zowiey
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Lora, no body meant that at all. What you have been through, no Mummy should ever have to go through, and I'm honoured that you feel able to talk about your darling babies in here. Please don't stay away 
I think it's down to the general feeling of near hysteria in first tri. You don't have to look hard for a post to remind you how easily things can go wrong. And like I said before, I search for those types of threads- completely my own fault. But second tri feels much more relaxed. And yes there are still heartbreaking posts, but I NEVER feel that they should be removed.
My friend lost her little girl at 20 weeks, and really struggled, she was 16 when she lost her, and most people told her it was a blessing in disguise. I know she found forums an amazing support, and I'd hate to be responsible for anyone feeling like they can't say exactly how they are feeling, for fear of upsetting or worrying me.
Sorry to ramble on, but sometimes it's so hard to emote properly on forums, and words can so easily be mis interpreted.
xxx

I think it's down to the general feeling of near hysteria in first tri. You don't have to look hard for a post to remind you how easily things can go wrong. And like I said before, I search for those types of threads- completely my own fault. But second tri feels much more relaxed. And yes there are still heartbreaking posts, but I NEVER feel that they should be removed.
My friend lost her little girl at 20 weeks, and really struggled, she was 16 when she lost her, and most people told her it was a blessing in disguise. I know she found forums an amazing support, and I'd hate to be responsible for anyone feeling like they can't say exactly how they are feeling, for fear of upsetting or worrying me.
Sorry to ramble on, but sometimes it's so hard to emote properly on forums, and words can so easily be mis interpreted.
xxx