any yOung pregnant wOmen??? ((15,16,?)) Or yOunger.

[missjess]

Omg... You've got to be nuts to be thinking of having a baby at such a young age ! A baby is so much work and change your life completely...

 

[Nik_]

Isnt the legal age in the US 18 to have sex? Cuz its 16 over here, but either way it is illegal.
I dont know what to say. Take a test and the first thing I would do if i were you is tell your mum. And she wouldnt be being "immature" if she wont support you in having a child at your age, she will only want what is best for her daughter.
You are so young, and I couldnt imagine what it would be like to have a child at 13.. Im 18 and worried enough so i cant imagine what it would be like at 13.

Hope everything works out for the best.
x

The age of consent depends on the state, it's 16-18. Where I live for example, it's 17.

 

[celia713]

I was 16 when I got preggo with my son who is now 12. His father was all happy yes we're going to have a baby and I love you. His family was so supportive and blah blah blah. Then he realized Hey I can have other females too and I was left alone to raise my son and his family wanted nothing to do with me and my son. I gave up everything a full college scholarship, and other things. For so called love and a baby I wanted to give him. I was young and dumb. So please think about what you do before you come to your final conclusion you dont know whats going to happen 5 years from now. He is a boy still wanting to explore.......Oh and by the way my ex still does nothing for my son but hang up on him.....

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

i think i may be pregnant. but im nOt sure #1. but i wOuld like tO have a baby. but the only thing is that im in 8th grade. i dOnt knOw hOw im gOnna gO tO schOOl. but if it was highschOol it woUld be different because i cOuld take night classes. i think if i tOld my mOm& brOther theyd disOwn me and be VERRY upset. but we bOth have LOTS of suppOrt frOm his dad & dads gf. but his mom is SOOOO immature abOut everything.? HELP PLZ.

all im going to say hun is do a test. and im 16 and pregnant but i wasnt activly trying for a baby. why do you want one?? yes they are lovley and a great gift but they are alot of work Mblack is about your age i think but she sounds very mature and i dont think she was activly trying to get preg but im sure she will make a great mummy now that she is Mbalck

what im trying to say hunni is it may seem like a good idea now but a baby is not a toy and since ive beocme preg i have lost nealry all my friends. just think about what your doing hun and plzzzzzz think about trying for a baby its really hard work and you are sooooooooo young people think im young at 16 but 14 is very young plz think aboit it hunni
xx

 

[mBLACK]

i think i may be pregnant. but im nOt sure #1. but i wOuld like tO have a baby. but the only thing is that im in 8th grade. i dOnt knOw hOw im gOnna gO tO schOOl. but if it was highschOol it woUld be different because i cOuld take night classes. i think if i tOld my mOm& brOther theyd disOwn me and be VERRY upset. but we bOth have LOTS of suppOrt frOm his dad & dads gf. but his mom is SOOOO immature abOut everything.? HELP PLZ.

all im going to say hun is do a test. and im 16 and pregnant but i wasnt activly trying for a baby. why do you want one?? yes they are lovley and a great gift but they are alot of work Mblack is about your age i think but she sounds very mature and i dont think she was activly trying to get preg but im sure she will make a great mummy now that she is Mbalck

what im trying to say hunni is it may seem like a good idea now but a baby is not a toy and since ive beocme preg i have lost nealry all my friends. just think about what your doing hun and plzzzzzz think about trying for a baby its really hard work and you are sooooooooo young people think im young at 16 but 14 is very young plz think aboit it hunni
xx

Thank you, you actually astound me with your maturity too! I couldn't believe you were only 16.I wasn't trying either, and I have to echo this. Having a baby (even before he/she is born) will affect your life in a way nothing else can. You also have to consider things like - for instance, are you POSITIVE that this baby will have the best possible life with you? Are you in a financial position to be able to care for him/her properly? Are you completely mentally and physically stable?
To be honest when I was in grade 8 I was a little nutcase, I would never have been able to care for a child, I actually did want one too but for selfish reasons; not to give him/her all the love in the world or enrich his/her life with great things, but to have this cute little being in my life who NEEDED me to stay alive.
I know him and his family may be supportive now but honey - he's a teenage boy, and to top it off they mature 3 years slower than we do! You are both very young, and in 5 years time you will both be completely different people. Who's to say you are still going to want to be with eachother?

Sometimes alot of these feelings come from somewhere else, but let me tell you that whatever you do from here on out will affect that little persons life forever. Good luck with everything.

 

[brownhairedmom]

what im trying to say hunni is it may seem like a good idea now but a baby is not a toy and since ive beocme preg i have lost nealry all my friends. just think about what your doing hun and plzzzzzz think about trying for a baby its really hard work and you are sooooooooo young people think im young at 16 but 14 is very young plz think aboit it hunni
xx

She is right. I'm almost 21 and I've still lost all of my friends because nobody wants to settle down and wait for the pregnant lady/drag me along because I can't drink or party.

Did you take a test yet?

 

[ricschick]

hun you definately need to test to put your mind at rest. how late are you and was you using anything as it maybe just a late period due to stress or something. good luck
once we no the out come we can talk more and see whats best for you.

 

[brownhairedmom]

I don't think she's coming back. She hasn't had any activity for days

 

[Bumble_Bee]

look guys,

all i can say is.


