Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

[mercyme]

Ali, amazing!!!! Congrats!!!

Sweetness, your lines are so dark! Awesome!!

First, it's natural to feel that way but try not to get too down unless you have real information (like very low betas, slow heartbeat, etc). Good luck!

 

[Sweetness_87]

First- its not failing. Don't think that way be positive. That's the only thoughts I'm thinking!! You will be fine

Mercy-thanks so much

 

[Mells54]

First, just relax and enjoy being pregnant.

 

[MoBaby]

Hi Ladies! So this thread exploded today! I am stocked for Ali! Em congrats on the beautiful blast Ash good luck tomorrow!! First: Relax! your beta was great!! Sweet: Your lines are amazing! Would not be one bit surprised if you have twinnies again

Okay, so I did my appt today and it was very good! My RE was very informative I think and offered some solutions.... I am ashamed to say (why does my RE have to be some damn likable??).. BUT I think I am sticking with him to do the FET in July...He didnt even ask about the second opinion but did say something about my tolerance level with him...anyways...

So he thinks we should do FET with the two blasts. Mainly because one was thawed/refrozen so it may not be the best one out there so he doesnt think we would get twins putting both of these in but thinks putting 2 is a bit risky, but we would just hope to not get pg with twins (I'd still love it; my uterus maybe not; RE not so much). WHY do the FET vs do a full IVF 1) expensive. 2) It is not going to solve the issue of having embryos out there. We are going to have to use them at some point. He said if I was much older (5-6 years) he would recommend going straight to another IVF/PGS cycle. 3) Easier to do than the full FET. Okay, so I am game to do that BUT what will he change? So because of all the abnormal bleeding I have had since the D/C he wants to do a hysteroscopy to make sure I dont have anything wonky going on in there. And if it is clear then he will do an endometrial scratch biopsy at the time. He said there has been evidence the scratch biopsy enhances the success rate for reasons not understood just yet. Since I have met my deductible the hysteroscopy/biopsy would be no charge out of pocket. So we would do that on cycle day 10 and he would check my lining at that point to see how I do in a completely natrural cycle to see if it is going to work out to do a natural FET in July. We would do the scratch biopsy the cycle before the FET. Summary:
-hysteroscopy with scratch biopsy around June 10th.
-FET 2nd week of July with 2 blasts. (natural cycle; apparently I dont do well on the meds)
-If FET not successful then new RE to do full IVF cycle.

I think this works better now since DH doesnt have a current job and its less expensive by a huge amount.

As far as the mid cycle bleeding. Unknown. Hysteroscopy? Checked my estradiol today and P4: Estradiol 130 and P4 9.6 4dpo. So they said expect AF in 7-10 days. Bleeding not related to hormonal imbalance. Not AF. So thats it. I expected to be leaving my RE; now I want to give him the benefit of doubt and do the FET.

 

[Sweetness_87]

Mo- glad to hear that the bleeding wasn't from the hormones also glad tomhearbeverythingnwent well. I think it's great to do FET before another IVF. Its sooooooo much more less invasive.

 

[mercyme]

Mo, your plan sounds very sensible. I'm glad your RE is giving you something new (the scratch thing) to help move things forward. While I know success rates tend to be lower than fresh cycle, it's still a good option & works for a lot of people. 2 is so much better than one for FET -- and if you get twins, well, I kinda felt I'd rather have twins than no baby at all. (Not to make light of the possible complications of twins). I'm excited for you. You sound so much better than you did a few weeks ago. You seem like one of those people who are action oriented & are happier with a plan & a goal. Good luck!!!

 

[MoBaby]

Actually both of the clinics I have seen have higher rates with FETs now...60-70%.

The issue with twins is my uterus is not normal so it would be more like I was carrying 3-4 babies but I have researched it and many women with a unicornate uterus have had twins with no issues so I would not be too upset

 

[L4hope]

Mo I have heard success rates are higher with FET and given I'm an FET success I am a firm believer!! On top of that, I also had the endo biopsy done the cycle before so also believe in whatever magic it does to the uterus. Excited for you to have your FET! I think it's a good plan for you to give this cycle a chance with your old re before you move on.

 

[alicatt]

Mo.. sounds like a great plan to me! I'm not sure whether the uterine biopsy, the FET or the IVIg helped me, or maybe just the embryos?
I do know that something implanted! It's still early though.. so time will tell if this bean will stick. I hope that this new plan gives you a better understanding of what is going on, and gives you your miracle baby!

AFM.. anyone else having crazy cold feet at night? Last few nights I've had to wear socks to bed! I am also having some serious sniffles, I hope it's just allergies!

 

[ttcbaby117]

Ali- OMG. Woohoo congrats hun..w.were u having symptoms?

Mo - ur plan sounds really good....good luck.

Em - that's just beautiful...congrats

 

[Turkey16]

Ali - massive congrats!! That's brilliant brilliant news!!

Sweetness- fantastic - lines are getting darker and darker!

Em - yah for being PUPO!

Turkey - I pm'd you.

Everyone else- hope you are all doing great! Xx

Thanks ever! Lots of excitement on this thread today...I just assumed no one even saw my post...really helped to see that pm. Thanks again!

