Ughh so sorry Tristan! It does sound like IVF would be your best shot since the count is relatively low. But of course anything is possible, so trust your gut!
I will say, the transition from IUI to IVF is overwhelming, and you have to be in a good state of mind so you don't go completely crazy. I just learned the protocol I will be doing, and am working with a specialty pharmacy today to fill all of my meds (Gonal-F, Low Dose hCG, Ganirelix, and Novarel to trigger). My head is spinning now, so I can't imagine what it's going to be like when I actually get the box full of all these meds. I'm not due for AF until 2/9, but it will be here before I know it so trying to make sure we have everything all set so there are no set backs and we can start stimming on CD3. Not quite what I had envisioned when we we started TTC, but hoping this is the answer for us!!