rebeccaalice
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What guy hun?! Did it happen to you too?!
Anyone cheated on when pregnant?
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What guy hun?! Did it happen to you too?!
Cingraa
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I was, once while pregnant and once just after Sprout was born. He actually confessed to me both times, but only when pushed. He's begging for another chance now; can't do enough to please me and to be there for our daughter. I'm torn...just, who does that while their OH is sitting at home growing their baby? I found dirty messages to a woman on his phone a couple of weeks ago which he swears were a joke between him and his friends.
As Kate said, it's such a shame as this life is here, trusting in them with all of the possibilities but these guys just can't put their d*cks on hold even for their children.
In my case, I'm not sure what our outcome will be but I can see now I've written down the facts how its looking to end up. The only reason I'm even thinking about another chance is as Sprout is so young, and won't understand for the time being. But what you need to try to remember hun is that you are the better person, while you were pregnant and ever since, you've had your child's best interests at heart and put them before your own; something he is obviously not capable of.
I think it really helps me to think that there's really nothing so bad about it being just 'the two of us', I have her and she has me. Anybody else is a plus, but the mother-baby partnership is the most beautiful bond you'll ever find. That combined with the strength and resilience of any single parent is something amazing. Try to remind yourself of this when things get you down hun. You'll be alright.
xx
As Kate said, it's such a shame as this life is here, trusting in them with all of the possibilities but these guys just can't put their d*cks on hold even for their children.
In my case, I'm not sure what our outcome will be but I can see now I've written down the facts how its looking to end up. The only reason I'm even thinking about another chance is as Sprout is so young, and won't understand for the time being. But what you need to try to remember hun is that you are the better person, while you were pregnant and ever since, you've had your child's best interests at heart and put them before your own; something he is obviously not capable of.
I think it really helps me to think that there's really nothing so bad about it being just 'the two of us', I have her and she has me. Anybody else is a plus, but the mother-baby partnership is the most beautiful bond you'll ever find. That combined with the strength and resilience of any single parent is something amazing. Try to remind yourself of this when things get you down hun. You'll be alright.
xx
Emma&Freya
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I dont think Sean physically cheated but there were messages on his phone.
I wouldnt say Ive forgiven him but I most definatly havent forgotten!
Ladies can I just say how brave and strong you lot are
I dont think I could have coped xx
I wouldnt say Ive forgiven him but I most definatly havent forgotten!
Ladies can I just say how brave and strong you lot are
I dont think I could have coped xx
Danie1stbaby
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I think about 97 % of us have been cheated on period 
I was cheated on and abandoned while pregnant with my first and only
unfortunately I will not be the first or last
My goal is to keep my daughter from going through what I went through
I was cheated on and abandoned while pregnant with my first and only
unfortunately I will not be the first or last
My goal is to keep my daughter from going through what I went through
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