 

[alicatt]

Ali - massive congrats!! That's brilliant brilliant news!!

Sweetness- fantastic - lines are getting darker and darker!

Em - yah for being PUPO!

Turkey - I pm'd you.

Everyone else- hope you are all doing great! Xx

Thanks ever! Lots of excitement on this thread today...I just assumed no one even saw my post...really helped to see that pm. Thanks again!

So sorry Turkey, I did miss your post earlier Unfortunately I have never been pregnant or had a MC or D&C. I'm glad ever was able to help! That is what I love about this thread. So many women and collectively we hold a lot of knowledge and can offer each other so much support! I hope you are doing better now!

 

[alicatt]

Ali- OMG. Woohoo congrats hun..w.were u having symptoms?

Mo - ur plan sounds really good....good luck.

Em - that's just beautiful...congrats

I have been having symptoms, I just didn't realize it!

- cold feet at night
- pressure in my abdomen making it uncomfortable to sleep 1/2 lying on my belly or wear pants that put pressure on your lower abdomen.
- sore nipples (sorry TMI)
- aversion to truck fumes (diesel) or just poorly tuned ones
- vivid dreams
- emotional

They all started on Sat/Sun of this past weekend when I was 3/4dp5dt.

I'm still having light cramping, pulling, tugging in my uterus. But the AF like cramps have pretty much gone away, my lower back is still a little sore on occasion too.

I researched the cold feet thing and apparently it's a sign I'm having a boy! Also my Chinese signs result said boy too.

 

[Sandy83]

Morning Ladies

Good luck today Ash You will be PUPO very soon.

Ali, Woo Hoo for digital test can't wait to see your beta numbers, yay for symptons sounding good

Mo, sounds like you have a plan in place and sure this FET will be your forever baby

Turkey, Glad ever was able topm you and help as Ali said wish i could of helped but never been throught that. Glad D&C went as well as can be expected Fx'd for cycling in the summer

Babyd, Friday is almost here

Mells, yay for sunday almost there

Sweetness, that is a lovely dark line looking forward to your beta result

First, As the other ladies have said lots of PMA you are PREGNANT enjoy

Sekky, Trigger today Are you back for a scan today?

Hope the rest of you ladies are doing well, Sorry if i've missed anyone out who has appt or scan's today

AFM, 1 more day till follicle scan woo hoo!!!! Hoping they will be nice and big and ER can go ahead next wednesday xx

 

[Turkey16]

Good luck today ash!!!!!

 

[mercyme]

Actually both of the clinics I have seen have higher rates with FETs now...60-70%.

The issue with twins is my uterus is not normal so it would be more like I was carrying 3-4 babies but I have researched it and many women with a unicornate uterus have had twins with no issues so I would not be too upset

Yikes! Well, I hope that either way your uterus cooperates!!

 

[MoBaby]

Gl today ash!! Can't wait to hear about your embies

 

[alicatt]

Ash.. in a few more hours you'll be PUPO!

 

[sekky]

Morning Ladies

Good luck today Ash You will be PUPO very soon.

Ali, Woo Hoo for digital test can't wait to see your beta numbers, yay for symptons sounding good

Mo, sounds like you have a plan in place and sure this FET will be your forever baby

Turkey, Glad ever was able topm you and help as Ali said wish i could of helped but never been throught that. Glad D&C went as well as can be expected Fx'd for cycling in the summer

Babyd, Friday is almost here

Mells, yay for sunday almost there

Sweetness, that is a lovely dark line looking forward to your beta result

First, As the other ladies have said lots of PMA you are PREGNANT enjoy

Sekky, Trigger today Are you back for a scan today?

Hope the rest of you ladies are doing well, Sorry if i've missed anyone out who has appt or scan's today

AFM, 1 more day till follicle scan woo hoo!!!! Hoping they will be nice and big and ER can go ahead next wednesday xx

Thanks sandy. Had the scan this am and it seems no trigger today. Waiting for my FS to call with her decision. The tech said I may likely do one more day of stim so I get more matured follies from the left. So waiting

First - relax and enjoy been preggers.

Ali sorry about your cold feet. When do you get your unofficial beta? Also praying you FS agrees to do an early beta

Lucie - how are you feeling now dearie? Hope your cold is gone

Ash - all the best today at your transfer.

 

[ashknowsbest]

sekky - sorry you're possibly not triggering tonight They are doing what's best though I'm sure! You're in my thoughts today, make sure you let us know when you get the final decision.

ali - Digital pregnant! Woohoo Seriously I am so happy for you, that's amazing!

Mo - I agree with you, I wouldn't worry too much about your unicornuate (sp?) uterus. Like you said, some women go on to have healthy twin pregnancies and it's not even guaranteed that they'll both stick. Can't wait for you to get started!

Thanks everyone, I can't wait. I'm doing some homework to pass the time now but I really can't wait for that phone call about what time to go in! I'm a little nervous to find out how many made it to day 5 but I'm trying to stay optimistic. My OH and I are betting on about 4-5 that are of decent/good quality.