Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

Mo - I'm so sorry for your BFN :hugs: I think getting a second opinion is a good idea. Best of luck dear!
 
I went ahead and requested the appt and filled out all the online forms with everything DH and I have been through. Geesh. I should write a book on the ins and outs of IVF and infertility. I know enough about it. When will my turn come?? This sucks.
 
I went ahead and requested the appt and filled out all the online forms with everything DH and I have been through. Geesh. I should write a book on the ins and outs of IVF and infertility. I know enough about it. When will my turn come?? This sucks.

I know how you feel! Good luck with your consult. I really hope you get your rainbow!!:flower:
 
Hello ladies:flower:. I think I kinda lost my way to this thread. Thought I subscribed to it:dohh: . I tried to catch up on everyone's progress since my last as below

Mo- as I mentioned on the other thread, so sorry for your bfn and hoping the new clinic gets you your deserved BFP:hugs:

Alicatt - good luck with your FET and fx this is ur BFP:hugs:

Sandy - seems we are cycle buddies. My estimated ER is also around May 25.

Edamame - hoping your tww flies by quickly :coffee: and ends with a BFP

Turkey, ttc & mercy - good luck to you ladies on Monday:flower:

Ash - fx the meds and protocol change does the trick:flower:

Sorry if I missed anyone. Have a great week everyone
 
Mells I hope you had a good day spent with your dh before he leaves. I couldn't imagine having to see my honey leave for months at a time...it takes a strong woman! I'm glad to hear you have a good support system to help you while he's away. I second that for you as well Ali for having support as well to help you with this process and I'm sure beyond! My mom is a single parent and I've always admired her strength to raise my brother and I on her own!!

Mo, I'm so sorry to hear you think you're out for this month. It's so frustrating to want something so badly and feel like its just beyond your reach. I think a second opinion is a great idea. Never hurts to have another perspective. I know it's hard to feel positive, but you've been pregnant before..you will get pregnant again. :hugs:
 
Thanks L4, Lotus and all the ladies here...sometimes I can't believe the stuff I've gotten through :wacko:

Mo, I'm glad you are seeking a second opinion. Sometimes I just takes another prospective to make all the difference. So many times I wish I could invite you all over for a girls night. Just to be around others that understand the pain you are going through. :hug:
 
I finally heard.. I am cleared to do my FET!!! They don't have the official results yet, but they have a verbal 'NORMAL' from the lab in Spain. So I have an appointment on Monday to start my FET cycle!!! :yipee: :wohoo: So my uterus is receptive to implantation and we're ready to go! :thumbup:

I hope everyone else is doing well!!! Happy Friday!!![/QUOTE]


Great news and :hugs::dust: for you
 
Mo: I'm so sorry to hear this. You have been through so much. I really believe that when you have multiple mc's, PGD is the way to go. Have you considered it? To the extent that mc's are caused by genetic abnormalities, PGD would be able to identify them prior to ET.

You are young and have time to try alternatives. There are always donor eggs if you decide to try that route. You will have your baby, one way or another. We all will!
 
Morning Ladies

Hope everyone had a good weekend :hugs:

Mo, I'm so so sorry this whole process is not fair :sad: Sounds like you are doing the right thing with getting the 2nd opinion :hugs:

Edamame, congratulations on being PUPO :happydance:

Sekky, Here's to cycle buddies :happydance:

Mells, hope you are ok and DH leaving wasn't too emotional if thats possible, can't imagine what you are going through :hugs:

Hope the rest of you ladies are doing well.

Turkey, ever scans this week am i right? if so can't wait to hear about your results :hugs:

AFM, injections going well mood swings are kicking in!!!!!!! but not bad just waiting for 15th May for scan xx
 
Mo - devastated to hear that. Is there any chance it is too early? I know you know yourself better than anyone so I'm sure you know but will you keep POAS to make sure?

Edamame and angel - congrats on being PUPO!! Rest up and try not to go crazy in the 2ww!!

Turkey - was it your scan today? Good luck if it is!!

Ali- great news you are set to go!!

How is everyone lose doing? Can't scroll through many posts easily on my phone!

AFM - I have my scan on Wednesday. My pain went away after about an hour on Friday and not had any since so hoping all is fine!

Xx
 
Morning Ladies

Hope everyone had a good weekend :hugs:

Mo, I'm so so sorry this whole process is not fair :sad: Sounds like you are doing the right thing with getting the 2nd opinion :hugs:

Edamame, congratulations on being PUPO :happydance:

Sekky, Here's to cycle buddies :happydance:

Mells, hope you are ok and DH leaving wasn't too emotional if thats possible, can't imagine what you are going through :hugs:

Hope the rest of you ladies are doing well.

