Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

[Blue12]

My otd is July 27 which is sooo far away 14dp3dt. But I will be testing sooner as I feel that at the equivalent of 13dpo the answer is definitive if its a negative.

What DPT are you now? I believe I got my first faint positive on 4dp5dt. Not advocating testing early, and mine was a squinter, but if you are game, you can probably start as early as 6dp3dt, but at that point there is still a very big chance it will be negative. So as long as you prepare for the potential negative, go for it. Or if you want to wait until the chances are pretty high that if it worked it will be positive, then wait until about 12-13dpo as you said.

I'm currently 5dp3dt. I'm so nervous and unsure what to do. I will probably test even earlier but those early negatives do break my heart. And honestly I have a really bad feeling this cycle won't work. I have no tests at home though so that may lead me to have to wait.

 

[alicatt]

My otd is July 27 which is sooo far away 14dp3dt. But I will be testing sooner as I feel that at the equivalent of 13dpo the answer is definitive if its a negative.

What DPT are you now? I believe I got my first faint positive on 4dp5dt. Not advocating testing early, and mine was a squinter, but if you are game, you can probably start as early as 6dp3dt, but at that point there is still a very big chance it will be negative. So as long as you prepare for the potential negative, go for it. Or if you want to wait until the chances are pretty high that if it worked it will be positive, then wait until about 12-13dpo as you said.

I'm currently 5dp3dt. I'm so nervous and unsure what to do. I will probably test even earlier but those early negatives do break my heart. And honestly I have a really bad feeling this cycle won't work. I have no tests at home though so that may lead me to have to wait.

Ya, I'd wait at least another day, and if you don't like seeing the negatives, then I'd wait until 12-13 dpo then! Keep thinking positive!!!

 

[Turkey16]

Hey Everybody!!! Lots of exciting things a-happening!!!!

Super psyched for you Mo!!!! The stars are aligned and it's your time babe!!! Not much longer now!!

Ali & Sandy...things are moving!!! Sounds like your appointments went great!! Your times will be here before you know it!

Blue & Brandy...sit tight and stay calm!! Some people feel stuff, some don't feel a thing! I literally did not have a single sign or symptom with DD! I am praying for you and sending virtual hugs! Fingers crossed too!!!

Hey Kali...good luck with whatever option you decide to go with!!!

All pregnant gals, L4, wanna, babies, babyD, 2girls, Em, first, sweet and
Mells (!!!!)...hope you're feeling spectacular and keeping cool!

All my other friends who are somewhere in the middle with me Edamame, Ever, anxiously, lotus, Sekky, Lucie, TTCbaby, Ash, and anyone else I'm leaving out (sorry!!)...hope you are feeling good, and staying positive.

AFM...AF arrived yesterday, so it's "Estrogen Priming Protocol...Take II" it's kinda like deja vu cuz I'm doing the same dang thing I did last month, but whatever!!! Bloodwork tomorrow and then hysteroscopy next Thursday. Please say some prayers that everything is clear and we can get this show on the road....THANKS GIRLS!!! xoxo

 

[~Brandy~]

My otd is July 27 which is sooo far away 14dp3dt. But I will be testing sooner as I feel that at the equivalent of 13dpo the answer is definitive if its a negative.

What DPT are you now? I believe I got my first faint positive on 4dp5dt. Not advocating testing early, and mine was a squinter, but if you are game, you can probably start as early as 6dp3dt, but at that point there is still a very big chance it will be negative. So as long as you prepare for the potential negative, go for it. Or if you want to wait until the chances are pretty high that if it worked it will be positive, then wait until about 12-13dpo as you said.

I'm currently 5dp3dt. I'm so nervous and unsure what to do. I will probably test even earlier but those early negatives do break my heart. And honestly I have a really bad feeling this cycle won't work. I have no tests at home though so that may lead me to have to wait.

I'm the same as you and I'm so sad and scared it didn't work. I need to be positive but it's not happening

 

[Mells54]

My otd is July 27 which is sooo far away 14dp3dt. But I will be testing sooner as I feel that at the equivalent of 13dpo the answer is definitive if its a negative.

