1. Soooo cute and
2. Just because it's blue I don't think it's a "boy" outfit-- she looks adorable!
but I couldn't pass up a pants and shirt outfit for only $2.99!!
what is everyone doing for mothers day? ( it counts if your cookin number one)
We will be telling our family on Mother's Day it has been so hard keeping it in this long I can't wait
Angeltk42 hopefully he stops his bs you don't need that crap!
I think i have forgiven and forgotten too many times with this "friend" and my limit is reached. I mean lets say I do forgive and forget and then we get into another disagreement because I don't like something he said or did. If my child is born at that point will he degrade my child? his maturity is the one to be questioned not mine! I took the high road by not speaking to him until I calmed down. He pressed to know why and then started WWIII with me. But i'm immature?? that's pretty laughable. Especially coming from someone who hasn't worked in 6 years and just lives off of settlements he gets from suing everyone he knows!!
It sucks to lose someone who is a dear friend and I am not discrediting the times that he has been there for me when No one else has but those times of good deed do not give him a free pass for EVERY time he steps out of line. Especially because I have been there for him just as much over the years it has not be one sided. I have done my fair share in this friendship and very little things that he can say negatively about me as a friend. The only things he attacks me on are stupid things that are character flaws I may possess. LIKE BEING TOO KIND!! lol
I would go to the police (if you've kept any evidence of the number of calls, texts, emails etc, it'll help) then at least there's a formal note of his behaviour, and the opportunity to get a restraining order put on him.
wow i didn't know that its different there! march isn's very nice here so im glad its in may for us!
yay for the announcement !!!! i want to announce on fb this week since we have told all our friends and family personally, but i want to do something different.. found some really funny pictures and i want to try those .. like OH and DS holding a sign that says moms pregnant! and in the background i would sit in front of the fridge with food everywhere lol
Angel he sounds like a real dick! and dangerous with that temper..
Oh I hope it didn't seem like I was saying you should forgive...I totally didn't mean that! You have to have limits, and this guy sounds like he's exceeded even the most patient, forgiving limits! You're doing the right thing by ignoring him as much as is possible, but it might be good to keep records of what he's doing.
Reading through your updates he sounds like he's lost the plot! I think you need to protect yourself and your LO from this level of stress; it must be horrible for you
I really hope he just gets the message and leaves you alone to get on with you're life xxx
Oh I hope it didn't seem like I was saying you should forgive...I totally didn't mean that! You have to have limits, and this guy sounds like he's exceeded even the most patient, forgiving limits! You're doing the right thing by ignoring him as much as is possible, but it might be good to keep records of what he's doing.
Reading through your updates he sounds like he's lost the plot! I think you need to protect yourself and your LO from this level of stress; it must be horrible for you
I really hope he just gets the message and leaves you alone to get on with you're life xxx
Oh no I was just stating fact that I have forgiven some awful things he has said in the past but his current behavior certainly far exceeds anything he has done before. I Just want him to leave me alone I mean seriously is that too much to ask? When he states over and over that I am immature I sit there thinking "omg he is delusional" I have done nothing immature. I have tried to take myself out of a stressful situation. My BP was going through the roof last night and I know that is unhealthy for this LO. I hope my anxiety and stress hasn't harmed my LO in any way. I feel like I did what I could to limit the stress; ignoring his calls, having phone company block his numbers but he found ways around all that. It's sick and I do wish the police would do something. However, because he wasn't threatening my life it's really not going to help to contact the police. I don't believe in abusing the 911 system. Since he is 8 states and 1900 miles away there is no imminent threat to my life.
Thank you everyone for your support. It's just with the pregnancy hormones and then to be harassed when all you want is to remain calm and enjoy the miracle that is inside all of us it's very frustrating. I don't want negativity surrounding me and I am very happy to have found out his psychotic ways NOW rather than after LO is born! HE WAS GOING TO BE THE GODFATHER to my LO because that's how close we were!!! Thank goodness that god revealed his true colors to me before I made that mistake!
I just feel so bad that you're going through this!! At least he's a good distance away, so you can take some reassurance that he's not able to just come over on a whim. Goodness me...what an absolute horror he is! Like you say, it's good that you've seen all this now, before LO arrives. Now you can live your life without his negative presence, and that's got to be a good thing!
Oh Angel
So sorry that your BP has been up because of all this: hopefully our support here can help you stay calm. I'm sure your LO is doing just fine...getting everything he/she needs from Mommy!
Everyone's support really does help. I am very grateful to have you all! 
