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Mo - I'm so sorry for your BFN
I think getting a second opinion is a good idea. Best of luck dear!

I went ahead and requested the appt and filled out all the online forms with everything DH and I have been through. Geesh. I should write a book on the ins and outs of IVF and infertility. I know enough about it. When will my turn come?? This sucks.
Deep breath ... I'm officially pregnant!!!!!
Feeling a bit crazy & relieved all at once.
Beta = 415
I'm home! Officially PUPO! I promise to do personals later, but for now my love and best wishes to you all!
I'm home! Officially PUPO! I promise to do personals later, but for now my love and best wishes to you all!
Morning Ladies
Hope everyone had a good weekend
Mo, I'm so so sorry this whole process is not fair :sad: Sounds like you are doing the right thing with getting the 2nd opinion
Edamame, congratulations on being PUPO
Sekky, Here's to cycle buddies
Mells, hope you are ok and DH leaving wasn't too emotional if thats possible, can't imagine what you are going through
Hope the rest of you ladies are doing well.
Turkey, ever scans this week am i right? if so can't wait to hear about your results
AFM, injections going well mood swings are kicking in!!!!!!! but not bad just waiting for 15th May for scan xx
Mo: I'm so sorry to hear this. You have been through so much. I really believe that when you have multiple mc's, PGD is the way to go. Have you considered it? To the extent that mc's are caused by genetic abnormalities, PGD would be able to identify them prior to ET.
You are young and have time to try alternatives. There are always donor eggs if you decide to try that route. You will have your baby, one way or another. We all will!
Mo: I'm so sorry to hear this. You have been through so much. I really believe that when you have multiple mc's, PGD is the way to go. Have you considered it? To the extent that mc's are caused by genetic abnormalities, PGD would be able to identify them prior to ET.
You are young and have time to try alternatives. There are always donor eggs if you decide to try that route. You will have your baby, one way or another. We all will!
I dont mean to sound insensitive but to tell someone you are young and have time is something I hate to hear...almost insensitive. The women in my family have menopause by 40 (my mom 37 aunt 35) so no I dont have that much time. My FSH and AMH may be okay for my age according to RE but history always proves itself. You have time to someone who wants a baby now is not something someone who has been going through this for 26 months, 3 full IVFS, 2 FETS, 2 mc's with 2 d/c and one chemical pregnancy wants to hear. All the test on the embryos are normal after the m/cs and dh and I have 100% normal chromosomes/karotypes so RE does not believe its anything chromosomally but we would do PGD next. I wont use donor eggs because mine are fine. RE and embryologist do not see an issue with our eggs. PGD would be our next route if we decided to do another full IVF. Either that or IUI with donor sperm (which DH is not on board with). Sorry to rant like that but that comment really upset me![]()