Hi Chilli & Tdotchick! I am replying to both of you (Tdot follows below

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Chilli: I have a 2 year old daughter with triple x. Luckily when we were diagnosed with prenatal tests the geneticist who attended to us was super relaxed about it and told us it was not a big deal. She knew about it and said most girls were fine and that it was not a serious genetic impediment. This help calm our distress HOWEVER of course we scoured the web to find out all about it desperate to make the right choice - an informed choice. At the time we were living in a foreign country to information was pretty much limited to the web. That said we came to discover few different things about triple x.
1: there is verrrrrry little known about it and almost as much information out there.
2: a lot of the information that is available is very skewed. Apparently about 1 out of every 1000 women in the world is triple x and most don't even know they have it (can't be all that bad).
Until recently women didn't have prenatal genetic testing done and so the only women known to have triple x were women mothers who came forward with girls with problems who were then tested and discovered to have triple x. Those girls with triple x and no or insignificant problems would not have been diagnosed. Thus any studies/testing/etc. would be on a skewed segment of the xxx population.
We decided to go ahead with our pregnancy (I was never told there was a higher risk of MC). I had a great, healthy pregnancy and have the most delicious little girl. She is 2.5 years old and so far there has been nothing out of the ordinary about her. She has a few personality quirks, but nothing unusual or unlike other kids her age. She is very smart and actually helps other kids at her daycare figure things out (and she is the youngest by a year!!). She is beautiful and has a great temperment. Just the other day my husband & I we thanking the stars that we didn't let fear and ignorance get the better of us and terminate. It would have been a huge mistake.
We love our daughter and she is right along side her peers in everything (a bit ahead in some a bit behind in others - but all normal).
Anyhow I guess this is for you and anyone else ou there who finds themselves faced with a triple x pregnancy. PLEASE don't worry.
I would be happy to share my experience with anyone who is looking for more information. Feel free to email me.
now TDOT!!!
haha! Hi! I would love to talk to you about our girls.
I just hapenned to google trisomy x in canada to see if anything was going on here (first time I have done so since coming back home) and found your post. Coincidence?
I am also in Canada and also know no one here that has a triple x girl (although there are surely 1000s as again 1 in every 1000 girls is born w triple x (beknownst to them or not). There doesn't seem to be much of a community here or much information available locally (I cannot believe your pediatrician has said she has never had another triple x patient...). I was actualy googling hoping to find specialists here. Do you know of any? Where are you living? Feel free to reply privately.
Jeledi