Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

Today's test: I'm an addict for sure.
2 days ago then yesterday then today fmu.
https://i.imgur.com/vwZVt4c.jpg

Last night vs fmu https://i.imgur.com/aHL7V3o.jpg line is getting lighter which really concerns me.

I'm sure it just has to do with the booster leaving and your hydration. The line still looks plenty dark to me, and I doubt it would be this dark if it was just the booster by this point! FX'd that it gets darker!
 
Ali, you DO know so much about this. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Mo, I think it's still too early to have a definite answer yet.

AFM, we have a counseling appt today (a requirement for donor egg cycles), then DH leaves tomorrow for his 4 months away. I'm very emotional...to say the least
 
Mo, it's way too early to be out. I don't see a bit of difference between the two shades. Keep peeing! :winkwink:
 
Ali, you DO know so much about this. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Mo, I think it's still too early to have a definite answer yet.

AFM, we have a counseling appt today (a requirement for donor egg cycles), then DH leaves tomorrow for his 4 months away. I'm very emotional...to say the least

One day at a time Mells. It's gonna be hard, but all SO worth it!! Look at it as a "mission"...stay focused, and keep your eyes on the prize!!! Plus you have all of us!! xo
 
Ali, you DO know so much about this. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Mo, I think it's still too early to have a definite answer yet.

AFM, we have a counseling appt today (a requirement for donor egg cycles), then DH leaves tomorrow for his 4 months away. I'm very emotional...to say the least

Sending you :hugs: I hope the appointment goes well and you and DH get to spend some quality time together today :hugs:
 
Ali, you DO know so much about this. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Mo, I think it's still too early to have a definite answer yet.

AFM, we have a counseling appt today (a requirement for donor egg cycles), then DH leaves tomorrow for his 4 months away. I'm very emotional...to say the least

Sending you :hugs: I hope the appointment goes well and you and DH get to spend some quality time together today :hugs:

Mells, I can only imagine the emotions you are feeling right now. Getting started on a big and excited adventure, but having to do it solo. Just keep your eye on the prize and we'll be here to help you get through it!!! I am sure your DH is feeling almost as emotional, as he probably feels like he's deserting you when you need him most. So cherish the time you have now, and lean on us when you need it! :hug:
 
Thanks Ladies! Your support means so much to me. Sometimes this is a lonely process when none of your friends or family face infertility.

Ali, you are strong woman to have undertaken this on your own. Although it sounds like you have a strong supporter in your Mom!
 
Thanks Ladies! Your support means so much to me. Sometimes this is a lonely process when none of your friends or family face infertility.

Ali, you are strong woman to have undertaken this on your own. Although it sounds like you have a strong supporter in your Mom!

Thanks! I've undertaken this all on my own, but I do have a posse of people around me all supporting me! My Mom has been amazing, as have my close friends. :thumbup: So far I've had one of my best friends, my ex-bf and my Mom taking me to ERs and ETs, and another friend has offered her assistance for my next ET! So yes, I have been very blessed to have such amazing people in my corner!

Is there someone close to you (besides DH) that can be there for you? I don't know if your FS uses any Valium or other sedatives during ET, buy mine does, and they wouldn't let me drive. So you may need to enlist someone to help you for that day. Otherwise, I've been able to give myself all my shots and handle everything else fairly well! I'm sure you will too!! :thumbup:
 
Wow, Mells & Ali, you do have extra challenges, although it is lovely to hear of your circle of support. Even with a partner, it seems like IVF can still be a lonely process. Sometimes you go through your own emotions alone. Anyway, wishing both of you lots of luck & peace & baby dust :flower:
 
Thanks Ladies! Your support means so much to me. Sometimes this is a lonely process when none of your friends or family face infertility.

Ali, you are strong woman to have undertaken this on your own. Although it sounds like you have a strong supporter in your Mom!

Thanks! I've undertaken this all on my own, but I do have a posse of people around me all supporting me! My Mom has been amazing, as have my close friends. :thumbup: So far I've had one of my best friends, my ex-bf and my Mom taking me to ERs and ETs, and another friend has offered her assistance for my next ET! So yes, I have been very blessed to have such amazing people in my corner!

Is there someone close to you (besides DH) that can be there for you? I don't know if your FS uses any Valium or other sedatives during ET, buy mine does, and they wouldn't let me drive. So you may need to enlist someone to help you for that day. Otherwise, I've been able to give myself all my shots and handle everything else fairly well! I'm sure you will too!! :thumbup:

Ali, yes I'm very lucky to have some people who are our biggest cheerleaders. :happydance: It is a little more difficult only because we don't live near family, but they are just a phone call away. My bf actually knows my infertility issues from the beginning, and although she is done having children...she offered to be a surrogate if I ever needed one. My mother in law is planning to be here for ET. She and I get along very well, so that will be wonderful as well. She won't let me lift a finger for sure.:thumbup:
 
Mells - that is so wonderful that you get along with your MIL. I wish I did, I have wanted us to be close BC I am that way with mjy mom...I live a plane ride away from my mother but my MIL is right down the street.No such luck though....she isn't a bad person but we just don't click. Cherish her....that is so awesome.
 