What DPT are you now? I believe I got my first faint positive on 4dp5dt. Not advocating testing early, and mine was a squinter, but if you are game, you can probably start as early as 6dp3dt, but at that point there is still a very big chance it will be negative. So as long as you prepare for the potential negative, go for it. Or if you want to wait until the chances are pretty high that if it worked it will be positive, then wait until about 12-13dpo as you said.

I'm currently 5dp3dt. I'm so nervous and unsure what to do. I will probably test even earlier but those early negatives do break my heart. And honestly I have a really bad feeling this cycle won't work. I have no tests at home though so that may lead me to have to wait.

Blue, I got my BFP at 9dp3dt and there was no denying the line. I think I could have tested earlier and gotten something, but I was too scared. Good luck!

 

[alicatt]

My otd is July 27 which is sooo far away 14dp3dt. But I will be testing sooner as I feel that at the equivalent of 13dpo the answer is definitive if its a negative.

What DPT are you now? I believe I got my first faint positive on 4dp5dt. Not advocating testing early, and mine was a squinter, but if you are game, you can probably start as early as 6dp3dt, but at that point there is still a very big chance it will be negative. So as long as you prepare for the potential negative, go for it. Or if you want to wait until the chances are pretty high that if it worked it will be positive, then wait until about 12-13dpo as you said.

I'm currently 5dp3dt. I'm so nervous and unsure what to do. I will probably test even earlier but those early negatives do break my heart. And honestly I have a really bad feeling this cycle won't work. I have no tests at home though so that may lead me to have to wait.

Blue, I got my BFP at 9dp3dt and there was no denying the line. I think I could have tested earlier and gotten something, but I was too scared. Good luck!

I did test on 3dp5dt and got a BFN and cried and cried and then on 4dp5dt I saw the faintest of faint lines, it was so amazing! So don't count yourself out! I was so emotional during those days, that I thought for sure it didn't work, but then I saw the line. Course it ended in a MC, but I was pregnant if only for a little while!

 

[Sandy83]

Well ladies no natural bfp, but got start dates of 3rd august for down regging and ER for beginning of september. Xx

 

[Blue12]

Sorry to hear no surprise pregnancy sandy but must feel fantastic to be movig forward. I feel very positive for you.

Thanks ladies for the positive wishes. I can't remember who h exact dpo's I tested last time with my fet but I'm pretty sure I had very early lines which I was so excited about and I had 1-2 preg on the cb digital for a whole week every day and then my beta was low and went down. So it still makes me nervous lol. But I want some lines lol

 

[~Brandy~]

Sorry to hear no surprise pregnancy sandy but must feel fantastic to be movig forward. I feel very positive for you.

Thanks ladies for the positive wishes. I can't remember who h exact dpo's I tested last time with my fet but I'm pretty sure I had very early lines which I was so excited about and I had 1-2 preg on the cb digital for a whole week every day and then my beta was low and went down. So it still makes me nervous lol. But I want some lines lol

Amen sister! I am a POAS addict so that doesnt help.

I thought I tested my trigger all the way out but on 2DP5DT I had the faintest ever of lines... so I held it and took another test last night and this morning. I think there is a tiny bit residual from my trigger or something because they didnt change within that 24 hours.

But to see the line I had to take the frer apart and hold it in all kinds of light to grab a glimpse of it so I either have line eye or a spot of trigger.

 

[LotusBlossom]

Hi ladies! There is so much going on here! I'm following and thinking about all of you but have been in a holding pattern for a while. I found out today that my civilian provider can send a referral to military IVF program, which is MUCH more affordable...but it's in DC. So... I talked to another military wife who went through the program and got the low-down on the treatment, traveling, etc. She had a very positive experience and says her friend did as well. We've decided to go for it. We have to wait a bit so that baby will be born with DH in the country, but hoping to get things (tests and all that) started so we can do a cycle at the beginning of next year. I'm excited to have a plan!!

