purple_turtle
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We women just can't win;
If you don't have a job or get pregnant "too young", you're criticized.
If you have a great job and start having children "too old", you're criticized.
It's sad that this is so often the case. On top of that, women who have children young are perceived as Vicky Pollards who just wanted to get a free council house, and women who want to experience life/enjoy their career first are viewed as somehow unnatural, and judged for not being 'maternal'. Each woman / couple's situation is different to the next, and while some women undoubtedly do fall in to these stereotypes, it is surely a minority. It is annoying that so much pressure is put on women through the media on this subject - men are rarely, if ever, criticised for delaying the decision to start a family, and yet their decisions will have an impact on when women have children. Gah, I'm going to stop there before I go off on a feminist rant