I'm out 100%. My test was nearly negative this morning. I'm going to call clinic tomorrow to ask about going into next cycle medicated for fet. I am really over this. 5 transfers and nothing to show for it except 2 dead babies. I just don't understand all of this. I'm not going for my beta Friday b/c I don't see the point of wasting gas (45 min drive so 1.5 hrs) and money. I'll call and see if I can stop estrace and progesterone and call when af arrives. I don't need to see my re. I know what he will say and honestly I'm over it. I'm also going to seek another opinion b/c this is all crap.
 
I read your blog, I'm so so sorry about this. It's devastating, there are no words. :cry: Thinking of you, Mo. :hugs:
 
I'm out 100%. My test was nearly negative this morning. I'm going to call clinic tomorrow to ask about going into next cycle medicated for fet. I am really over this. 5 transfers and nothing to show for it except 2 dead babies. I just don't understand all of this. I'm not going for my beta Friday b/c I don't see the point of wasting gas (45 min drive so 1.5 hrs) and money. I'll call and see if I can stop estrace and progesterone and call when af arrives. I don't need to see my re. I know what he will say and honestly I'm over it. I'm also going to seek another opinion b/c this is all crap.

Oh Mo - I'm so sorry to hear that. I was rooting for you!!! Yes, I think you need to seek another opinion. See someone that puts more stalk in thinking outside the box to help figure out what could be going wrong. Do you think you had a chemical or do you think it was just the booster?

Big :hug:
 
Mo - I'm so sorry :hugs: I don't think you should stop your meds though, just in case. I think seeking a second opinion is a great idea as you haven't been happy with your RE for a long time. :hugs:
 
I'm out 100%. My test was nearly negative this morning. I'm going to call clinic tomorrow to ask about going into next cycle medicated for fet. I am really over this. 5 transfers and nothing to show for it except 2 dead babies. I just don't understand all of this. I'm not going for my beta Friday b/c I don't see the point of wasting gas (45 min drive so 1.5 hrs) and money. I'll call and see if I can stop estrace and progesterone and call when af arrives. I don't need to see my re. I know what he will say and honestly I'm over it. I'm also going to seek another opinion b/c this is all crap.

Sorry Mo. I think a second opinion is a really good idea.
 
Em: Its not possible. Even if I were pg the line was so faint today that it would not be viable. Since it was a natural FET the progesterone is really not necessary; just given as extra support. I would rather let AF come than to prolong it any longer. Beta is not until Friday may 3rd. I think AF was due today (or maybe tomorrow). I have been through this enough times, enough negatives, to know when its over and unfortunately its over. I just requested an appointment at another fertility clinic so they will probably call me tomorrow. They have the attain program but after reading about it me and DH would not qualify most likely b/c of my uterus and b/c we have had failed cycles. Damn I need a money tree :(

I dont think its a chemical either. I think its over since my RE told me to test tomorrow and tomorrow it will be negative for sure. This really stinks. I hate this feeling :(
 
Em: Its not possible. Even if I were pg the line was so faint today that it would not be viable. Since it was a natural FET the progesterone is really not necessary; just given as extra support. I would rather let AF come than to prolong it any longer. Beta is not until Friday may 3rd. I think AF was due today (or maybe tomorrow). I have been through this enough times, enough negatives, to know when its over and unfortunately its over. I just requested an appointment at another fertility clinic so they will probably call me tomorrow. They have the attain program but after reading about it me and DH would not qualify most likely b/c of my uterus and b/c we have had failed cycles. Damn I need a money tree :(

I dont think its a chemical either. I think its over since my RE told me to test tomorrow and tomorrow it will be negative for sure. This really stinks. I hate this feeling :(


Mo.. I wish you could talk to AngekSerenity on the 35+ board I am on. She has had more MC's than anyone I know! She is lucky to get pregnant on her own easily, but has MC after MC around 7-10 weeks. They have figured out that its the NK cells and treated her this time with daily injections of lovenox to treat it. She may have had other meds too, I'm not sure. She also has an issue with her uterus, she has a septum, that is not in the way so far, but now that her FS has seen it more clearly, he has suggested she has it taken out if she wants another child. She is currently at 12 weeks!! So miracles do happen :thumbup: It will happen! :hug:
 

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