Anyone else over due?

[katstar]

Its my second go and I dont even know what to expect as its different this time. I cant be arsed with anything, walking or whatever is suggested just want my bed. I am tired of being sore and not sleeping the last thing I want to go is trek through the woods for miles.

This is exactly how i feel. I am overdue by 6 days now and i already did all this and nothing worked so whats the point. I know now that he is coming when he is good and ready.

The text's, calls and facebook messages are so annoying. I was telling my oh about them yesterday and how annoying they are and our neighbour walked in within minutes and asked. My oh burst out laughing

Another thing thats annoying is they tell you to get everything in place, clean up, stock up on food and clear the washing and ironing so you do not have much to do as soon as the baby is here. Well i did this week before last and now there ironing is back, the cupboards are bare and so is the freezer. It all has to be done again

Come on babies for us all. xx

I know poeple think you forget things or something or you need reminded on what you must do when its all thats on your mind !

my fav

"not long now!"

well I thought that weeks ago and i am still here so please I know you are trying to be right and you will be but shut it!

enjoy it while you can? clearly you never been pregnant and over due!

exactly. My neighbour said that yesterday. Not long now. I replied 'i know because there is no way that he is staying where he is'.

I thought i was nesting 2 weeks ago and tidied everything, even the back of the kitchen. well done me. But my oh has had the last two days off and helping the neighbour with some taps and plumbing and now the back of the kitchen has gone. Well i can not see the dinning table again for tool box's and i can not be bothered. Even if i did move em i would get in to trouble. Can't win.

 

[Dragonfly]

glad to know that nesting isnt actually a sign as i had that two weeks ago and now nothing , now i cant be assed even cleaning.

 

[katstar]

i believe it may have been just boredom.

 

[fairypop]

Come on babies...it really is time to come out, we are bored, we don't want to do any cleaning, we just want to meet you...

Arghhhhhhhhhhhhh.

xx

 

[Dragonfly]

Theres only so much fabric softener I can sniff in one day!

 

[katstar]

fabric softner.

poor you.

I have heard on here thats its a full moon tomorrow.

 

[Dragonfly]

I tried that last time and nothing. Why are my babies stubborn! they are so like their dad. I feel like I missed the boat and am sitting about here bored.

 

[emmi26]

my daughter is at dance class usually i pick her up but ive asked my mum to do it today as my so called friend is there and i will get pounced on with any twinges? pains? and i just dont feel like it !! ive also just discovered something else !! she knows my midwife as a friend now obviously my mw is not allowed to discuss me with her but my mw asked me if the friend will be at the birth i said no she said oh she said she was !! wtf !!! i knew she was hinting at it but theres no way so i ignored the hints !! apparently she told my sister shes right excited and shes got all her clothes laid out incase it happens in the night so she can be here super quick !! what !! i did tell her she wasnt coming i said my sister is she obviously isnt listening !!! well im avoiding her im not answering her texts and im ignoring facebook till baby arrives !!
god between us we know some right people dont we !!! this overdue thing is really more complicated than you think !! if you have yr baby a bit early you take people off guard before they get chance to start asking once due date arrives and goes again everyone wants to know !!! wish id not told anyone my due date !! then i could just say no babys not due yet !!!
dragonfly i think you'll do a great job putting yr foot down this time stick to yr guns !!!! yr baby why should anyone have a right to see baby ??? they dont you decide xx

 

[Dragonfly]

Thing is people ask if you had your baby way to early! people started asking me last time when I was 33 weeks and when i explained that I was only 33 weeks they seemed to think that was an ok time. I rather not have it at that time thanks or hear that it will be very soon from that date. I am happy baby is cooked just simmering to serve lol


And my OH fam actually dont all gate crash they ,land more at the house where as its my mum who has the right to be everywhere and also has the right to treat me like shit because she says "because i am your mum thats why". nice reason mum. My family will have to watch me breastfeeding all over again! so they know this time what to expect as last time they where running out when william started to cry for food and making excuses to leave when they came to house. But some may not come at all knowing. Since I have moved house in June they came here once my aunts and granddad. They live in teh same town mins away in a car and i can see where they are from my house as I have a view of the town. My mum says I should have walked to my granddads, which was miles in last house on xmas day with swollen feet high bp and 36 weeks pregnant because it was rude of me to expect anyone to visit me. Thats what she is like, no one will ever be put out by me i am not good enough and how dare i put anyone out by asking ! she is such a dickhead i know. I dont know how I came from that woman. surely I was switched in the hospital?

 

[mystika802]

Im joining the over due club. After having a breech baby flip 4 days before schedule c section (nov 8th) then having a failed induction (nov 17th) Im STILL here pregnant with what they are expecting to be a HUGE baby *pout*

 

[fairypop]

Hello new overdue club member!!

I am sooooooooo bored today and just keep feeling really moody and stroppy with everyone.

DF, I can't believe your family were so funny about you BF!! WTF! It is great you have done it for so long with your first

Emmi, how odd that your so called friend thinks she will be invited, lol!!!

x

 

[Dragonfly]

Hello new overdue club member!!

I am sooooooooo bored today and just keep feeling really moody and stroppy with everyone.

DF, I can't believe your family were so funny about you BF!! WTF! It is great you have done it for so long with your first

Emmi, how odd that your so called friend thinks she will be invited, lol!!!

x

Oh the conversations they had about it and the times I sat there looking out the window not caring. "you where formula fed and where ok" (yes heres a list of my health problems) "my kids where formula fed and they are healthy" ok. thats great why you telling me? I dont care. I am not breastfeeding to prove a point its my choice like you choose formula.
And the most popular "ewww I dont know how you could do that I couldnt" or "i want my social life i need my partying at weekends and to get away from my child" or "the tin is the same as breastmilk theres no need for you to feed from breast" .

