Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

[Turkey16]

Anxiously, yes my transfer is a 5 day on Saturday.

Brandy, thanks for thinking of me. I've been so stressed today waiting for my call back.

Holy Mackeral Mells! This is some exciting stuff!!!

 

[Sandy83]

Morning Ladies

Well I rang the clinic and they said that since I've increased my intake of fluids and no longer having water infection symptons and going to the toilet regular that they are not concerned about a UTI. They have advised that due to having 41 follicles during IVF that my stomach could be bloated due to my body trying to ovulate naturally and should be nothing to worry about. They also said that due to the bleed after the failed cycle being quite light that it could be I'm due a heavier bleed.

They have reassured me that if after the weekend i am still concerned to come in and they will check with a scan and take bloods to confirm everything is fine but also said if at any point i don't feel well at all to call them.

I am happy with the advice they have given and feel like im ovulating so make sense but glad to know they will see me if i want to put my mind at rest.

Hope the rest of you ladies are doing well xx

 

[MoBaby]

Ali good luck with your scan today
Sandy glad you are feeling better!

Afm: I've never been more excited to see some spotting! Af is due in 3 days but may make an early appearance which is just fine with me! Then it's just about 20 days after that!

 

[Sandy83]

Ali, good luck for Scan

Mo, So exciting!!!! not long for you now xx

 

[Mells54]

Sandy, glad you are feeling better.

Mo, you will be on the baby train before too long!!!!!!!

Ali, good luck today...can't wait to see some us pics.

AFM, just waiting until Saturday. Debating whether I should call and check on my embies. I'll probably wait until tomorrow.

 

[Sandy83]

I would wait til tomorrow Mells, as technically that would be when you would normally receive a phone call to see if it was going to be a 3 or 5 day transfer xx

 

[FirstTry]

Mells: I was asking how many you will transfer because my clinic recommends only one with DE, because they are more likely to stick. So, two is probably more than enough. Are you okay with twins?

 

[alicatt]

Looks like I'll be hanging around with you ladies a little longer..
I just got back from my Dr appt, and the baby didn't grow at all from last week and there was no HB.

 

[Turkey16]

Looks like I'll be hanging around with you ladies a little longer..
I just got back from my Dr appt, and the baby didn't grow at all from last week and there was no HB.

Oh my god Ali. I'm stunned. I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say...I'm so, so sorry to hear this.

 

[MoBaby]

Ali soo sorry! What is the plan? Will you have d/c to see if anything went wrong? Soo sorry you are going through this

 

[alicatt]

Ali soo sorry! What is the plan? Will you have d/c to see if anything went wrong? Soo sorry you are going through this

Yes, D&C tomorrow morning with genetic testing. Probably a chromosomal issue, but we need to know before we do anything else. I have 2 frosties, and my FS is recommending testing them for chromosomal issues, apparently they just started doing this in the past few months. Or maybe we see where my bloods are and do another full IVF? I'm almost 41 now, so my hormones may not be as good as they were last fall. Right now I'm not sure what I want to do. Just get through the next few days I guess

 

[Sweetness_87]

Ali- so so sorry to hear that. Like I said earlier I will be keeping you in my prayers. It's def not fair.

 

[MoBaby]

soo sorry again. Yes get through the next few days. Testing the others is good but what you can do is another full ivf cycle and add those frosties in and test the bunch. This is a lot to take in. Soo sorry

 

[alicatt]

soo sorry again. Yes get through the next few days. Testing the others is good but what you can do is another full ivf cycle and add those frosties in and test the bunch. This is a lot to take in. Soo sorry

Yes, I thought about that, and maybe we can do that? They would defrost them and test, then do a 6 day transfer. I'm not sure when they test them during a fresh cycle? I guess I have to take a few months off, and see where we are at once I've had a period or 2?

 

[Turkey16]

soo sorry again. Yes get through the next few days. Testing the others is good but what you can do is another full ivf cycle and add those frosties in and test the bunch. This is a lot to take in. Soo sorry

Yes, I thought about that, and maybe we can do that? They would defrost them and test, then do a 6 day transfer. I'm not sure when they test them during a fresh cycle? I guess I have to take a few months off, and see where we are at once I've had a period or 2?

Coming off the same situation, I can tell you you'll have to get BW weekly til your HCG zeroes out. I got the go ahead once I got my next period, but with this EPP I'll actually have had 2 periods before I start stimming. Just get through the next few days, and know we're all here for you whatever it is you need...virtual hugs, info, people to vent to...whatever.

 

[Mells54]

Ali, my heart is truly breaking for you. I think it's good to focus on the next few days and then the long term. I'm here if you need to talk. Lots of

 

[Mells54]

Mells: I was asking how many you will transfer because my clinic recommends only one with DE, because they are more likely to stick. So, two is probably more than enough. Are you okay with twins?

First, when we first talked to RE about DE, my DH said so can we put 3 or 4 back and I thought RE was going to drop. He said no way, two tops bc the quality is usually so good and I don't have any lining issues. Yes, we would love to have twins and for years whenever I dream that we have kids, there always triplets!

 

[Mells54]

soo sorry again. Yes get through the next few days. Testing the others is good but what you can do is another full ivf cycle and add those frosties in and test the bunch. This is a lot to take in. Soo sorry

Yes, I thought about that, and maybe we can do that? They would defrost them and test, then do a 6 day transfer. I'm not sure when they test them during a fresh cycle? I guess I have to take a few months off, and see where we are at once I've had a period or 2?

Ali, will they be able to tell if its a sperm or egg that caused the abnormality? Just not sure how the testing goes and whether you could switch donors if that might be the cause. There are so many things they can look for, your turn will come...I'm sure of it.

 

[Lucie73821]

I just wanted to pop back in. First, Ali, I am so very sorry to hear your news.

I hope everyone else is doing well.

I've been taking a break from bnb and feel ready to come back. Dh and I are visiting our parents up north (Wisconsin and Michigan) and enjoying our summer break. We have decided to skip another FET at the moment and do another full ivf cycle in Sept/Oct. I will start my BC with my Aug cycle and baseline/stims will start Sept 23.

 

[L4hope]

Oh Ali I'm so so sorry! It's one of the hardest things to go through. You have lots of support here and others who can relate. I wish I had words to make you feel better but there truly are no words for this loss. I'm thinking of you