Anyone else doing insemination?

[AshNAmber]

Your not out until she shows.. So ill keep my FX for you Hun... Still no af cramps but started feeling light twinges in my lower left and every so often right side of my stomach, it's very light.. Still trying hard not to read into anything and just assume I will wake up tomorrow to the

 

[melodyy_mtb]

Hey

I'm currently ttc my first by AI. I started this month with donor, but sadly got a bfn. I haven't been too disheartened though, as it was my first cycle trying. My next try will be the second week of December. i'm more hopeful about this try as i'll get to inseminate for more days than before, including the day I o.

Baby dust to all you ladies. I hope we get some Christmas BFPs!

 

[AshNAmber]

Well as of today 13DPO had some cramps early this morning that went away shortly, Bbs are still soar, haven't had any more cramping but had the light twinges on my lower left and a little on my lower right.. is due tomorrow I usually spot the day before.. (TMI) I felt something when I was at work thought it was the first spot of AF went to BR and undies had a spot of clear wet so I checked it out and had creamy CW. It's increased a bit not sure what that's all about but there was no pink or brown tint to it, just white and clear... Guess we will see what tomorrow brings.. Still trying to hold out on testing.

 

[etasha39]

so today i still have the cramps but they are kinda weird not like usual cramps like a light sting on the side i O'd on and it kinda feels weird on the other side like pulling and my whole uterus feels a little fluttery? different for me but on and off the cramps still feel like AF cramps grrrr i am so confused right now lol. I am keeping my fingers X for you! we have been trying for years and this is the first time with a real donor so i might just be over excited. my wife keeps telling me to relax cause i keep saying i don't think I am pregnant and to stop worrying cause i haven't started AF yet lol BB's still are sore i have super bad acid tummy tums don't even help i am bloated but not anything of the ordinary.. well good luck are you going to test tomorrow?????? or you going to wait and see if shows up?? well whatever happens keep me posted!

 

[AshNAmber]

If doesn't show, I was going to test Friday but my DW asked me to wait till Saturday if she's a no show so guess that's what I'm doing.. I'm keeping my FX for you.. Keep me posted as well out symptoms sounds similar..

 

[etasha39]

Well im out this month still hope u get ur bfp..

 

[AshNAmber]

Sorry Tasha... Let's hope for a Christmas peanut... I know im out to.. My temp dropped this morning so I'm just waiting for her to show now.. Hope she doesn't take forever so I can start over

 

[etasha39]

@ melody
are u using frozen donor or a known donor?

 

[etasha39]

yeah so i should be ready to start insemination's again around the 8th i should O around the 11th-12th so i told my donor everyday from the 8th on lol.
oh it was so depressing to start on thanksgiving i was with all my family and they dont know we are ttc so i was happy when i went to the bathroom came out all depressed lol but i am not going to stress i am going to get ready for next month and get pregnant DAMN IT!!! lol
sorry to hear about the temp drop but since we are pretty much on the same cycle we might be buddies again next month

 

[AshNAmber]

finally showed up yesterday.. So now the count down to O... I think were going to use pre-seed this go around I'v read alot of good things about it so maybe it will help.. least I hope.. I feel like you.. This is our 5th cycle I'm ready damit!! So I hope with temping, OPK's and Pre Seed maybe we will have us a little Christmas Miracle..

 

[etasha39]

I was thinking about pre-seed also maybe I will try that also

 

[AshNAmber]

I'm getting mine Friday and ill start AI some time in the middle of next week depends on OPKs. Think today is the last day of AF.. On to the first almost two week wait. Do your research on it and see if its for you.. I've been non stop reading about it for nearly 3 days now.. Finally decided that I'm just going to try it..

 

[etasha39]

I haven't read up on it alot but enough to consider it. Im trying to decided if we are gong to try again this month or not. I think we are but I think this month is alot less stressful then last so it should be better.

 

[AshNAmber]

I'm actually shocked how much Amber has been talking about getting everything ready to try this cycle.. She usually doesn't say much except she doesn't get why I need all the OPKs and she thought temping made sure I Od and now I'm asking for pre seed.. But she's been super supportive this time.. She told me earlier were gonna go Thursday to get everything so that way it's all ready to go for next week..

I'm glad this month is less stressful.. That should help with things.. That's what I'm thinking also last month was so crazy with our honeymoon and the last bits of wedding and family stuff that went on.. I'm glad things have calmed down and are back to normal

 

[etasha39]

Well thats good to hear she's supportive. thats always a plus to have someone help instead of feeling like u have to prep all by ur self cause thats what I feel I have to do. I mean she is all on board but when it comes to getting everything done I think I do most the work lol im pretty sure we are going to try again this month and my donor is down to be my donor for as long as it takes which is always nice to hear. So im gearing up for this month now I should be Oing around the 11th-12th.....

 

[AshNAmber]

Oh trust me lol Amber is on board but omg does she hate doing the AI, I think if it wasn't for me she wouldn't even do it.. But like I told her.. I want her to get me preggo Maybe that sounds dumb but. I just want her to feel part of the process ya know...

That's great that you have a awesome donor.. Is he going to be part of the babies life? Our donor has 3 little ones already his youngest just made one (we know he is fertile ) He want's nada to do with it.. As he said just trying to help a friend out (makes us happy)

Me and you are so close to each other I should O around the 14th.. awe I hope were bump buddies.. Were getting everything today will start my OPK's this weekend.. Here we go!!

 

[etasha39]

No that is absolutely not dumb I feel the same about my wife getting me preggo I want her to be a a big part of this and her feel like it was her that made it happen:-D . I hope we are bump buddies too! I think u may have a better chance as it increases after so many cycles I am only going on cycle 2 with my donor. And no he isn't going to be family to the baby but he is a good friend of mine so im sure he just would Like to see what his offspring looks like with me he has 2 other boys that is one of the reasons I wanted him as a donor cause he is making boys lol thats what I want already have a girl ;-) my wifes but she is ours she's 7 now. But I can't wait for me to make a creation lol

 

[AshNAmber]

I'll feel more optimistic once we get to trying and I see some + OPK's.. and have at least one AI in.. But I am feeling really good about this month.. My donor has 2 boys and the last one was a girl.. So guess im 50/50 My wife wants a boy.. I dont care as long as he/she is healthy.. secretly I want twins

I bought the pre-seed yesterday and opened it to just see what it looks like and omg the applicators looks so long.. We were joking about it last night.. I said if that doesn't reach my cervix nothing will.. I think it's about as thick as a pencil and little longer then a tampon I'm really excited about using this stuff.. It actually has a warning on it if your not pregnant after using this product for 6 months to see a doctor.. That makes me feel better.. But I think ill feel better if it works

 

[etasha39]

I feel the same about just having a healthy baby and I would love to have twins that would be amazing! I probably will check more out on the pre seed next month if this one don't work so u gotta let me know how it works for u.

 

[AshNAmber]

You know I will..

How are you feeling?? I've been feeling twinges here and there. Did my first OPK was very much - lol so just waiting to O