anyone else feeling like they are always moaning?

[hedgewitch]

hi girls
not sure if this is a rant or i am just feeling sorry for myself
i have some great girls on here that are lovely and have supported me all the way through my pg, but i just feel like i am always moaning, everytime i go the hospital for scans which is 3 times a week due to all the problems i have, i was posting updates but recently have stopped due to the fact there is always an issue and i just feel like i am the doom and gloom of the forum. people have stopped answering posts and i just stopped in the end, i wish i could have this wonderful relaxing pregnancy but i can't. i am such high risk and there is always an issue when i go. does anyone else feel like this or is it just me feeling sorry or myself?
i have put a huge distance between me and the other girls who are pg as i am worried to keep posting about all my problems as i don't think its fair to make them worry about their pregnancies if that makes sense? i feel so isolated

 

[Blondie007]

Hi Hedgewitch, I am sorry that you are having such a tough time with your pregnancy and I hope that things become easier for you.

I think you should continue to post your concerns - for your own benefit and others. I read this section because it keeps me aware of things and I learn so much. This is my first pregnancy after a miscarriage in February and I am constantly worrying. Other people will be going through similar things somewhere in the world and may be able to offer you support

Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy
xx

 

[MumOfPlenty]

Hey Hedgewitch..

Don't feel so gloomy, if you weren't having issues with the hospital and your appointments, there would be other (more trivial) things to moan about!

Everyone moans during pregnancy, all the time, it's like the one time (or several times, if you've got more than one!) where you can moan and groan and grumble to your hearts content..

And you actually do have issues so I'm not sure that others here will be thinking you're 'just moaning' - you do actually have concerns and you address them, which I think is admirable.

Keep your chin up, don't let it get you down and don't put any more distance between yourself and the forum, like Blondie said this section keeps us all informed, even when there is nothing wrong.

Hope you start to feel better soon

 

[Megg33k]

hi girls
not sure if this is a rant or i am just feeling sorry for myself
i have some great girls on here that are lovely and have supported me all the way through my pg, but i just feel like i am always moaning, everytime i go the hospital for scans which is 3 times a week due to all the problems i have, i was posting updates but recently have stopped due to the fact there is always an issue and i just feel like i am the doom and gloom of the forum. people have stopped answering posts and i just stopped in the end, i wish i could have this wonderful relaxing pregnancy but i can't. i am such high risk and there is always an issue when i go. does anyone else feel like this or is it just me feeling sorry or myself?
i have put a huge distance between me and the other girls who are pg as i am worried to keep posting about all my problems as i don't think its fair to make them worry about their pregnancies if that makes sense? i feel so isolated

Hey you! I don't want to hear that talk from you! Well... I'm not one of the other pregnant girls... but whatever! Anyway... We love you, and I miss your posts more than you know! I finally had to track you down today after asking multiple people if you were okay and what had happened to you! I was so worried something might be wrong! I love knowing how you and Aggie (and the rest of the family) are. Even if there's issues... even scary ones... I still want to know! I adore you and think the absolute world of you! I know BnB doesn't feel complete without your posts like it used to. I barely even stalk the "spells support thread" thing anymore. I go once every few days, but its not the same without you. Anyway... I just want to stand up and say that I definitely DON'T feel like you're doom and gloom! You're amazing, strong, sweet, kind, caring, loving, and all around wonderful! So, head up, missus! You and Aggie are quite loved around here!

 

[reedsgirl1138]

I agree with Megg. I tried to keep up with your thread but I was finding others post and not yours so I was really worried all the time about you. I am glad you and the lo is doing okay and after all you have been through you can vent anytime you want. We love you and pray for you all the time.

 

[Missi]

Hey hedgewitch

I've never read any of the threads that you mentioned but I'm sure they are very informative. We always learn from other people's stories and they help us prepare mentally for our own possible complications. Maybe people don't respond because they don't know exactly what to say, it's very diffcult to get a point across in posts. I've learned so much from other people's stories and am always glad for the knowledge I gain from their experiences. Keep posting and I'm sure you do other things, not just moan.

My experience:
DH keeps commenting on how grumpy I am at home. Admittedly I'm not as 'up beat' as I was before pregnancy. For crying out loud though, surely he realises I'm pregnant!!!

 

[Caezzybe]

I say carry on posting, perhaps people aren't answering your posts because there are that many posts on here that they sometimes get lost in the sheer volume of postings. I know I have posts that nobody answers, but by the time I look again half a day later, they're right down the bottom of page 3 or more. If you look at the number of people on line at any one time, you'll see there are literally hundreds of us! B 'n' B is sometimes a bit too successful for its own good! If you have concerns about anything pregnancy related, it's good to share them as it helps you out and others who might be in the same situation (or who may have something to share about a similar situation in the past).

Chin up, hun, and big hugs xxx

 

[lil-star]

I feel like that too. On other forums I've stopped posting because I feel I'm scaring other pregnant women I try to reply to threads I read with stuff I know about but it's so limited as this is my first and my problems seem to be building up so maybe I might be use some day. If you ever need to chat you can PM me, it's good to share don't ever feel like you couldn't post x