Then at my sons first birthday I was breastfeeding him and my aint and mum where clucking away again about how its all the same as the tine and their kids where fine looking down on me. No one visits me any more anyway I think my aunt finally took offence and up and went.


Never once did I argue with them about how they fed yet everyone had something to say. But course I never listen anyway whats the point on starting now. And the fact I never took any of their advice on CIO or anything pissed them off immensely so they do not come near me. My family are the type you do as the other did as that was right and if you dont you are insulting them. I am the black sheep.

Oh sis is a child minder and went on and on how my milk was useless or any milk after 6 months and that food replaced breast milk then . But she bf for a few days or something and goes on how her son is really obese and how it doesnt work. Few days you need more than that.

 

[fairypop]

They obviously know nothing!! You are really strong to stand up to them like that, must have been really hard. xx Bet your OH is really proud of you.

I am going to try BF, am a bit scared of it TBH but know it is the best thing. It is the doing it in public that puts me off, just cuz I am nervous about doing it!

x

 

[Dragonfly]

Different when you havnt done it before my views changed when I done it. I havnt really done it in public as I havnt needed to yet. My mum wanted me to come shopping when william was born and find a nice toilet to feed in. They really dont have a clue no one breastfeeds here at all I know and none of my family.I had to keep with the trend of never listening and being odd after all. And clearly I am still not doing it to spite them as I havnt seen some of them in months and I am still breastfeeding my son. I text my aunt who I hadnt seen in months and she used to visit weekly just stopped when I moved house? weird. Not much difference in distance actually its easier for her to get to. She did say she would call 2 weeks ago. But she was bull shitting she has a chip off her shoulder with it i know it. and my son is not baptised (yes apparently he and i will burn in hell). Again I wanted to be different and rebellious lol wel my kids will learn to except people for who they are and what they do not hold everything against them like my family so thats good. And its their loose. My son is cool and makes me proud and no matter how much my bro and ma get upset he hasnt read in latin or something like that he is still smarter than them.

I cant wait till they pick on my new babies name just so I can give out! its a new thing I am practising lol

 

[fairypop]

My OH's family are Christian and we will get the cold shoulder for not having LO christened! We will also get lots of comments about the name we have chosen from both sides, but I don't care. They keep trying to find the name out, but we are keeping schtum as it will just cause a debate and we will not change it so tough!

How wierd they stop visiting for such a stupid reason, sounds like you are way better off without them if they are going to be so pathetic!

 

[Dragonfly]

Will be interesting to see who comes and sees new baby as not one of them not even my mum congratulate me. My aunt who dosnt have kids and agreed about breastfeeding would come she is nice and she brings gifts but has a mind of her own. Granddad will come but is not understanding the none christening thing but has never brought it up to me he knows rightly they have no place on it but my mum dosnt know her place never will. She actually asked me this "where you going to bury your child when he dies you cant go catholic they wont take you" WHEN HE DIES"???? she is full of what ifs this and that, things that have an unlikely chance of occurring just her being morbid. Said I have to move out if this ones a girl as both cant ever share a room, whats ifs again. Silly things. And yes boys and girls can share a room remember mum you had me and my bro in the same room! she hates where i live i think, totally jealous and thinks i should be in a slum house somewhere worse off than anyone. Well i want the best for my kids and I have it. She never wanted that for hers. She wanted it for her and feck the rest of us,.

I cant wait to see some reactions ,if anyone tries to drag me down they will be sorry.

 

[BlackBerry25]

I can't believe its time for you to have your baby!!! Best of luck!

 

[emmi26]

dragonfly - i cant wait to hear yr babys name now you've got me all intrigued !!! yr mum really sounds like shes jealous hun she sees you doing so well with yr little boy and she obviously cant cope with that !!
were you induced with yr first baby ?? my daughter was on time so im really annoyed this one isn't and miffed as to why he wont come out !!
im trying breastfeeding this time hoping it will go ok i bottle fed my daughter hope i can do as well as you !!

 

[Dragonfly]

You just need the believe you can and to keep at it. Its so easy to give up with unsupported people around you breaking down confidence.
My mum is a jealous person, jealous of me even talking to dad always says I steal him from her and gang up on her because if he ever agrees with me then thats what she thinks. Very petty I cant understand her at all. SHe wouldnt let you have a thing of hers and go mental even if you here using her hair brush. She accused me of breaking her washing machine once, said i stole the tray out of it?? I have no idea what she was on about but she went mad! later on thew her dinner around me when i walked in the room. I was only out of hospital and was very ill she wanted me out of the house as i moved back in for a while till i got a new place and got very ill.

Anyway the name is not unusual just my mum hates everything i do and will pick on anything I choose! she wanted my son called Ruddolf ffs or rupert and any normal name I choose she spat on practically. She hasnt asked about names i think she woudlnt dare after last time. But there was a row about why i havnt chosen a family name like william is darrens dads name and a few generations are called william in his family. I liked the name mostly so was a choice anyway.

 

[Beth8ny]

Can I join in too please? Am now officially 2 days overdue. Not lost my plug or anything yet - well dont think so anyway. Have been having a really tight tummy for a few days but thats about it! And to make things about a million times more difficult we have just bought a new house, we need to travel over an hour on Tuesday to sign the contracts and then our move date is next Friday - we are moving over an hour away too which means a new hospital if bubs hasnt arrived by then - I am seriously STRESSED out!!!!!