Anyone else...

[Emma.Gi]

Get upset thinking they're never gonna have a baby. I do especially when I hear about these people with 6 or 7 under 6 or something.

 

[genkigemini]

I have felt that way on and off for years! Don't worry... we will all have our time!

 

[Samo]

I do a lot! I think we all go through ups and downs during TTC. I know i am still a bit new to the whole journey of TTC, only on 4th cycle, and there are ladies out there trying for much longer...it gives me comfort that i am not the only one. I try not to worry about it too much, as i know the average states 5-8 months to conceive. I think i will manage but if i reach 6 months (half a year!) i don't know if i can say the same! I think i'll definitely start having concerns that i am 'broken'!

Like Genkigemini says, we will all have our chance, our little miracles good luck to you!

 

[Franjipan]

Yeah ive felt that way a lot, it's natural as its not been our turn yet but fingers crossed for us we will get our bfps soon. How long you been trying Emma? 8months this next cycle for me ...

 

[Tink1o5]

ya, i feel that way sometimes to but you gotta keep your head up, and not stress too much about it, cuz stress deffinatly does not help the TTC process

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[Lazy Leo]

Held my friend's nearly 3 day old today. And cried on the drive home....

 

[Tink1o5]

awww nic

 

[TrixieLox]

I do a lot! I think we all go through ups and downs during TTC. I know i am still a bit new to the whole journey of TTC, only on 4th cycle, and there are ladies out there trying for much longer...it gives me comfort that i am not the only one. I try not to worry about it too much, as i know the average states 5-8 months to conceive. I think i will manage but if i reach 6 months (half a year!) i don't know if i can say the same! I think i'll definitely start having concerns that i am 'broken'!

Like Genkigemini says, we will all have our chance, our little miracles good luck to you!

Know what you mean Samo. Am 4 months in too so know I can't panic yet but feel the fear bubbling to the surface sometimes (the fear that I might have fertility problems) and each time AF arrives, I feel the panic rise and have to kinda squash it down. If I don't get a BFP by early summer, I won't be able to keep those bubbles away anymore!!! x

 

[Chellebelle]

I cried in Tesco the other day. A guy walked last with his baby in the babyseat in the trolley, and she looked about 2 weeks old. He looked so happy and proud and he just couldn't stop smiling and taking his eyes off her... and I thought, I want to be in that position so much. The thought of what he must be feeling really made me well up and I had a little in the cheese section (typical).

You just have to think, it WILL be your turn soon, and when it is, it will mean so much and be so special.

 

[Carlyanne15]

looks like there are loads of us, feeling that way. All my friends have little ones and i would love it to be me!
Good luck one and all xxx

 

[NeyNey]

Oh hun, I have a meltdown about once a year. TBH I have a friend who has a lot of LO's and they are all close together, and I love spending time over there with them all. Because they love me just as much as I love them. She is a wonderful mother and has helped me on my journey so much by offering the best advice and tips I think anyone could.

Chin up.

 

[miel]

chin up girls we will get there! thinking of you all

 

[Lazy Leo]

awww nic

Thanks Tink, I think I needed that hug. AF due tomorrow and I think the hormones are kicking in worse than usual

I cried in Tesco the other day. A guy walked last with his baby in the babyseat in the trolley, and she looked about 2 weeks old. He looked so happy and proud and he just couldn't stop smiling and taking his eyes off her... and I thought, I want to be in that position so much. The thought of what he must be feeling really made me well up and I had a little in the cheese section (typical).

I know just how you feel Chellebelle, and sometimes just knowing that there are so many people feeling the same makes it a little easier, as least it does for me anyway

Here's some and hoping for some s to come our direction!

 

[avistar]

I get a good in all the time...I sometimes feel like I don't really have anyone to talk to about it because, it does take some couples a long time to conceive and you don't want to bother other people with it...(thus why I am on here so much!). I don't really bother my DH with it because he thinks that I am nutz about it all but I do worry and have to explain to him how lots of things can effect fertility and how the feminine body is...

It is perfectly normal to feel abnormal when you have been ttc and wanting a lil one for so long and there are like millions of new mommies everywhere! Keep positive and strong That is what is most important when ttc.

 

[loopylew]

i think we all feel the same way, thats why we're on here. Not many of the us on here are just starting out ttc, a lot of us have been for a few months, which is probably why we were searching on the net in the first place. This website keeps me going. Without it i would never have known people who are ttc as much as i am unlike friends etc who say they have been ttc a month or so before getting pg. We've been ttc for 6mths now after 11years on bcp, don't give up ladies xx we'll all get there xx

 

[keerthy]

right now am feeling the same!

 

[biteable]

Im another one,every month when a/f shows im gutted,due today got realy bad pains so another month gone.Oh says im obseesed with it,bought a cbfm for nxt month so fingers crossed,ive been trying for 8 mths since my m/c.

 

[SwissMiss]

wow do I hear you all... 'specially today, I've all but given up on the whole process. We've not been at it that long (officially, 4months), but i want it so badly and i'm dealing w/ a DH who wants kids but gets stressed out beyond performing... lately we get maybe 2 BDing sessions in a month?!?!? *sigh* I would absolutely LOSE IT if it weren't for this forum, seriously... to all of us ladies!

 

[bonfloss]

We posted at the same time! If you read my thread needing some support you will see you are not alone. Hang in there.

 

[Rachiebaby24]

Me too!! My mum says its beacuse im thinking about it too much...but how can you not think about it when you want it sooo much!

Two of my friends have just had babies....sometimes i feel like my nose is being rubbed in it...its so hard to be upbeat and hold someone else's baby when you wanna cry!!!!