Anyone else PG after a m/c?

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  1. JASMAK

    JASMAK Mom of three

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    I am PG after two back to back m/c. I am almost consumed with checking for spotting or bleeding, and obsessing over symptoms-whether or not I have any, and how strong they are. Is there anyone else who feels like this too? I wish I was back in the innocent days of just "being pregnant", but, now I know how real those risks are, and it terrifies me.
     
  2. Mummy&bump

    Mummy&bump Well-Known Member

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    ye hun i had a m/c on the 6th julu n fell straught away again! i took me 15 mnths to get that 1 pregnancy to loose it! now im prg with baby no2 so hopefully all will be well now as im past the 12 week mark! I hope u hav a happy healthy pregnancy and the 12 weeks will fly by

    xx
     
  3. Pyrrhic

    Pyrrhic Well-Known Member

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    I had a very bad experience with a miscarriage (not that any are good) but I had some problems, and hemorraged and it was pretty awful. When I got pregnant again I felt like I could never relax. I've bled three times in this pregnancy too, the last time at 18 weeks.

    I think if you let yourself get stressed and worried then it will never get easier. You will worry until 12 weeks, and then until 24, and then until term, and then until birth, and then you will still worry every night that something will happen when they're in their cot, or when they're out the until the day you die really.

    Point is that I quickly realised that if I spent all my time worrying then I wouldn't enjoy any aspect of being a parent and I needed to understand that some things are beyond my control no matter what I want.
     
  4. charliesmom

    charliesmom Dad, daughter, 2 chis

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    Exceptionally said. Thank you for this statement. It's a great perceptive to get through m/c anxiety.
     
  5. happyfamily123

    happyfamily123 Expecting Baby #3

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    I had a m/c in 4/07 and it took me til last month to get pg again and it's been so hard to not stress and freak out. it's like we know how fast it can all be taken away. i had bleeding after bd and really freaked out. i just keep reminding myself that most mommies following a m/c have a full term healthy pregnancy. i just want to get past these early weeks, maybe then it'll be more real and i won't fret so much
     
  6. JASMAK

    JASMAK Mom of three

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    Well, I am bleeding and cramping now...
     
  7. I had a natural miscarriage in mid-July at 8wk4d. I am now almost six weeks pregnant and going for an early scan this Friday.

    JM
     
  8. Cariad_bach

    Cariad_bach mum to 2 boys and 2 girls

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    Hun are you ok?

    Praying for you hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx :hug:




    .........................so sorry hun, just read your other thread, sorry xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
  9. juliespencer9

    juliespencer9 Well-Known Member

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    i had m/c in aug this year and got preg 7/8 weeks later
     
  10. Noonie

    Noonie Well-Known Member

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    I had a MMC 09/07 and got my BFP yesterday - I swing from elation to pure panic but as others have said I am going to relax and enjoy this pg otherwise I am going to drive myself mad.
     
  11. roximarie

    roximarie Well-Known Member

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    :-( I am in exactly the same situation as you. I have had 2 back to back miscarriages, the last not diagnosed until 12 + 5 as a missed miscarriage. I had a D&C on 21st July.
    I am now 5 weeks and 2 days and spend half my life in the loo checking for blood.
    My dr has been really good and she is arranging for me to have an early scan so hopefully that will give me a bit of confidence.
    Good luck and chin up

    :hug:
     
  12. lesleyann

    lesleyann Mummy

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    i had a mc in june and now im 8wks preg again to be honest once i got past the 6wk mark i have not worryied im taking it one day at a time on a what ever happens will happen and it will happen for a reason but i do check everytime i go to the toilet for blood
     
  13. maddiwatts19

    maddiwatts19 Guest

    i had two miscarriages close together, and now i'm pregnant again!
    can happen!
    good luck hun!
    x
     

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