GO YOUNG MUMS!!!!!!

i was 14 when i conceived my first and that didn't end wonderfully but i say that what happened -- happened, no use bagging her out about it.

another thing, if you wanna chat let me know, i'm her for support if you want it. That is the Thread Poster, but i'm happy to talk to others aswell

lovez,

Rhi.
xx

 

[brownhairedmom]

I don't think anyone here is bagging her out for accidently becoming pregnant. I think its more along the lines of she said she wanted a baby and was wondering how to work her schooling around it in grade 8. Like I said in my previous post, there is a huge difference between accidently falling pregnant and trying for a baby at age 14

 

[leedsforever]

oh my gosh at 14... sexually active!! Jeez!!!

I think children as young as 14 WANTING a baby is trying to replace something in their lives that they may have missed out on!!

Sorry just my opinion!!

 

[AppleBlossom]

At 14 I don't think I even knew what sex was! I'm going to be honest and say 13/14 is far too young to decide to have a baby or be sexually active. My younger sister is 14 and I can't imagine her kissing other boys never mind having sex.I think girls who want to try for a baby that young are after something to love but a baby is much nmore than that and such hard work. After all you are just a child yourself at that age. Just my opinion though, sorry if I've offended anyone

 

[mrscookie]

look guys,

all i can say is.


GO YOUNG MUMS!!!!!!

i was 14 when i conceived my first and that didn't end wonderfully but i say that what happened -- happened, no use bagging her out about it.

another thing, if you wanna chat let me know, i'm her for support if you want it. That is the Thread Poster, but i'm happy to talk to others aswell

lovez,

Rhi.
xx

Oh god... its almost like your are all for a 14 year old to try for a baby! yes I agree some young mums deserve a medal, it does not mean that she should try for a child, still being a child herself. I know someone who was 14 and her and the baby died during childbirth because her body still was not ready... its not something I could ever condone at such a young age.

 

[nikky0907]

I have to agree with Melbo.You can't possibly condone people having babies at 14.
Yes,accidental is one thing but shouldn't we be trying to work out how reduce the number of pregnancies at 14,15? Yes,some young moms are amazing.Hello,I am one myself
But not all!

Nobody should every get approval for having sex and ttc at 14.And you should make it sound like it's ok.

 

[Nik_]

At 14 I don't think I even knew what sex was! I'm going to be honest and say 13/14 is far too young to decide to have a baby or be sexually active. My younger sister is 14 and I can't imagine her kissing other boys never mind having sex.I think girls who want to try for a baby that young are after something to love but a baby is much nmore than that and such hard work. After all you are just a child yourself at that age. Just my opinion though, sorry if I've offended anyone

I couldn't agree more.

 

[Wobbles]

i think i may be pregnant. but im nOt sure #1. but i wOuld like tO have a baby. but the only thing is that im in 8th grade. i dOnt knOw hOw im gOnna gO tO schOOl. but if it was highschOol it woUld be different because i cOuld take night classes. i think if i tOld my mOm& brOther theyd disOwn me and be VERRY upset. but we bOth have LOTS of suppOrt frOm his dad & dads gf. but his mom is SOOOO immature abOut everything.? HELP PLZ.

Is there something wrong with the 'O' button?

 

[Happy]

i think i may be pregnant. but im nOt sure #1. but i wOuld like tO have a baby. but the only thing is that im in 8th grade. i dOnt knOw hOw im gOnna gO tO schOOl. but if it was highschOol it woUld be different because i cOuld take night classes. i think if i tOld my mOm& brOther theyd disOwn me and be VERRY upset. but we bOth have LOTS of suppOrt frOm his dad & dads gf. but his mom is SOOOO immature abOut everything.? HELP PLZ.

Is there something wrong with the 'O' button?

Thats exactly what I was thinking.

 

[Bumble_Bee]

I don't think anyone here is bagging her out for accidently becoming pregnant. I think its more along the lines of she said she wanted a baby and was wondering how to work her schooling around it in grade 8. Like I said in my previous post, there is a huge difference between accidently falling pregnant and trying for a baby at age 14

yes i see where your comming from, i didn't try for it but it happened so shit happens and life goes on.

Rhi.
xx

 

[leeanne]

I don't think anyone here is bagging her out for accidently becoming pregnant. I think its more along the lines of she said she wanted a baby and was wondering how to work her schooling around it in grade 8. Like I said in my previous post, there is a huge difference between accidently falling pregnant and trying for a baby at age 14

yes i see where your comming from, i didn't try for it but it happened so shit happens and life goes on.

Rhi.
xx

Interesting choice of words Bumble_Bee. Pregnancies happen, surprises happen, but never in a million years would I have said "shit happens" when referring to a surprise pregnancy.

Think about your wording and how you've just referred to your own baby as "shit happens".

 

[Always&4ever]

I don't think anyone here is bagging her out for accidently becoming pregnant. I think its more along the lines of she said she wanted a baby and was wondering how to work her schooling around it in grade 8. Like I said in my previous post, there is a huge difference between accidently falling pregnant and trying for a baby at age 14

yes i see where your comming from, i didn't try for it but it happened so shit happens and life goes on.

Rhi.
xx

Interesting choice of words Bumble_Bee. Pregnancies happen, surprises happen, but never in a million years would I have said "shit happens" when referring to a surprise pregnancy.

Think about your wording and how you've just referred to your own baby as "shit happens".

You took the words right out of my mouth x