Turkey, ever scans this week am i right? if so can't wait to hear about your results :hugs:

AFM, injections going well mood swings are kicking in!!!!!!! but not bad just waiting for 15th May for scan xx

:thumbup:yeah cycle buddies. My scan is May 11. I don't have any reaction to the burserelin yet. I got AF on Saturday and its super light. I think it's because I used BCP b4 down reg:shrug:

How is everyone doing
 
Mo: I'm so sorry to hear this. You have been through so much. I really believe that when you have multiple mc's, PGD is the way to go. Have you considered it? To the extent that mc's are caused by genetic abnormalities, PGD would be able to identify them prior to ET.

You are young and have time to try alternatives. There are always donor eggs if you decide to try that route. You will have your baby, one way or another. We all will!

I dont mean to sound insensitive but to tell someone you are young and have time is something I hate to hear...almost insensitive. The women in my family have menopause by 40 (my mom 37 aunt 35) so no I dont have that much time. My FSH and AMH may be okay for my age according to RE but history always proves itself. You have time to someone who wants a baby now is not something someone who has been going through this for 26 months, 3 full IVFS, 2 FETS, 2 mc's with 2 d/c and one chemical pregnancy wants to hear. All the test on the embryos are normal after the m/cs and dh and I have 100% normal chromosomes/karotypes so RE does not believe its anything chromosomally but we would do PGD next. I wont use donor eggs because mine are fine. RE and embryologist do not see an issue with our eggs. PGD would be our next route if we decided to do another full IVF. Either that or IUI with donor sperm (which DH is not on board with). Sorry to rant like that but that comment really upset me :(
 
Mo: I'm so sorry to hear this. You have been through so much. I really believe that when you have multiple mc's, PGD is the way to go. Have you considered it? To the extent that mc's are caused by genetic abnormalities, PGD would be able to identify them prior to ET.

You are young and have time to try alternatives. There are always donor eggs if you decide to try that route. You will have your baby, one way or another. We all will!

I dont mean to sound insensitive but to tell someone you are young and have time is something I hate to hear...almost insensitive. The women in my family have menopause by 40 (my mom 37 aunt 35) so no I dont have that much time. My FSH and AMH may be okay for my age according to RE but history always proves itself. You have time to someone who wants a baby now is not something someone who has been going through this for 26 months, 3 full IVFS, 2 FETS, 2 mc's with 2 d/c and one chemical pregnancy wants to hear. All the test on the embryos are normal after the m/cs and dh and I have 100% normal chromosomes/karotypes so RE does not believe its anything chromosomally but we would do PGD next. I wont use donor eggs because mine are fine. RE and embryologist do not see an issue with our eggs. PGD would be our next route if we decided to do another full IVF. Either that or IUI with donor sperm (which DH is not on board with). Sorry to rant like that but that comment really upset me :(

Mo - I just think that FirstTry was trying to be supportive and help you deal with your current situation. You are smart to be trying now instead of waiting until you are in your mid/late 30s. I do think that you need to get some additional advice and work with a FS that is more apt to think outside the box. FS you are working with now has done the traditional method several times and it isn't working. With your age and your clear chromosomal and karotype tests, I doubt PGD would help that much.

I know you've rejected it in the past, but maybe now it is time to look at immunology and whether you have a defect in the uterus? I'm sorry if I'm offending you, but when the traditional methods have been exhausted, maybe it is time to seek alternatives? I am not sure where you are located, but there are endometrium tests being done at Cornell I think, or my FS in Boca Raton is doing it with a team in Spain. The blood panel I had done to rule out clotting and immunological tests was 100% covered by my insurance. The NK cell testing was not, it was $580, but that was the only thing that came back abnormal. If you are at all interested I can send you more information in a PM.

Maybe do some of this testing and if things come back normal then move to PGD? If I were in your shoes (and am at this moment) that is what I would do. I can't do PGD though as I have already frozen my embryos, and do not plan on doing a 3rd IVF. I have the embryos I have, and that is it [-o< that I'm finally successful!

BIG :hug: Know we are all here to support you and help you along this road.
 
I'm off to the FS office in an hour to have my baseline, and discuss our strategy. I'm not sure exactly what the plan is or when exactly I'll be starting. I guess I'll find out soon! :thumbup: I do know that we'll be doing the IVIg infusion in the first 7-10 days of the cycle, and I think we're using vivelle dot patches to prime the uterus, and PIO shots from there on out. It is possible that they will switch up my cycle though :shrug: Since I really haven't had great responses to either the vivelle dot or the estrogen shots. Maybe a combo of the 2? I really don't know.

I bought some red raspberry leaf tea that is meant to help improve the uterine lining, and I'm back taking my maca root, royal jelly and CoQ10. I'm also setting up appointments with my acupuncturist. I figure lets go big or go home! :haha:
 
Ali - good luck hun!

Mo - so sorry hun...I know I cannot say anything to make you feel better right now. I just pray you will hold your baby in arms very soon!
 

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