SarandrewBean
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Now being someone who has occasionally experienced having weird, bad, vivid dreams I probably shouldn't be too alarmed or worried. But this dream this morning was terrible.
I'm 8 weeks and 4 days and have been having difficulty sleeping since about week 6 from what I can remember, don't sleep on stomach, sides hurt too much to sleep on and have ended up sleeping on my back which is uber uncomfy but still it's the only way I can sleep, except for last night where shock, my sides don't hurt to sleep on now, which I was kinda surprised at and worried also due to me thinking maybe a sign somethings happened to the baby? but anyway, thought I was in for a good nights sleep.
This morning at 6.40AM I woke up having difficulty breathing to which woke my OH up and then I burst out uncontrollably crying still thinking this dream was true, my cheeks were red (so gathering BP was way high) and I just kept crying - my dream was that I had an argument with my mother (which wouldn't be surprising we argue a fair amount due to us not having the most amazing relationship as always felt I've come 2nd to my brother, who I don't get on with anyway) and then suddenly, I don't know what of, but she died and I was shocked, hurt, pretty much feeling like my life wasn't worth living anymore and I was trying to talk to my dad crying to him that we had argued and that she had died being mad at me and she had died while I was mad at her and I never got to say sorry or anything, my dad then started laughing at me, which made me cry more and more which was when I woke up and the irregular breathing happened plus the uncontrollable crying.
I KNOW this is a dream, as soon as I woke up I rang my mother and she was telling me not to worry and not to be upset that she was fine and that apparently dreaming that someone had died is actually a sign of a birth??
I really don't know, but it's drained me so much it feels like I haven't rested all night and I'm pretty much going to feel like poo all day!
Has anyone else experienced this? And stupid question, but is there anything you can do to sort of stop these bad dreams?
I'm 8 weeks and 4 days and have been having difficulty sleeping since about week 6 from what I can remember, don't sleep on stomach, sides hurt too much to sleep on and have ended up sleeping on my back which is uber uncomfy but still it's the only way I can sleep, except for last night where shock, my sides don't hurt to sleep on now, which I was kinda surprised at and worried also due to me thinking maybe a sign somethings happened to the baby? but anyway, thought I was in for a good nights sleep.
This morning at 6.40AM I woke up having difficulty breathing to which woke my OH up and then I burst out uncontrollably crying still thinking this dream was true, my cheeks were red (so gathering BP was way high) and I just kept crying - my dream was that I had an argument with my mother (which wouldn't be surprising we argue a fair amount due to us not having the most amazing relationship as always felt I've come 2nd to my brother, who I don't get on with anyway) and then suddenly, I don't know what of, but she died and I was shocked, hurt, pretty much feeling like my life wasn't worth living anymore and I was trying to talk to my dad crying to him that we had argued and that she had died being mad at me and she had died while I was mad at her and I never got to say sorry or anything, my dad then started laughing at me, which made me cry more and more which was when I woke up and the irregular breathing happened plus the uncontrollable crying.
I KNOW this is a dream, as soon as I woke up I rang my mother and she was telling me not to worry and not to be upset that she was fine and that apparently dreaming that someone had died is actually a sign of a birth??
I really don't know, but it's drained me so much it feels like I haven't rested all night and I'm pretty much going to feel like poo all day!
Has anyone else experienced this? And stupid question, but is there anything you can do to sort of stop these bad dreams?