Earthylove
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So DH and I will be ttc soon and we haven't told anyone yet. We plan to wait to announce to family after I'm 12 weeks along and since we live far from both our families, it should be pretty easy to keep things a secret until then. I know my mom and grandparents will be so happy when we tell them, but DH's mom will probably be really upset. She didn't like when we got married either and after we announced she asked why we were rushing things! Even though we had been together for nearly 5years already! She keeps telling us to wait to have children and talks about how she has wished she waited longer. She still sees us as children and I know she's not going to like the timing of our plans to get pregnant. I'm just dreading her treating me like a teen mom and assuming it was an accident because heaven forbid we should actually PLAN to make such a poor decision.
Anyone else have a family member like that? How do you plan to deal with it?
Anyone else have a family member like that? How do you plan to deal with it?