any yOung pregnant wOmen??? ((15,16,?)) Or yOunger.

[Suz]

I don't think anyone here is bagging her out for accidently becoming pregnant. I think its more along the lines of she said she wanted a baby and was wondering how to work her schooling around it in grade 8. Like I said in my previous post, there is a huge difference between accidently falling pregnant and trying for a baby at age 14

yes i see where your comming from, i didn't try for it but it happened so shit happens and life goes on.

Rhi.
xx

Interesting choice of words Bumble_Bee. Pregnancies happen, surprises happen, but never in a million years would I have said "shit happens" when referring to a surprise pregnancy.

Think about your wording and how you've just referred to your own baby as "shit happens".

Couldn't have said it better myself

 

[brownhairedmom]

I don't think anyone here is bagging her out for accidently becoming pregnant. I think its more along the lines of she said she wanted a baby and was wondering how to work her schooling around it in grade 8. Like I said in my previous post, there is a huge difference between accidently falling pregnant and trying for a baby at age 14

yes i see where your comming from, i didn't try for it but it happened so shit happens and life goes on.

Rhi.
xx

 

[nikky0907]

Shit,huh?

What a lovely petname....

 

[leeanne]

She definitely has a way with words, doesn't she? Very sad!

 

[leedsforever]

shows her maturity Im afraid!!!

 

[AppleBlossom]

Shit happens? Nice

 

[chefamy1122]

i think i may be pregnant. but im nOt sure #1. but i wOuld like tO have a baby. but the only thing is that im in 8th grade. i dOnt knOw hOw im gOnna gO tO schOOl. but if it was highschOol it woUld be different because i cOuld take night classes. i think if i tOld my mOm& brOther theyd disOwn me and be VERRY upset. but we bOth have LOTS of suppOrt frOm his dad & dads gf. but his mom is SOOOO immature abOut everything.? HELP PLZ.

Is there something wrong with the 'O' button?

my thOughts exactly. That is sO damn annOying.

 

[sbbunnie]

I really didn't plan on having kids or ever thought about it. when I found out I never/would never refer to it as "shit happens" you were given a gift of life basically. . . a miracle I couldn't imagine holding my baby and talking to someone about having him and say "aw well ya know shit happens" .............wow....

 

[AppleBlossom]

I really didn't plan on having kids or ever thought about it. when I found out I never/would never refer to it as "shit happens" you were given a gift of life basically. . . a miracle I couldn't imagine holding my baby and talking to someone about having him and say "aw well ya know shit happens" .............wow....

I totally agree. My pregnancy wasn't planned and I was 18 when I found out but she is the most precious thing to me and would never describe her as that EVER

 

[Always&4ever]

I could never have described Jasmine as "shit happens", she wasn't planned but was not and never would be a "mistake either".. she was the most amazing surprise I could have hoped for

 

[coccyx]

As i recall you actually have to lie down and have sex to create a baby, you do not wake up one day and theres a baby in your uterus. Accidents do happen, but to plan a baby at this age is awful. Babies are a wonderful gift not a play thing or a trophy.

 

[AquaDementia]

Why dO yOu pOst like this?

 

[heather91]

I agree with what everyone is saying, but you need to understand that she is only 14 and clearly immature. Obviously, every one is going to put her off trying for a baby but I think to comment about the way she speaks is silly because she is so young (and clearly immature as I said)! Hopefully the response she has received from the forum will make her see that she really does look foolish to try for a baby at 14 and this is the kind of reaction she should expect every day from people around her that know she did try for a baby!

 

[Suz]

Why dO yOu pOst like this?

dOn't yOu knOw its the cOOl thing tO dO?

 

[brownhairedmom]

Why dO yOu pOst like this?

dOn't yOu knOw its the cOOl thing tO dO?

 

[leeanne]

Why dO yOu pOst like this?

dOn't yOu knOw its the cOOl thing tO dO?

Oh boy! ThEn I must bE thE nErd around hErE.

 

[Suz]

Do you want to use my Nerds are Cool avatar

 

[leeanne]

Do you want to use my Nerds are Cool avatar

Naw, starting my own fad. SEE abovE.

 

[Suz]

 

[Sarah88]

I have to agree that I would be shocked if my daughter came to me at 13/14 and said they were having sex and pregnant. This is by no means an attack on you at all Mary. There is no way I would have ever guessed that you were 15 by your posts. I think that you are one of those few young people who are able to see the bigger picture and are having your boy for the right reasons.

This girl sounds quite immature and makes it seem like having a baby is all good and easy. I haven't even had my bub yet and it's not easy. I am 20 and barely see any of my friends either because they're all interested in going out, boozing and getting with random guys. Since i'm pregnant and get tired easily, I am normally the designated driver if I do go out once, and my friends never even bother to invite me out either. At least at 20 i've been able to have a life, to go out and do all those things without having a dependant child.