Anyone doing FET/IVF in Jan 2013 till everyone's BFP (Everyone Welcome)

[LotusBlossom]

Yay, Mells!

 

[Turkey16]

Wow Mells!!! That is so exciting!!!!

 

[L4hope]

Great news Mells! Cook those little ones as long as you can!

 

[Sandy83]

Great news Mells

Just wanted to do a quick update as feeling really down at the moment. Started injections on saturday but really not sure if it was the best thing to do as on Friday DH got called in to see his consultant at the hospital as he has been in really bad pain with his back and the scans have showed that they think the Lymphoma has return and is showing around his spine. He is having a biopsy this week to confirm what the scans have shown but this will mean more chemotherapy and radiotherapy if the results are positive Absolutely gutted he was doing so well nearly 3 years clear Life is just so unfair!!!!

Do you Ladies think I'm doing the right thing by continuing with the cycle?????? Sorry for the rant

Hope the rest of you ladies are doing well xx

 

[BabyD225]

Great news Mells

Just wanted to do a quick update as feeling really down at the moment. Started injections on saturday but really not sure if it was the best thing to do as on Friday DH got called in to see his consultant at the hospital as he has been in really bad pain with his back and the scans have showed that they think the Lymphoma has return and is showing around his spine. He is having a biopsy this week to confirm what the scans have shown but this will mean more chemotherapy and radiotherapy if the results are positive Absolutely gutted he was doing so well nearly 3 years clear Life is just so unfair!!!!

Do you Ladies think I'm doing the right thing by continuing with the cycle?????? Sorry for the rant

Hope the rest of you ladies are doing well xx

Sandy- I'm so sorry DH is out of remission... my best friends husband just recovered from treatments of stage IV non hodgkins at 32 years old... her and I spoke about what she would do in terms of fertility and she said that regardless of what goes on, it's their dream as a couple to have a baby.. so if that baby gets to spend a lifetime with their dad or one day, he's the one she wants as a father to her kids... I say continue the cycle and stay positive for DH... he will have a lot to look forward to and get better for if you have a successful cycle.

 

[Sandy83]

Thanks BabyD Dh's lymphoma was also stage IV non hodgkins last time hoping its the same as he made a miraculous recovery last time.

Can't believe how close you are, Look forward to seeing lots of pics xx

 

[BabyD225]

Thanks BabyD Dh's lymphoma was also stage IV non hodgkins last time hoping its the same as he made a miraculous recovery last time.

Can't believe how close you are, Look forward to seeing lots of pics xx

He will do fantastic and make a complete recovery again! I can't believe how close i am either! I hope I make it to my c section date... Feb 1st! It's been quite a roller coaster but worth it! Keep going!! When you feel a foot in your ribs you'll be smiling and know it was all worth it!

 

[Sandy83]

Sounds amazing BabyD Make sure you keep me updated of when the little one arrives. Sorry can't remeber did you find out what you are having? xx

 

[MoBaby]

Sandy soo sorry! I hope the pain isn't from lymphoma...
Idk what is right to do.. I wish I had better advice for you I'm sorry you have to deal with this right now.

 

[BabyD225]

Sounds amazing BabyD Make sure you keep me updated of when the little one arrives. Sorry can't remeber did you find out what you are having? xx

It's a boy We're naming him Hudson Mattingly.. Hudson is very 'new york' and we fell in love with the name.. and my husband is a die-hard Yankees fan.. and his favorite player was Don Mattingly.. so he begged me for the middle name.. I caved in..

 

[Sandy83]

Thanks Mo, I started the injections so at least i have the option to go ahead with it as think i would regret it if i had to wait longer. At least by the time i start stimms I'll have more information about DH's condition and make a full decision then.

BabyD, Thats a gorgeous name and think it's great that you came to a joint decision. xx

 

[Sweetness_87]

Sandy- so sorry to hear that. Will keep you and your husband in my prayers.

 

[Em260]

Sandy - my heart goes out to you and your DH Praying that it's not a recurrence. I think you're doing the right thing by continuing the cycle I would do the same thing if it was me.

 

[Sandy83]

Thanks Em & Sweetness your support and thoughts are appreciated xx

 

[Mells54]

Sandy, I'm sorry that you even have to make such a difficult decision. Life certainly is full of curve balls. I agree that I would probably continue my cycle, as it gives you something to look forward to together.

BabyD, as a NYer I love that name...although we are Mets fans!

 

[FirstTry]

Sandy: I am so sorry to hear abou your DH. I hope that it turns out to be something easily manageable.

We had a scare last year about my DH and an aggressive form of cancer. Luckily, he didnt have it. But we did have the talk about whether to go through with IVF. He said that even if he had a short time to live, he would want as much time to be a father as possible, and to get to know his child. So, we would've gone forward either way.

Good luck

 

[Blue12]

Praying for your dh and you to get good news sandy. I would go ahead with the cycle too. Xxxx

 

[L4hope]

Sandy I'm so sorry you and dh are going through this. I really hope it's something else and you get good news soon. I think it's great that you are going forward with your cycle as it keeps things positive and gives you both hope for your future. Hugs and prayers.

 

[Sandy83]

Thanks Ladies your kind words and support is much appreciated xx

 

[Turkey16]

So sorry to hear this Sandy...like some of the other girls said, I'd probably go ahead with the cycle. Good luck and keep us posted!!!