jo]

Um sorry if I sound rude but she didn't ask for anybody's opinion on whether or not she should be having sex nor did she state anywhere that she was trying for a baby, accidents happen we just learn to live with them everyday. There are alot of support groups that help young mothers so they can continue to get their education all the while caring for their children. I'm 15 and am due to be a mother in 2 weeks time and personally it bothers me when people make comments to me about my age.

No you don't sound rude at all hun, I am only of the opinion i have stated above as i have a nearly 10 yr old and it scares the crap outta me TBH that someone so young is on the board that is saying she wants a baby, maybe not now but sometime soon, that is how i read the post.

Now please don't jump on me as I know you are only 15 yourself but you seem to be a very responsible 15yr old and very mature with the way you come across n your posts, in fact reading your posts you come across as a heck of a lot older.
The OP's post doesn't seem very coherent and mature to me, does it you?

At the end of the day until she takes a test we can't offer any advice one way or another, and in no way can we wave a magic wand and make it all better for her

 

[mrscookie]

The OP's post doesn't seem very coherent and mature to me, does it you?

I have to agree there. I dont live in the US so I don't know how old people in the 8th grade are, but in the UK, year 8 pupils are around about 12-13, which seems extremely young to be sexually active.


Honey I think you need to test, then if you are pregnant, go to the doctor for advice, they have leaflets and helplines which will help you to get through it, if you are not pregnant, wait.. enjoy your life, have fun, find husband material and then maybe settle down for the long haul.
good luck to you
xx

 

[nikky0907]

She is 13-14.

Thats how old the student in 8th grade are over here.

:shrugs:
Way too young to be thinking about wanting a baby.

 

[leeanne]

Unfortunately, if she is pregnant right now nothing she does will turn back time. However, I do sincerely hope that if she is not pregnant but is having sex that proper precautions will be made in order not to get pregnant at this age.

I think that most young teen moms here, even though they love their baby very much and are very excited, probably wish even if just for a little bit that things were a bit different. And I also think that most of the teen moms are worried about how to support their baby, about their future, etc.

There will be many rewards but it will be tough at times too.

 

[Serene123]

If you're trying for a baby at 14, you're quite frankly an idiot.

However, if you think you're pregnant, take a test.

 

[Always&4ever]

Take a test as you can't be sure that your pregnant until you do, its no point wondering about the what ifs!

 

[heather91]

You really need to think carefully about this. When I think back to when I was 14 I thought I knew everything and could have moved out by myself and everything, but now I'm older I realise that really I certainly would not have been able to cope with pregnancy and looking after a child. I'm 17 now and it's still really difficult, going to work is really hard when you feel so nauseous and financially me and my boyfriend are really going to struggle. You've got so much life to live from now until you're 18/19 and what you want will probably totally change by then! If you're already pregnant of course, it won't be ideal but it's not the end of the world. I just really think you should reconsider trying for a baby. Hope everything works out well for you

 

[heather91]

Um sorry if I sound rude but she didn't ask for anybody's opinion on whether or not she should be having sex nor did she state anywhere that she was trying for a baby, accidents happen we just learn to live with them everyday. There are alot of support groups that help young mothers so they can continue to get their education all the while caring for their children. I'm 15 and am due to be a mother in 2 weeks time and personally it bothers me when people make comments to me about my age.

She said she wanted a baby, so I interpretted it as she was trying for a baby, as did Jo I suppose.

 

[lizpol]

Hi hun how do u think you might be pregnant first, is it because you havent been using protection or was it an accident?

You're way too young to be having a baby your only just a teenager, you really do have so much life to live still, but still if i was in your situation and i was pregnant i wouldnt be able to get rid of my baby because i dont believe in abortion, but just be careful you really do want to be having any regrets at 13/14, you have no money coming in to be able to support your baby and you would have to rely on family too much. His mom isnt immature about it and your mom and brother would have every right to be upset if you were because your 13/14 an if i knew my daughter was wishing for a baby at that age ( eventually when i have one) it would upset me so much I would want her to get the most out her life and when the time is right and she could support herself it would be totally different i would be supportive.

Just think about it some more but dont worry im sure people will be supportive if you were

 

[mBLACK]

Now please don't jump on me as I know you are only 15 yourself but you seem to be a very responsible 15yr old and very mature with the way you come across n your posts, in fact reading your posts you come across as a heck of a lot older.
The OP's post doesn't seem very coherent and mature to me, does it you?

Thnx and yes I see your POV now.

 

[Gems]

Am i right in thinking its actually illegal to be having sex at 13-14 anyway??

 

[brownhairedmom]

but i wOuld like tO have a baby. but the only thing is that im in 8th grade.

but we bOth have LOTS of suppOrt frOm his dad & dads gf. but his mom is SOOOO immature abOut everything.? HELP PLZ.

Does anything sound wrong with that sentence to you? There is a huge difference between accidently getting pregnant at 14 years old and wanting or trying to have a baby at 14 years old.


For the second sentence, sweetie I don't think his mom is being immature about not supporting a 14 year old who thinks she is pregnant, I think she's probably doing the right thing. I wouldn't be quite so supportive either at first, I have to admit. Of course she is going to be upset, you people are 13-14 years old and having sex. I would probably pass out if my child came to me at 14 years old and told me they were pregnant/got someone pregnant.

 

[Sophie1205]

Isnt the legal age in the US 18 to have sex? Cuz its 16 over here, but either way it is illegal.
I dont know what to say. Take a test and the first thing I would do if i were you is tell your mum. And she wouldnt be being "immature" if she wont support you in having a child at your age, she will only want what is best for her daughter.
You are so young, and I couldnt imagine what it would be like to have a child at 13.. Im 18 and worried enough so i cant imagine what it would be like at 13.

Hope everything works out for the best.
x

 

[nikky0907]

It is not illegal unless neither one of them is 18 or more.

So if they are both 13/14 it is not illegal.

If for example she is 14 and he is 18 or more,it would be statutory rape and he would go to jail.Same goes for vice a versa.