Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

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Yip, exactly same stage as you. Retrieval yesterday and waiting to see if we will do a day 3 or 5 transfer. Whatever happens I plan to put 2 back ( well so long as we have two to use!). I was pretty much expecting the drop off so didn't get the same sense of disappointment as last time round. Last time we only got 2 fertilised eggs and they went back at day2.
 
Oh this process is so hard. All I was worried about was whether or not it fell on the weekend I didn't even consider my lining thickness would be too thick. My oh and my BFF think I should go ahead. Mainly because the 'experts' are telling me to and because we know we want to move from this clinic. So if it doesn't work we can move on. But if we wait we're stuck and could be in this same predicament in a few months time.
Em my lining is always thick and I think that's why they're saying to go ahead :cry:
 
Boofle said:
Oh this process is so hard. All I was worried about was whether or not it fell on the weekend I didn't even consider my lining thickness would be too thick. My oh and my BFF think I should go ahead. Mainly because the 'experts' are telling me to and because we know we want to move from this clinic. So if it doesn't work we can move on. But if we wait we're stuck and could be in this same predicament in a few months time.
Em my lining is always thick and I think that's why they're saying to go ahead :cry:
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Boofle.. how many frozen do you have and how many would you want to put in.
 
Bluebell bun said:
Yip, exactly same stage as you. Retrieval yesterday and waiting to see if we will do a day 3 or 5 transfer. Whatever happens I plan to put 2 back ( well so long as we have two to use!). I was pretty much expecting the drop off so didn't get the same sense of disappointment as last time round. Last time we only got 2 fertilised eggs and they went back at day2.
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Blue-- we'll wait together.. fingers crossed for you...!:hugs:
 
Baby I have one left. My clinic only let you transfer one anyway.
 
Baby D, with you all the way on this one. Fingers crossed:hugs:
Boofle, it's just one stress after the other isn't it? I'm normally very level headed and this just makes you a complete fruitcake! Wishing you all the best whatever you decide. When do you need to make up your mind?
 
Bluebell bun said:
Baby D, with you all the way on this one. Fingers crossed:hugs:
Boofle, it's just one stress after the other isn't it? I'm normally very level headed and this just makes you a complete fruitcake! Wishing you all the best whatever you decide. When do you need to make up your mind?
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Blue-- where do u live btw?
 
BabyD225 said:
Greyhound... wish I had better news...

So I'm feeling down now... just got my fertilization report...

12 eggs retrieved..
only 8 were mature
only 5 fertilized with ICSI...

my numbers are dwindling fast... i hope these 5 last... any encouraging words would be appreciated at this point... feel like I could cry
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I felt the exact same way. In early Jan I had 16 eggs, 15 mature and only 4 fertilized by ICSI. I was devastated as we paid more for ICSI hoping for a higher implantation number. By day 5 we only had one egg to transfer and none to freeze. But that 1 little egg was enough. I did acupuncture right before and right after my transfer, and have no idea if that did the trick but I heard it helps. I also say, as corny as this sounds, a Hail Mary a day asking for this little one to stay put.

All it takes is 1. I'm keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you!!
 
Well operation increase thickness of lining is well underway! Been drinking pomegranate juice and as we speak I've got my heat pad on and drinking a cup of raspberry leaf tea. Gods knows if it's going to help in anyway just makes me feel better to think I'm doing something instead of worrying .

Sending everyone on this thread lots of :dust: been a busy couple of days xx
 
I know we were only allowed to put one back on a fresh cycle due to nhs wanting to reduce numbers of multiple births but with FET they allow you to put 2 back. Xx
 
Hey all spoke to re today.. Got a cycle plan...

Unfortunately the miscarriage was unexplained. Completely normal female fetus. He didn't tell me female but he told me they couldn't 100% it wasn't maternal containment so that means it was xx or else they would have reported xy....

Anyways all my testing has been normal and all dh testing is normal and all the miscarriage blood testing for me is normal.... So we really have no explanation except hormonal and possible decreased blood flow to uterus. SO ....

Plan is a natural fet so my body does all the work and no artificial hormones except progesterone in the luteal phase with Crinone. He is also doing baby aspirin (don't know if it will help) and also do a through ultrasound of my abnormal shaped uterus to make sure the blood supply is okay. Re is sure its fine. Only bad thing about natural fet is no early testing because I'll take 3 Hcg shots!! That sucks! Lol... Anyways next af due feb 24 with o around march 8/9/10 so fet transfer around march 15 at latest I think.
 
MoBaby said:
Hey all spoke to re today.. Got a cycle plan...

Unfortunately the miscarriage was unexplained. Completely normal female fetus. He didn't tell me female but he told me they couldn't 100% it wasn't maternal containment so that means it was xx or else they would have reported xy....

Anyways all my testing has been normal and all dh testing is normal and all the miscarriage blood testing for me is normal.... So we really have no explanation except hormonal and possible decreased blood flow to uterus. SO ....

Plan is a natural fet so my body does all the work and no artificial hormones except progesterone in the luteal phase with Crinone. He is also doing baby aspirin (don't know if it will help) and also do a through ultrasound of my abnormal shaped uterus to make sure the blood supply is okay. Re is sure its fine. Only bad thing about natural fet is no early testing because I'll take 3 Hcg shots!! That sucks! Lol... Anyways next af due feb 24 with o around march 8/9/10 so fet transfer around march 15 at latest I think.
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I'll know more about mine by tomorrow. However I think my real FET will be about 10 days after yours. The trial one is supposed to start here any day, as long as AF shows up! Still a no show.. :growlmad:
 
Boofle and Sandy - I'm sorry that this last rous has been so frustrating for you. I hope the next cycle is a little less stressful.
 
WannabeeMum said:
Boofle and Sandy - I'm sorry that this last rous has been so frustrating for you. I hope the next cycle is a little less stressful.
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Congrats Wannabee.. you must have gotten your BFP while I was MIA. So a very belated CONGRATS :happydance:
 
It always seems that everyone else's cycle goes exactly as planned and I always have the set backs. So, although I'm not happy anyone has set backs, I'm glad to know I'm not the only one that has crazy things happening inside our body that we don't have any control over.
I'm getting so anxious for my baseline tomorrow. This is usually when I get some sort of news that postpones or cancels my cycle.
Hugs to you all. This process is so emotionally and physically draining.
 
Mo sorry you have no answers for your mc. It sounds like you have a good plan in place for your FET next month!
 
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