I think we are going through this process with the fertility doctor only once. I've always wanted 2-3 but it's been so emotionally exhausting at this point I would just feel blessed with one and then I can go back to my normal self.
Ttc me is way more emotional and scary than regular me. Hopefully we don't sink too much money into things before it happens but I'm slowly changing the expectations I had for myself.
I got my fx for u how long have u been ttc now? I know what u mean ttc does change us I think it puts a lot more strain on a relationship too since u have to time wen u bd etc which men in General don't understand very well unless u get one that wants it as much as yourself .
I would agree with mummy, Diddy. Hopefully you don't have to put too much money into it either. Once you find out the issue, if you choose to have another baby you'll know exactly what to expect for the next time. It's always easier doing something the second time. It's sorta like driving somewhere the trip there always seems longer than the trip back. I pray that your results will yield an easier resolution than you think you hear. I do think that all things happen for a reason and everything has a season. Oh yeah and if you had to proceed to an assisted pregnancy maybe you could have twins and get 2 out of the way with at once. Lol or that's at least what I told myself. Lol
I'm praying for you and try not to stress about it too much I know that's easier said than done. I seen some funny infertility jokes online and I read one that had a dad and a baby and he tells the baby Sorry but I spent your college fund ttc you lol