I had an interview tonight for a nanny position (glutton for punishment, I know), but I don't think it's the right fit. Hoping to not work with children as it's just a reminder that we have none, but I'm good at it.

I hope you are all well and looking forward to the weekend! ❤❤❤

 

[Blue12]

Brandy I had the same thing. I did a test 4dp3dt and had a faint line that was visible but them today at 5dp3dt completely blank so maybe now the trigger was completely out. But I must say I'm using the cheapie tests which I dot feel are nearly as reliable as frers or cb digital - I will use those closer to the date

 

[Mells54]

Lotus, I'm so happy to hear you have a plan. We were told the waiting list was about 2 years so that is why we didnt apply, we are just too old to wait that long...but if you have time on your side I think it is a good option.

 

[alicatt]

Brandy I had the same thing. I did a test 4dp3dt and had a faint line that was visible but them today at 5dp3dt completely blank so maybe now the trigger was completely out. But I must say I'm using the cheapie tests which I dot feel are nearly as reliable as frers or cb digital - I will use those closer to the date

Those days around 5-10 DPO are the hardest part of the wait, just try to be patient, and stay positive! I talked to my belly a lot telling the bean to implant! My impression of the Internet cheapies is don't bother with them! They are supposed to be so sensitive but were showing negatives (or squinters) when I had clear lines on FRER's. Go to Walmart they have the cheapest FRER's at about 8.97 a box for 2. I promise you it's worth getting the more expensive test!

 

[~Brandy~]

Brandy I had the same thing. I did a test 4dp3dt and had a faint line that was visible but them today at 5dp3dt completely blank so maybe now the trigger was completely out. But I must say I'm using the cheapie tests which I dot feel are nearly as reliable as frers or cb digital - I will use those closer to the date

This is the line thats making me senile!

 

[alicatt]

Lotus, I'm so happy to hear you have a plan. We were told the waiting list was about 2 years so that is why we didnt apply, we are just too old to wait that long...but if you have time on your side I think it is a good option.

Lotus I'm glad to hear you have a plan! YAY!

Sandy.. sorry for the BFN, but at least you have a date for your next one!

AFM.. My HCG is now normal at 5, and my DHEA was in the normal range so we aren't going to supplement since its normal and my Antral follicle count looked great. I'm heading on vacation tomorrow, driving cross country, so I'll be a little MIA until I get there.

 

[~Brandy~]

Lotus, I'm so happy to hear you have a plan. We were told the waiting list was about 2 years so that is why we didnt apply, we are just too old to wait that long...but if you have time on your side I think it is a good option.

Lotus I'm glad to hear you have a plan! YAY!

Sandy.. sorry for the BFN, but at least you have a date for your next one!

AFM.. My HCG is now normal at 5, and my DHEA was in the normal range so we aren't going to supplement since its normal and my Antral follicle count looked great. I'm heading on vacation tomorrow, driving cross country, so I'll be a little MIA until I get there.

Ahh have a good trip!

 

[Mells54]

Ali, have a good trip!

 

[LotusBlossom]

Lotus, I'm so happy to hear you have a plan. We were told the waiting list was about 2 years so that is why we didnt apply, we are just too old to wait that long...but if you have time on your side I think it is a good option.

I looked into it and there is NO WAITING LIST! I was so shocked!

 

[Sandy83]

Morning Ladies

Lotus, great news on the plan, I'm so excited for you

Ali, Enjoy your vacation, you deserve some well earned rest and relaxation.

Blue & Brandy, Keeping my fingers crossed for you not be long til OTD

Hope everyone else is doing well

AFM, really looking forward to moving on with this cycle. Start buserelin on 3rd August and ER about 2nd week in September Have my first accupuncture appt in 4 days so looking forward to that. It's all go! xx

 

[MoBaby]

2 totcicles on board!! They both made it!! Dr was surprised the one that had been frozen-thawed-frozen made it and he asked me if I was really sure I wanted to do both. I said its all or none at this point! Here is a pic of the babies
https://i.imgur.com/Pra4puQl.jpg