Aw Diddy glad ur feeling better i'v been there & totally understand & can relate to the poking prodding. Took me 5 yrs t conceive first & aftr 2 yrs trying is wen i started to get tested. In end aftr dye tests t check tubes, dh being tested & getting my bloods done thy came to conclusion that my ovulation levels were low so put me on clomid & said would hv me on 50mg for 6 months to start. Nothing happened, then thy upped it to 100mg & said will be on that for another 6 months as i was ovulating now but if nothing happened then next step would be iui the thought of it just dreaded me as by thn i was losing hope from first doc appointnent til nw i was already into fourth year ttc. Anyway thats wen i truly started praying & i conceived in very last 12th month just before they were going to refer me for iui. He is nw a happy 7 year old. I counted my blessings & decided to stop at one until last year also the other reason was coz i suffered from severe hyperemesis from 5/6 weeks til birth & couldnt eat or drink anything & were vomiting at least 30x a day had t go to hospital for a iv drip every other day until 7 months & were on anti sickness meds til end. by then i were stil being sick 3/4 a day but ketones wer fine as i'd at least eat & drink even t hv it come bk up.
Anyway wen me & dh decided t try again for #2 i was prepared for a long wait again but conceived second cycle off bc pill. We were shocked but hyperemesis started again & this time exactly same bk in hospital at 6 weeks & ended up mc at just over 8 weeks.
I totally feel for any couple trying for a while & my sincere prayers are with everyone. It's hard wen having to wait & putting in all the effort only for it not to happen but i can tel you personally as hard as its been i nw beleive it happens wen its meant to & as frustrating as it is never t lose hope. We are onto third cycle now & as much as i want this i'm so scared of the hyperemesis again it really felt like a slow death sentence. But thier so worth all the trying & wat we go through & wen we hold those babies in our arms for first time that proud feeling that u worked so hard to get this end result is just surreal.
Sorry for long post i pray we all get wat we desire on ths journey & that is our much wanted children who we all so rightly deserve. Big hugs to everyone x